Relationships Flashcards
Explain the social exchange theory
- All human behaviour is a series of exchanges, people try to max rewards and min costs
- People exchange resources with the expectation they will gain a profit
Give 2 examples of costs
- money
- time
Give 2 examples of rewards
- sex
- care
What does commitment depend on?
The probability of the outcome
How does the social exchange theory help explain why people stay in abusive relationships?
When the investments are high, and the alternatives are low, the relationship can still be considered a profit.
Comparison level
- The standard against which we judge all our relationships.
- A product of experiences in other relationships and our general views of what we expect from the exchange.
What happens if the we judge the profit will exceed our CL?
We will judge the exchange as worthwhile and the partner will be seen as more attractive
What happens if the profit will be negative?
We will be dissatisfied with the exchange, and the partner will be seen as less attractive.
Explain the comparison level for attractiveness
Weighing up potential increase in rewards from a new partner, minus any costs associated with the current one.
What are the 4 stages of relationships, according to the social exchange theory?
- Sampling
- Bargaining
- Commitment
- Institutionalisation
What does sampling involve? (2)
- Considering costs
- comparing to other potential relationships
What does bargaining involve? (2)
- Giving/recieving rewards
- considering deeper commitment
What does commitment involve? (3)
- Intimacy increases
- Relationship becomes more predictable
- Costs lower
What does institutionalisation involve?
Norms are established as pattern of exchange within relationship
Give 2 strengths of the social exchange theory.
- Relevant to different types of relationships
- Explains individual differences
Give 3 weaknesses of the social exchange theory.
- Does not address why people leave relationships without alternatives, or how big the disparity needs to be for someone to leave a relationship.
- Exclusively focuses on individual perspectives, ignores social aspects of relationships
- Selfish in nature, may only apply to individualist cultures
Describe attachment between infant and caregiver, according to Bowlby
A behaviour pattern rooted in behaviour and biology.
What is the purpose of attachment? What is it the same regardless of?
- To keep the infant safe through closeness to caregiver to allow infant to explore and experiment within a safe context and to develop a loving and mutual relationship.
- Ethnicity or culture
What type of drive is attachment? What does this allow?
- Innate
- Long-term benefits and ensures we stay close to food and protection
What does adaptive mean? (attachment)
It increases the chances of survival and production
Define primary attachment
- Significantly important attachment
- All other relationships form a hierarchy
- The person that responds most sensitively to social releasers
- Forms the foundations for emotional development, self-esteem and future relationships
Secondary attachments
- ‘Safety net’
- We lack social skills without them
Internal working model
- Group of concepts a child learns regarding what to expect from relationships
- Depends on the type of trust e.g. trust/uncertainty
Maternal deprivation hypothesis
When a child doesn’t form an attachment during the sensitive period or when the attachment is disrupted, this results in serious, long-term developmental consequences later in life.
Why are strong male and female features attractive, according to research?
They indicate good health
What do increased levels of hormones support?
What could survival to adulthood mean?
The immune system.
A strong immune system
What is facial symmetry seen as?
More attractive
Give 5 factors of attractiveness
- Physical attractiveness
- Mutual liking
- Similarity
- Exposure
- Proximity
What do are physically attractive people also seen to be and have? (2)
- Psychologically attractive
- Desirable character traits
How is context important in attractiveness?
Perceptions of attractiveness change with circumstance