ROLES AND RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN PARENTS AND KIDS Flashcards
CHANGES IN CHILDHOOD
What is modern childhood like?
Distinct life stage filled with innocence
CHANGES IN CHILDHOOD
Historical childhood
2
- Aries - in past childhood didn’t exist. No law protection
- Sims inherit titles
CHANGES IN CHILDHOOD
Modern childhood
2
- Now protected with laws
- Child centred
EMERGENCE OF MODERN CHILDHOOD
5
- Changes in social attitudes
- Social policies / children’s rights
- Child experts
- Concerns about kids
- Children are consumers
EMERGENCE OF MODERN CHILDHOOD
1. Changes in social attitudes
4
- Smaller families meet kids needs
- Shorter working hours
- Affluence
- Extension of education
EMERGENCE OF MODERN CHILDHOOD
2. Social policies / children rights
3
- Child acts
- Child welfare
- Child protection
EMERGENCE OF MODERN CHILDHOOD
3. Child experts
3
- Medical, psychological, educational
- Parents must have specific skills
- Super nanny, books etc
EMERGENCE OF MODERN CHILDHOOD
4. Concerns for kids
3
- Stranger danger
- Moral panic
- Cunningham - 8 year olds travel 1/90 to 25 years ago
EMERGENCE OF MODERN CHILDHOOD
4. Concerns about kids
Who said - 8 year olds travel 1/90 to 25 years ago
Cunningham
EMERGENCE OF MODERN CHILDHOOD
5. Children as consumers
2
- More consumer products catered to kids - pester power
- Parents spend £460 yearly on things kids don’t need
POWER RELATIONS BETWEEN KIDS AND PARENTS
Kids ARE powerful
Kids protected from low / child centred
POWER RELATIONS BETWEEN KIDS AND PARENTS
Kids ARE NOT powerful
5
- Gittens age patriarchy - adults powerful
- Children financially dependent til 16
- Kids have laws but parents make descision a
- Not full rights til 18
- Suffer abuse from adults
POWER RELATIONS BETWEEN KIDS AND PARENTS
Who made the age patriarchy
Gittens
Palmers toxic childhood
Why?
Junk food, tech, lack of love, parents working long hours
Study by NSPCC
1/20 sexually assaulted, 1/3 didn’t tell an adult
1/5 severe maltreatment
DIVERSITY IN CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES
CLASS
Gov stats
27% kids living in poverty
DIVERSITY IN CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES
GENDER
Ann Oakley
Manipulation
Canalisation
Verbal application
Different activities
DIVERSITY IN CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES
ETHNICITY
2
- Bhatti - Asian kids are more strictly brought up than other ethnicities
- Barn - south Asian and black families make less money, hard to raise kids. Extended family helps
DIVERSITY IN CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES
ETHNICITY
What did Bhatti say
Bhatti - Asian kids are more strictly brought up than other ethnicities
DIVERSITY IN CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES
What did barn say?
Barn - south Asian and black families make less money, hard to raise kids. Extended family helps
CHANGES IN PARENTING
Chambers 2 ways that good parenting changes after 1970s
- Growth of employment with women with kids
- Rise in divorce rates
CHANGES IN PARENTING
However households are still heavily ____ and ____
Gendered and traditional
CHANGES IN PARENTING
MOTHERHOOD
McCarthy
Women still feel like they need to conform to traditional norms to be a good mother
CHANGES IN PARENTING
MOTHERHOOD
Backs McCarthys point 4
- Primary responsibility for kids
- Ensure dads do good fathering
- Divorced = bad mothers
- Triple shift - paid work, emotional work, domestic work
CHANGES IN PARENTING
MOTHERHOOD
What is the triple shift?
Paid work, emotional labour, domestic labour
CHANGES IN PARENTING
MOTHERHOOD
Who said the minority of kids are raised by more than 1 mother figure
Park
CHANGES IN PARENTING
MOTHERHOOD
Park - minority of kids raised by more than 1 mother figure
Why is this false
-foster / adoptive
-biological and step
- poly
- same sex
CHANGES IN PARENTING
FATHERHOOD
Dads on dads study, 4 types of dads
- Enforcer - traditional and strict
- Entertainer - keep kids occupied as mothers work
- Useful dads - occasionally pitch in
- Fully involved - equal roles
CHANGES IN PARENTING
FATHERHOOD
Sevilla time budget diary
Compare time spent with parents today from 70s
Dads - now 35 mins, hard to be 5 mins
Mums - now 1 hour, used to be 15 mins
CHANGES IN PARENTING
FATHERHOOD
Fathers post divorce stats
- 1/4 not seen kids in 1 year
- 1/2 not paid child maintainable
CHANGES IN PARENTING
FATHERHOOD
Gray - dads want to spend time with kids. Not manual labour
2
•8/10 happy to combine work with childcare
•2/3 take paternity leave (2 weeks paid, 4 weeks unpaid)
CHANGES IN PARENTING
GRANDPARENTS
Grandparents DO help with childcare
Sociologist?
Statham
CHANGES IN PARENTING
GRANDPARENTS
Grandparents DO help with childcare
Statham
4
- Babysitting
- Multigenerational
- Abusive parents
- Sick
CHANGES IN PARENTING
GRANDPARENTS
Grandparents DO NOT help with childcare
Sociologist?
Chambers
CHANGES IN PARENTING
GRANDPARENTS
Grandparents DO NOT help with childcare
Chambers
4
- Grand parenting gendered (gendered) grandma
- Working
- Not live close by
- Divorce leads to decline of seeing grandparents