Relationships and families Flashcards
Key facts
Muslims ses the extended family as the basis of the ummah
Many Muslims believe Allah created marriage for the sharing of love and companionship
It is important for Muslim families that parents should be respected throughout their lives and into old age
What does Islam teach on same sex marriage?
Homosexuality is forbidden as it is seen as a threat to society as it undermines the family unit
In Islam, same sex marriage is forbidden as in the Quran it says sex should only take place between a man and a woman as procreation is possible. However, procreation is not possible in a homosexual relationship so its forbidden.
In the Quran it says: “You commit a shameful deed… You lust after men instead of women!”
Islam teaches that marriage is between a man and a woman for companionship and protection. Same-sex marriage does not allign with the purpose of marriage in Islam, which is to create a family and uphold societal values.
In Islam, same-sex marriage is forbidden as Islam teaches that marriage should take place between a man and a woman for companionship and procreation. Same-sex marriage does not allign with the purpose of marriage in Islam which is to create a family as same-sex couples cannot procreate. Also, in the Quran it says “You commit a shameful deed… you lust after men instead of women” which prohibits same-sex marriage.
In Islam, same-sex marriage is forbidden because marriage should be between a man and a woman for companionship and procreation. Same-sex couples cannot have children naturally, so it goes against the purpose of marriage. The Qur’an says, “You commit a shameful deed… you lust after men instead of women,” showing it is not allowed.
What do Muslims believe on sex before marriage?
Many Muslims believe that sex is a gift from Allah, and that the best place for a sexual relationship is within marriage since your spouse should be a source of comfort.
The Quran also teaches that Muslims should be chaste and avoid zina.
“When a husband and wife share intimacy it is rewarded and a blessing from Allah” - Hadith
What do muslims believe on sex outside of marriage (adultery)?
Many Muslims believe that sex outside of marriage is wrong. This is because Muslims believe that marriage is a sacred contract and adultery breaks the trust and commitment between spouses
“And do not come near to adultery, for it is an outrageous act”
What are Muslim views against Contraception?
Muslims are against Contraception as they believe that children are a gift from Allah. Therefore, some Muslims oppose contraception as it interferes with Allah’s plan and it shows you are rejecting his gift.
“Marry the one who is fertile and loving, for I will boast of your great numbers.”
“He blesses whoever He wills with daughters, and blesses whoever He wills with sons,”
What is the purpose of family?
To procreate
To raise children in a Christian/Muslim faith
To provide a secure environment for family through marriage
Many Christians believe that marriage is a commitment for couples to love and support each other and share in the care and upbringing of children.
Islamic teachings on relationships (2)
Sex is an act of worship - it is a gift from Allah so people can procreate
Sexual relationships fullfill physical, emotional and spiritual needs and should only be between a man and a woman
Non religious views on sex
Many atheists agree that adultery is wrong as it breaks trust and promises
Many atheists are accepting of sex before marriage as it does nothing wrong
Christian views on sex before marriage
Some Liberal Christians agree with it as it is a valid expression of love for each other, particularly if the couple are intending to marry
For many Christians sex expresses a deep lifelong union that requires the commitment of marriage
Paul warns against sexual immorality
“whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body” Bible
Christian views on sex outside of marriage
It is against one of the 10 commandments : “You shall not commit adultery”
Breaks promises and trust before God and make the relationship unstable
Nature of families in islam
The extended family is the basis of the ummah
The family shapes the moral values and character of children
Muslims care for the elderly with kindness and respect to repay for how they cared for them
Traditional - Different roles, men are expected to protect and provide for the family whereas women should stay at home and look after the family
Modern muslim household, both parents work and share responsibility in the same household. This means that men and women share the same roles.
Nature of families in christianity
People lived in extended family
Christians must love each another
Both religion view on same sex parents
Forbidden in islam as homosexuality is morally wrong and they wouldn’t set a good example for their children
Some Christians think it is important for children to be in a loving family regardless of parents gender
Christian views on same sex marriage
1) Love between all people including same sex couples should be celebrated
And the bible teaches to respect everyone “Love thy neighbour”
Homosexuality is natural
God intended marriage to be between a man and a woman and it is a part of God’s plan
“That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife”
“If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination”
Same sex couples cannot have children naturally which is the purpose of marriage
Islamic teachings on divorce
It is allowed as Allah values your opinion
“And if they decide on divorce - then indeed, Allah is Hearing and Knowing”
Divorce is allowed but is not recommended and it should he the last resort.
“Of all the things Allah has made lawful, he hates divorce the most” Hadith
Some Muslims do not do divorce as Muhummad SAW didn’t practice it. Muslims will follow the teachings of Muhummad, so if he didn’t practice it many Muslims won’t. Also, divorce can ruin family ties and cause tension, Muhummad SAW encouraged peace.
Christian teachings on divorce
Liberal Christians allow divorce as long as the couple take vows seriously. They believe that couples should be allowed a second chance of happiness particularly if the partner had committed adultery or sexual abuse as God is all-loving and forgiving
Traditional christians do not allow divorce as they believe that marriage is permanent and vows made in God’s presence must be kept.
“Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man she commits adultery
Explain two religious beliefs about the nature and purpose of family (islam)
Many Muslims live in extended families. Based on cultural traditions, many Muslims see the extended family as the foundation of Islamic society. Part of that duty is to look after older members of the family who have looked after them as children: “Lord have mercy on them, just as they cared for me when I was little,” (Qur’an 17:24).
The purpose of the Muslim family can also include raising children in the Islamic faith. Mothers will often pray with their children at home during Friday prayers. The mother’s role is seen as very important in Islam: “Heaven is under the feet of the mothers,” (Hadith of Prophet Muhammad).
