Sex Terms and Concepts Flashcards
Abstinence
Not having sex play
Abstinence Only Curricula
Sexuality education programs that advocate sexual abstinence before marriage. They do not provide information about contraception, safer sex, or sexual orientation.
Acquaintance Rape
Sexual intercourse coerced by someone known to the victim.
Adultery
Sexual intercourse between a married person and someone who is not their spouse.
Age of consent
The age at which one is considered old enough to decide to have sexual intercourse.
Age of majority
The age at which one becomes a legal adult.
Anal Intercourse
Sex play in which the penis enters the anus.
Androgyny
A gender identity that allows expression of both gender roles.
Anorexia
An eating disorder often caused by poor body image in which people, usually women, don’t eat or eat very little to remain or become thin.
Anorgasmia
The inability to have an orgasm.
Aphrodisiac
A substance that is suppose to increase sexual desire.
Asphyxophilia
A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on being strangled up to the point of passing out.
Autoerotic
Providing sexual stimulation for oneself.
Autoerotic Asphyxiation
Self-strangulation for sexual arousal.
Autonomy
The ability to freely exercise one’s own will.
Biastophilia
A paraphilia where sexual arousal is dependent on sexually attacking a nonconsenting, surprised, terrified, and struggling stranger. This is a type of rape, but most rapes are committed by normophilic men.
Binge Eating Disorder
Compulsive overeating.
Bisexual
One who is attracted to people of both genders.
Blue Balls
Genital aching may occur when men do not have an ejaculation following stimulation. Women may experience similar aches if they do not reach orgasm, but because of sexist influences in development of our language about sex, there is no common expression to describe a woman’s symptoms.
Body Image
One’s attitudes and feelings about one’s own body and appearance.
Bondage & Discipline
Sexual role play or behavior that includes elements of sadism or masochism. Often one partner is bound or leashed.
Bulimia
An eating disorder in which binge eating is followed by purging with laxatives and self-induced vomiting.
Celibacy
Not having sex paly.
Chastity Belt
A variety of devices designed to prevent women, men, or children from having sex. Used from medieval to modern times, these devices were also supposed to preserve morality. Some were meant to ensure fidelity in women in absence of their husband. Others were designed to prevent masturbation and nocturnal emissions.
Child Abuse
Sexual assault against a child by an older person.
Child Pornography
Images of children designed to be sexually arousing.
Circumcision
An operation to remove foreskin of the penis.
Climax
Orgasm
Cohabitation
Living together in a sexual relationship.
Coming Out
The process of accepting and being open about one’s sexual orientation.
Companionate Love
Affection and deep emotional attachment that may be erotic.
Comstock Act
An 1873 law that made it a federal crime to distribute anything considered “obscene, lewd, lascivious, indecently filthy, or vile” including sex education.
Continuous Abstinence
Having no sex play for long periods of time (months-years).
Corporal Punishment
A form of discipline that inflicts pain on one’s body.
Crossdresser
Women and men who like to occasionally wear various articles of clothing associated with the other gender for the fun of it.
Cultural Norm
An activity, belief, or value that is shared by members of a particular culture.
Culture
The shared beliefs, values, heritage, customs, norms, art, food, language, and rituals of a community.
Date Rape
Coerced sexual intercourse during a dating relationship.
Delayed Ejaculation
Commonly used term for inhibited orgasm in men.
Depression
The feeling of great sadness that takes control over one’s life.
Desire
A feeling of sexual attraction or arousal. The 1st stage of the sexual response cycle.
Diversity
The presence of many different kinds of people, including people of various racial and ethnic backgrounds, sexual orientations, and social classes.
Domestic Partnership
The committed, long-term relationship of two unmarried people who live together.
Dominance & Submission
Erotic activities that play out fantasies of power and powerlessness.
Dominance Culture
The group that holds political, ideological, and economic power in a diverse society.
Don Juanism
The desire by a man to have sex very frequently with many different partners.
Double Standard
An unequal set of moral standards, rules, or expectations that allows one group to have more privileges than another group within a society.
Dyspareunia
Painful intercourse for women that may be caused by hormonal imbalances, especially those that happen after menopause.
Early Ejaculation
Ejaculation occurring before a man wants it to occur.
Ejaculation
The moment when semen spurts out of the opening of the urethra in the glans of the penis.
Ejaculatory Inevitability
The moment during sexual excitement when a man cannot stop his ejaculation. The prostate begins contracting and pulsing out seminal fluid.
Emancipated Minor
A minor who has legal autonomy and usually lives on her or his own without financial support from parents or guardian.
Erectile Dysfunction
The inability to become erect or maintain an erection with a partner.
Erection
A “hard” penis when it becomes full of blood and stiffens.
Erogenous Zone
Any area of the body very sensitive to sensual touch.
Erotic
That which is sexually arousing.
Erotica
Sexually arousing imagery that is not considered pornographic, obscene, or offensive to the average person.
Erotophilia
Appreciation of the erotic.
Erotophobia
Fear and anxiety about the erotic.
Ethnocentric
The belief that one’s own country, culture, or ethnic group is superior to others.
Excitement
The body’s physical response to desire and to stimulation. The 2nd stage of the sexual response cycle.
Exhibitionism
A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on exposing the sex organs to those who will be surprised.
Exhibitionists
Women or men who expose their sex organs to other people without their consent, usually in public places.
Extramarital Sex
Sexual intercourse by a married person with someone other than their spouse.
Fake Orgasm
The pretense of having reached climax in order to end sex or please a partner.
Fantasy
A sexually arousing thought and mental image.
Female Circumcision
The practice of removing a girl’s clitoral hood, clitoris, and/or the labia. Often called female genital mutilation; it is practiced in some African, Near Eastern, and Southeast Asian cultures.
Feminine
Characteristics and ways of behaving that a culture associates with being a girl or woman.
Feminism
The belief that women and men have equal social, economic, sexual, and political rights.
Fetishism
A paraphilia in which certain objects, substances, or parts of the body become necessary for sexual arousal.
Fidelity
Strict observance of promises, especially of faithfulness.
Foreplay
Physical and sexual stimulation (kissing, touching, stroking, and massaging). Often happens in the excitement stage of the sexual response cycle. Often happens before intercourse, but can lead to orgasm without intercourse, in which case it can be called outercourse.
Formal Values
Socially sanctioned ideals for human behavior that may or may not be consistent with actual behaviors that are sanctioned.
Fornication
Sexual intercourse between unmarried people.
Gang Rape
Sexual assault committed by two or more people; also called fraternity or party rape.
Gay Bashing
Physical or verbal assaults on people who are perceived to be lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender.
Gay Liberation Movement
The movement to establish civil rights for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people.
Gay Rights
Civil rights for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people that are equal to those guaranteed to straight people.
Gender
One’s biological, social, or legal status as male or female.
Gender Assignment
Medical and legal description of one’s gender that is given at birth.
Gender Dysphoria
Conflicted feelings about one’s gender, gender assignment, and gender identity.
Gender Identity
Feelings about one’s gender and gender role.
Gender Norms
Social Standards about appropriate feminine and masculine behavior.
Gender Roles
Social norms about behaving feminine or masculine.
Gender Scripting
The socialization process by which one is conditioned to adopt certain behaviors, preferences, and attitudes considered appropriate for his or her gender.