Relationships Flashcards
What do women look for most in men? (Matching Hypothesis)
- Square jaw
- small eyes
- thin lips
Describe the Halo Effect
Research shows people perceived attractive also thought to be more sociable, interesting exciting and sexually warm
What did Walster find in reference to the Matching hypothesis?
- We’re attracted to people with similar levels of attractiveness as us
- also likely to like those who match us in other ways e.g. IQ
- prestige and low self esteem also play a part
What did Murstein find in reference to the Matching hypothesis?
99 engaged couples and randomers
Independent raters rated attractiveness of each individual
Couples rated their own AND partners attractiveness
Couples got similar ratings (similar market value), randomers got less similar ratings
What did Silverman find in reference to the Matching hypothesis?
Observation study in naturalistic dating settings
Observed couples 18-22
Raters scored attractiveness of opposite sex
Extremely high degree of similarly within couples
Evaluation of the matching hypothesis
- Reductionist = doesn’t account for role of 3rd parties/friends and family/attitude/body language
- Silverman’s research = experimenter bias (saw couples TOGETHER)
- culturally specific = arranged marriages families pick suitor on benefits/opportunities
- Silverman’s research is ecologically valid as its a natural experiment preventing demand characteristics
Outline social exchange theory
Minimise cost and maximise reward
- Comparison level - compare to previous relationships
- comparison level of alternatives - compare to alternatives we could have
Evaluate SET
- Mechanist approach - what’s a cost/reward?
- heterosexual bias
- culture - e.g arranged marriages
- Helps explain abusive relationships
- doesn’t explain why some leave rewarding relationships
Outline Equity Theory
People want fairness (give as much as you get) if not = dissatisfaction
A relationship is maintained if the loser feels there’s a chance of restoring fairness
Evaluate Equity Theory
- Culture= equity not the norm for all
- Realistic? = not based on economics!
- Social Context = economic theories don’t account for religion/health/upbringing
- Gender differences = Dwyer: Lesbians value equity more (women)
What are the 6 stages of Rollie and Ducks breakdown theory?
- Dissatisfaction
- Intra-psychic
- Dyadic
- Social
- Grave-dressing
- Resurrection
EXPLAIN Rollie and Duck
- One partner dissatisfied
- Intra-psychic = increased dissatisfaction
- Dyadic = discussion
- Social = talk to friends/family and discuss the social implications
- Grave dressing = try to make themselves look good
- What have I learned?
Evaluate Rollie and Duck
- Looks at AFTER
- Indiv diff = rigid and assumes all go through same stages
- Could use to create intervention
- Doesn’t explain WHY relationships breakdown
- Tashiro and Frazier - undergrads reported distress and personal growth (resurrection)
What are the 5 steps of Lees model?
- Dissatisfaction
- Exposure (brought into open)
- Negotiation (discuss)
- Resolution (try to find solutions)
- Termination (break up)
Denying Everything Never Resolves Troubles
Evaluate Lee’s model
- only relates to pre-marital
- doesn’t explain WHY
- Individual differences
- can’t explain abusive relationships