Relationships and Family Flashcards
What happens first at a wedding?
- The bride arrives at the church and is escorted to the front.
- The priest gives a talk on the importance of marriage before asking if anyone objects.
- The couple then exchange vows and give each other a ring
- Hymns will be sung and a reading from the Bible
- They will then sign the register, making the marriage legal
What are vows?
These are solemn promises that the couple make to each other
What do the rings symbolise?
Never ending love
Why do people choose to marry?
- They wish to make a public declaration of their love
- They want to show life long commitment to each other
- They want to celebrate that love with their family and friends
What do Christians feel about marriage?
It is a gift from God and their wish to honour Him
When will a couple be allowed to legally marry?
After an announcement of their intention to marry is made on three consecutive Sundays before the wedding; this is called the reading of the banns
What would happen if a couple wish to marry quickly?
A special dispensation from the local Bishop will be necessary
What does the priests remind the couple of?
The importance of their vows to one another
Who do the guests act as?
Witnesses to the marriage - legally only two witnesses are required
Why will Christians marry in a Church?
It is considered to be God’s house
Where will the service take place?
In front of the altar
Why is there are cross on the altar?
It reminds Christians of the sacrifice Jesus made for them
What is the Sacrament of Marriage?
A visible sign of grace (blessings) from God. God is actually present, pouring his love into the couple.
What are the features of Christian marriage?
- Sacrament (God is part of the marriage)
- Permanent (the marriage contract can never be broken)
- Exclusive (must be faithful to each other)
- Life-giving (must intend to have children - procreative)
What is the first step of marriage?
Questions - before the couple make their vows, they are asked three solemn questions - about their free choice, about loving each other for life and about accepting children lovingly from God
Their Christian marriage is not real unless it is based on free consent. The couple make public their wish to love each other - in a life-long and life-giving way