Relationships and Families Flashcards
Define heterosexual
- Having/wanting sexual relations with someone of a different sex
Define homosexual
- Having/wanting sexual relations with someone of the same sex
Define celibate
- Choosing not to have sexual relationships at all or for extended periods of time
- e.g. being a priest or nun.
Define chastity
- Choosing not to have sexual relationships for now
- e.g. waiting until you are married.
Define human sexuality
- Refers how to people express themselves as sexual beings
Define the age of consent and what is the age of consent?
- When you are legally old enough to freely agree to have sex
- 16
What are the contemporary British attitudes to human sexuality?
- Today sex before marriage, multiple sexual partners, children outside of marriage, adultery or homosexual relationships are more accepted.
- Today the age of consent is 16 years old.
It protects anyone under the age from exploitation and abuse. - Islamic teachings don’t specify an age of consent.
- Sex should only take place within a marriage and dating is not encouraged.
Describe Christian views to human sexuality
- Part of God’s plan for humans to have sex.
- Man and women should ‘increase in number’
- Some Christians believe that they should do the most loving thing therefore their teachings should adapt into a changing world. (Homosexuality/ sex before marriage)
Describe Muslims views towards human sexuality
- It is a way for humans to express themselves.
- It is natural.
- Forming heterosexual relationships should lead to having children.
- It is part of being human.
- Sex is for pleasure not just reproduction.
- Humans have natural sexual instincts.
- Human body is created by God and all parts have a purpose.
- Being celibate is wrong.
- Sex between husband and wife is a blessing from God.
Describe Christian belief about heterosexual relationships in terms of marriage
- Marriage is the only valid place for heterosexual because it is part of God’s plan for human
- Christains’ view about sex before marriage vary but all are against unfaithfulness
State Christian quote to support heterosexual marriage
- “That is why a man leaves his father and mother is united to his wife, and they become one flesh”
Describe Muslims beliefs about heterosexual relationships
- Heterosexual relationships are the normal pattern of behaviour; Muslims are expected to marry and have a family
- The only permitted form of sexual relationship in Islam is between a husband and wife considered a blessing from God
State a Muslims quote which supports heterosexual marriage
- “Marry those who are single among you for (God) will develop their moral traits (through marriage)”
Describe contemporary British attitudes towards homosexuality
- Today homosexual relationships are more accepted.
- It is now legal to be in a homosexual relationship and couples can now marry or convert civil partnership into marriage if they wish,
- Some Muslims believe that homosexuality should not be accepted in Islam.
Describe Christian beliefs against homosexual relationships
- Some Christians oppose homosexual relationships - the Bible says sex between two men is forbidden and Paul taught that the sexually immoral, including ‘men who have sex with men’, will not inherit the kingdom of God
- Against God’s command to increase in number- can’t reproduce.
- Not allowed to get married within a Church.
Christians views accepting homosexuality
- No detail on homosexual relationships between women as there is no penetrative sex.
Homosexual relationship aren’t sinful (as long as sex is not involved) - Church of England allows homosexuality as long as they are faithful and committed to one another.
- Some believe Bible teachings need to be updates to this modern society- therefore making it acceptable.
- The Catholic Church teaches that homosexuals are not sinful, but should remain chaste (not have sex) to avoid sinful acts.
Christian quote against homosexuality
- “ Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a women; that is detestable
Describe Muslims beliefs (compare to Christian beliefs) about homosexual relationships
- Most Muslims believe the Qur’an and Hadith teach that homosexuality is against God’s will and forbidden.
- Many Muslims agree with those Christians who believe that homosexual relationships are against the natural law as they cannot produce children, therefore are not what between religious God intended.
- Many Muslims also believe that homosexuals should control their actions and not break God’s law. * Otherwise, Muslims believe, the person will have to answer to God on the Day of Judgement.
- Some Muslims agree with more liberal Christians who accept homosexual relationships that are loving and committed. For example, the Church of England welcomes homosexuals living in committed relationships, but does not allow marriage in church.
State a Muslims quote against homosexuality
- Must you, unlike [other] people, lust after males and abandon the wives that God has created for you? You are exceeding all bounds.
What do the Anglican and Catholic Churches teach about sex before marriage?
- The Anglican and Catholic Churches (and Islam) teach that sex before marriage (sex between two single unmarried people) is wrong.
What do all religions teach about sex outside marriage?
- All religions teach that sex outside marriage or adultery (voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and someone who is not their husband or wife) is wrong.
Define adultery
- Having an affair
Describe contemporary attitudes sex before/outside of marriage in Britain
- Sex before marriage is commonly accepted.
- Films, TV programmes, books and magazines reflect the belief that it is usual for couples who are dating to have sex.
- Sometimes young people can deal pressure to have sex before marriage.
- People want to make sure they are sexually compatible before they marry,
- Young British Muslims can sometimes feel caught in-between values of their religion and values from the culture they live in.
Define fornication
- the sexual act between unmarried people
Describe Christian beliefs against sex before marriage
- For many Christians sex expresses a deep, life long union that requires the commitment of marriage.
- Paul warns against sexual immorality: “whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. Do you not know your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit?”, if you have casual sex you are damaging your body and mind
- They also believe that God ‘married’ Adam and Eve – he ‘blessed them’ before he told them to multiply so sex before marriage is wrong.
- Some Catholics believe that God made sex for married love and it should only happen to make children.
- You should be sexually pure before marriage, sex should not be for temporary pleasure
- Wrong to use people for sex as it is irreponsible
Quote for sex before marriage
- “Every sexual act must be within the framework of marriage,”
Describe Christians views for sex before marriage
- Some liberal Christians, however, think that sex before marriage can be a valid expression of love for each other, particularly if the couple are intending marriage.
Describe Muslim beliefs about sex before marriage
- Muslims believe sex is a gift from God that must be managed responsibly within marriage.
*The Qur’an forbids sex before marriage; under Islamic law (Shari’ah), sex before marriage is considered a serious sin, like adultery and rape.
Describe Muslim beliefs about sex before marriage
- Muslims believe sex is a gift from God that must be managed responsibly within marriage.
*The Qur’an forbids sex before marriage; under Islamic law (Shari’ah), sex before marriage is considered a serious sin, like adultery and rape. - Sex should not cause harm- Children could be born out of wedlock.
- Casual sex could lead to promiscuity and other evils such as rape and deception.
Describe Christian beliefs about sex outside marriage
- Adultery breaks vows Christian couples make before God and threatens the stable relationship needed for their children’s security.
- It is against one of the Ten Commandments: “You shall not commit adultery.”
- It is against Jesus’ teaching that lust, which could lead to adultery, is wrong: “Anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart”
- Jesus forgave a woman caught in adultery but ordered her to leave her life of sin.
- Lust is one of the 7 deadly sins and people should restrain themselves. St. Paul said if you cannot restrain your lustful thoughts you should get
married - It is wrong because it involves secrecy, lies and a betrayal of trust.
- It can effect children and cause pain to all concerned.
- Adultery breaks the promises made before God during the wedding.
- It threatens the relationship between parents and therefore children can suffer.
- Marriage is unbreakable that demands total faithfulness.
Describe Muslim beliefs about sex outside marriage
- Muslims should avoid situations that could lead to sexual sins.
- The Qur’an forbids adultery:
- Married couples should not have to go outside of marriage for fulfilment.
- Adultery often destroys marriage because of betrayal of trust. - it goes against the promises made at the wedding.
- In some Muslim countries under Shari’ah law, the punishment for adultery is death by stoning
Muslims quotes against sex outside of marriage
- “And do not go anywhere near adultery: it is an outrage, and an evil path”
- “A man should not stay with a woman in seclusion unless he is a Dhu-Mahram”
Define contraception
- methods used to prevent pregnancy
Name the three types of contraception
- Artificial - they are actual physical things that can help prevent pregnancy (e.g. condoms, the pill)
- Natural - involves contraceptive practices or behaviours aimed at limiting the chance of pregnancy. (e.g. rhythm method)
- Permanent - are operations that prevent the production of sex cells (sterilisation)
Describe the attitude towards contraception in contemporary Britain
- In Britain, there is widespread acceptance of contraception to help family planning, prevent unwanted pregnancies, reduce global overpopulation and prevent the spread of sexually transmitted infections.
Define family planning
- Controlling how many children a couple has and when they have them
Describe Christian attitudes towards contraception and family planning
- All Christian Churches believe having children is God’s greatest gift to married couples
- But there are times when it may be acceptable to avoid bringing children into the world.
Describe Catholic and Orthodox attitudes towards contraception and family planning
- Artificial contraception goes against natural law/purpose of marriage and can encourage selfishness/infidelity.
- The purposes of sex (having children and expressing love) should not be separated.
- “Every sexual act should have the possibility of creating new life.”
- The Orthodox Church agrees with the Catholic position but recognises individuals’ needs.
Describe Christian views against contraception
- It should not be used to limit their families.
- Contraception goes against natural law.
- God’s purpose for marriage is to have a family.
- Prevents God’s plan.
- Sex is for making new life- therefore the two purposes should not be separated.
- It encourages selfishness and infidelity.
What methods of contraception do Catholics and Orthodox permit?
- Rhythm method/ avoiding sex at fertile times of month
(Catholic) - Non-abortive forms of contraception only
(Orthodox)
Describe Christian views for contraception
- Economic, environmental, physical and physiological reasons are acceptable reasons for not bring children into the world.
- Catholic church is not against family planning, but they should use the rhythm method to space out their children.
- Natural methods are not reliable and medical methods should be used as long as they do not cause an abortion.
- Help against STI’’s
- Unfair to bring unwanted babies into the world or children that you cannot take care of.
- Allowed if it affects the mothers health.
Describe Anglican and Non-Conformist attitudes to family planning and contraception
- People should only have as many children as they can care for
- Allow contraception to enable couples to develop relationship first/space out pregnancies to avoid harming mother’s health.
- The Anglican Lambeth Conference approved artificial contraception used “in the light of Christian principles” (1930).
- Preference for non-abortive forms of contraception
Describe Muslim attitudes towards family planning and contraception
- Contraception is not for unmarried people, but may be used for family planning,
- e.g. if a wife’s health is at risk, to space out pregnancies or to avoid serious financial difficulties.
- Some prefer natural methods, but artificial contraception is fine as long as it does not cause an abortion or prevent children altogether (permanent forms).
Muslim arguments FOR contraception
- No direct teaching in the Qur’an, but some scholars say this text shows that God does not want to make life difficult for people so would accept contraception: “God wishes to lighten your burden; man was created weak”
- Some hadith suggest Muhammad was aware of birth control and accepted it in appropriate circumstances.
- Allowed within the context of a marriage.
- A couple should be able to decide when to start a family and also how many children to have.
- Acceptable for the mother’s health, to help space out pregnancies or to avoid serious financial difficulties.
Muslim arguments AGAINST contraception
- Some Muslims think contraception goes against God’s will and God gives people strength to cope with any children.
- These Muslims may quote this text, which is against killing infants once they are born, and argue it also applies to contraception:
- “Do not kill your children for fear of poverty - we shall provide for them and for you - killing them is a great sin.”
Define marriage
- Marriage is a legal union between a man and a woman (or in some countries, including the UK, two people of the same sex) as partners in a relationship.