Rogers Flashcards
Roger’s Theory
1- Humanistic – holistic theory.
2- Actualizing tendency.
3- Formative tendency: All matter evolves from simpler to more
complex forms.
4- Condition for growth: Unconditional love – authenticity, unconditional acceptance, & empathy.
5- Importance of self-concept in personality formation.
self-concept is also known as _____-______
self-image
Self-concept is _________ of our personality
approximation
The disparity between self-concept & real self is called _____________
incongruence
When does incongruence become a problem?
When the disparity gap between self-concept and real self is big
Origin of incongruence
- Assumption: we all need to be loved by others.
- Conditional love = affection + love conditional to living up to others’ expectations.
- Unconditional love = affection + love NOT dependent upon what
we do / who we are. - The consequence of conditional love: any self-aspect inconsistent with
others’ expectations is distorted»_space;> gradual creation of global
incongruence.
What happens as people experience conditional love?
They’ll bend their self-image to become what that other person wants them to be, which results in more incongruence
The healthy personality
Unconditional love»_space;> congruence self-concept / real self»_space;> Y
adjustment/actualization»_space;> Healthy personality.
Healthy individuals = ____ __ ______
persons of tomorrow
According to Rogers, what are the traits of a healthy personality?
- Coherent.
- Spontaneous.
- Constant state of evolution.
- Freshness of attitude.
- Open to new experiences.
- Self-confident.
- Greater richness of experience.
- In harmony with themselves.
- Authentic in relations with others.
The unhealthy personality
Conditional love»_space;> incongruence self-concept / real self»_space;> acting
in concordance with self-concept»_space;> distortion of real self»_space;> fake
(unhealthy) personality.
according to Rogers, what are the traits for an unhelathy personality?
- Phony.
- Stagnating.
- Unauthentic.
- Self-concealed.
- Low self-esteem.
- Inconsistent/rigid behavior (forget about fake self temporarily/walking on eggshells)
- “Defensive” personality (“If you look too close you’ll see that I’m fake”)
People with Y problems are incongruent because of:
lack of unconditional love
When it comes to Rogers’ theory, what is the main goal of phsychotherapy?
decrease incongruence by exposing client to
unconditional love
What are the 3 conditions for reduction of congruence?
- congruent therapist (being real and genuine)
- Empathetic listening
- unconditional positive regard
- unconditional = no condition for acceptance
- positive= wamr + caring relationship
- regard = close relationship in which therapist sees client as being important