ROLES AND RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN PARENTS AND KIDS Flashcards

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CHANGES IN CHILDHOOD
What is modern childhood like?

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Distinct life stage filled with innocence

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CHANGES IN CHILDHOOD
Historical childhood
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  1. Aries - in past childhood didn’t exist. No law protection
  2. Sims inherit titles
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CHANGES IN CHILDHOOD
Modern childhood
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  1. Now protected with laws
  2. Child centred
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EMERGENCE OF MODERN CHILDHOOD
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  1. Changes in social attitudes
  2. Social policies / children’s rights
  3. Child experts
  4. Concerns about kids
  5. Children are consumers
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EMERGENCE OF MODERN CHILDHOOD
1. Changes in social attitudes
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  1. Smaller families meet kids needs
  2. Shorter working hours
  3. Affluence
  4. Extension of education
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EMERGENCE OF MODERN CHILDHOOD
2. Social policies / children rights
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  1. Child acts
  2. Child welfare
  3. Child protection
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EMERGENCE OF MODERN CHILDHOOD
3. Child experts
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  1. Medical, psychological, educational
  2. Parents must have specific skills
  3. Super nanny, books etc
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EMERGENCE OF MODERN CHILDHOOD
4. Concerns for kids
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  1. Stranger danger
  2. Moral panic
  3. Cunningham - 8 year olds travel 1/90 to 25 years ago
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EMERGENCE OF MODERN CHILDHOOD
4. Concerns about kids
Who said - 8 year olds travel 1/90 to 25 years ago

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Cunningham

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EMERGENCE OF MODERN CHILDHOOD
5. Children as consumers
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  1. More consumer products catered to kids - pester power
  2. Parents spend £460 yearly on things kids don’t need
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POWER RELATIONS BETWEEN KIDS AND PARENTS
Kids ARE powerful

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Kids protected from low / child centred

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POWER RELATIONS BETWEEN KIDS AND PARENTS
Kids ARE NOT powerful
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  1. Gittens age patriarchy - adults powerful
  2. Children financially dependent til 16
  3. Kids have laws but parents make descision a
  4. Not full rights til 18
  5. Suffer abuse from adults
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POWER RELATIONS BETWEEN KIDS AND PARENTS
Who made the age patriarchy

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Gittens

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Palmers toxic childhood
Why?

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Junk food, tech, lack of love, parents working long hours

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Study by NSPCC

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1/20 sexually assaulted, 1/3 didn’t tell an adult
1/5 severe maltreatment

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DIVERSITY IN CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES
CLASS
Gov stats

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27% kids living in poverty

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DIVERSITY IN CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES
GENDER

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Ann Oakley
Manipulation
Canalisation
Verbal application
Different activities

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DIVERSITY IN CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES
ETHNICITY
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  1. Bhatti - Asian kids are more strictly brought up than other ethnicities
  2. Barn - south Asian and black families make less money, hard to raise kids. Extended family helps
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DIVERSITY IN CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES
ETHNICITY
What did Bhatti say

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Bhatti - Asian kids are more strictly brought up than other ethnicities

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DIVERSITY IN CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES
What did barn say?

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Barn - south Asian and black families make less money, hard to raise kids. Extended family helps

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CHANGES IN PARENTING
Chambers 2 ways that good parenting changes after 1970s

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  1. Growth of employment with women with kids
  2. Rise in divorce rates
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CHANGES IN PARENTING
However households are still heavily ____ and ____

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Gendered and traditional

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CHANGES IN PARENTING
MOTHERHOOD
McCarthy

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Women still feel like they need to conform to traditional norms to be a good mother

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CHANGES IN PARENTING
MOTHERHOOD
Backs McCarthys point 4

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  1. Primary responsibility for kids
  2. Ensure dads do good fathering
  3. Divorced = bad mothers
  4. Triple shift - paid work, emotional work, domestic work
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CHANGES IN PARENTING
MOTHERHOOD
What is the triple shift?

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Paid work, emotional labour, domestic labour

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CHANGES IN PARENTING
MOTHERHOOD
Who said the minority of kids are raised by more than 1 mother figure

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CHANGES IN PARENTING
MOTHERHOOD
Park - minority of kids raised by more than 1 mother figure
Why is this false

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-foster / adoptive
-biological and step
- poly
- same sex

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CHANGES IN PARENTING
FATHERHOOD
Dads on dads study, 4 types of dads

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  1. Enforcer - traditional and strict
  2. Entertainer - keep kids occupied as mothers work
  3. Useful dads - occasionally pitch in
  4. Fully involved - equal roles
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CHANGES IN PARENTING
FATHERHOOD
Sevilla time budget diary

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Compare time spent with parents today from 70s
Dads - now 35 mins, hard to be 5 mins
Mums - now 1 hour, used to be 15 mins

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CHANGES IN PARENTING
FATHERHOOD
Fathers post divorce stats

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  1. 1/4 not seen kids in 1 year
  2. 1/2 not paid child maintainable
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CHANGES IN PARENTING
FATHERHOOD
Gray - dads want to spend time with kids. Not manual labour
2

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•8/10 happy to combine work with childcare
•2/3 take paternity leave (2 weeks paid, 4 weeks unpaid)

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CHANGES IN PARENTING
GRANDPARENTS
Grandparents DO help with childcare
Sociologist?

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CHANGES IN PARENTING
GRANDPARENTS
Grandparents DO help with childcare
Statham
4

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  1. Babysitting
  2. Multigenerational
  3. Abusive parents
  4. Sick
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CHANGES IN PARENTING
GRANDPARENTS
Grandparents DO NOT help with childcare
Sociologist?

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CHANGES IN PARENTING
GRANDPARENTS
Grandparents DO NOT help with childcare
Chambers
4

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  1. Grand parenting gendered (gendered) grandma
  2. Working
  3. Not live close by
  4. Divorce leads to decline of seeing grandparents