Relationships Flashcards
Evolutionary explanations of partner preferences (AO1)
- partner preferences are driven by sexual selection. This means that both males and females choose partners in order to maximise their chances of reproductive success. Individuals with traits that maximise reproductive success (e.g. strength, height, aggression, wide hips etc.) are more likely to survive and pass on the genes responsible for their success.
- Males have gametes (sperm cells), which are able to reproduce quickly with little energy expenditure. Female gametes (eggs or ova) are much less plentiful and require far more energy to produce. This difference (anisogamy) means that males and females use distinct strategies to choose a partner.
Intra-sexual selection (AO1)
Intra-sexual selection is where members of one sex (usually male) compete
with one another for access to the other sex. This leads to male-female
dimorphism, which is accentuation of secondary sexual characteristics in those
with greater reproductive fitness.
Anisogamy suggests that a male’s best evolutionary strategy is to have as many partners as possible. Males must compete with other males to present themselves as the most attractive mate to fertile female partners.
Males might engage in mate guarding where they guard their female partner to prevent them mating with anyone else. Males are very fearful of having to raise another man’s child, this is called cuckoldry.
Inter-sexual selection
Inter-sexual selection is where members of one sex (usually female) choose from available prospective mates (usually males) according to attractiveness.
Anisogamy suggests that a women’s best evolutionary strategy is to be selective when choosing a partner. Females will tend to seek a male who displays characteristics of physical health, high status, and resources. Thus the male partner is able to protect them and provide for their children.
Before this was related to muscular strength but in modern society it’s related to occupation and wealth
Evolutionary explanations of partner preferences (AO3, positives)
- Buss (1989) conducted a survey of over 10,000 adults in 33 countries and found that females reported valuing resource-based characteristics (such as occupation) whilst men valued good looks and preferred younger partners.
- Clark and Hatfield (1989) conducted a now infamous study where male and female psychology students were asked to approach fellow students of Florida State University (of the opposite sex) and ask them for one of three things; to go on a date, to go back to their apartment, or to go to bed with them. About 50% of both men and women agreed to the date, but whilst 69% of men agreed to visit the apartment and 75% agreed to go to bed with them, only 6% of women agreed to go to the apartment and 0% accepted the more intimate offer.
Evolutionary explanations of partner preferences (negative AO3)
- The evolutionary approach is deterministic suggesting that we have little free-will in partner choice. However, everyday experience tells us we do have
some control over our partner preferences. - Evolutionary theory makes little attempt to explain other types of relationships, e.g. non-heterosexual relationships, and cultural variations in relationships which exist across the world, e.g. arranged marriages.
- evolutionary approaches to mate preferences are socially sensitive (promote traditional sexist views on what natural male and female behaviours are). Women now more career oriented and independent thus won’t look for resourceful partners. Also, contraception being available means evolutionary pressures less relevant
Self- disclosure (AO1)
Self disclosure is the revealing of personal information, such as thoughts, feelings and experiences to another person.
Proposed by Altman and Taylor (1973), this theory claims that by gradually revealing emotions and experiences to their partner, couples gain a greater understanding of each other and display trust. Therefore, self-disclosure will increase attraction.
As trust builds, depth and breadth of social disclosure will increase. It gradually increases , if too much is disclosed attraction is lost. People expect same level of self-disclosure (reciprocal self-disclosure)
Self-disclosure AO3 (3p, 2n)
- Research conducted by Altman and Taylor (1973) supports the theory of self- disclosure. They found that self-disclosure on the first date is inappropriate and did not increase attraction levels. The person who was self-disclosing was seen as maladjusted and not very likeable.
- Tal-Or (2015) conducted research which agrees with the fundamental concept of self-disclosure being a gradual process that can affect attraction for romantic relationships. Analysis of reality TV shows like Big Brother revealed that viewers did not like contestants who self-disclosed early on.
- 2010 by Kito, research evidence to support the idea of self-disclosure across different cultures. Kito investigated Japanese and American students in different types of relationships, and found that self-disclosure was high for Japanese and American students in romantic relationships that were heterosexual.
- Sprecher (2013) found research evidence that the level of self-disclosure received is the best predictor of liking and loving, rather than the amount of self-disclosure given. This goes against the idea of reciprocal self-disclosure.
- It seems unlikely that attraction to a potential partner is based on self- disclosure alone. Self-disclosure might be an important element, but other factors are also needed in order to increase attraction, such as physical attraction, similarity of attitudes and complementarity of needs.
Physical attractiveness (AO1)
- Physical attractiveness affects attraction in romantic relationships. Men place a great deal of importance on physical attractiveness when choosing a female partner in the short-term and the long-term. Research has shown that physical attractiveness is also very important for females when choosing a male partner, especially in the short-term
Halo effect (AO1)
The halo effect is when the general impression of a person is incorrectly formed from one characteristic alone (e.g. physical attractiveness). Physically attractive people are often seen as more sociable, optimistic, successful and trustworthy. People tend to behave positively towards people who are physically attractive and this creates a self-fulfilling prophecy where the physically attractive person behaves even more positively because of the positive attention they receive.
Halo effect AO3 (1p,1n)
- Palmer and Peterson (2012) found that physically attractive people were rated as more politically knowledgeable than unattractive people. The halo effect was so powerful that it persisted even when participants found out that the physically attractive person had no expertise in politics.
-Towhey (1979) asked male and female participants to rate how much they liked an individual based on a photograph. Participants also completed a MACHO scale which measured sexist attitudes and behaviour. It was found that participants who scored highly on the MACHO scale were more influenced by physical attractiveness. Influence of physical attractiveness moderated by other factors (personality)
Matching hypothesis (AO1)
- When initiating romantic relationships, individuals seek partners that have the same social desirability as themselves. Physical attractiveness becomes the major determining factor as it is an accessible way for each person to rate the other person as a potential partner before forming a relationship. Most people would prefer to form a relationship with someone who is physically attractive but in order to not be rejected, many people will approach others who are of a similar level of attractiveness to themselves.
Matching hypothesis AO3 (1p,2n)
- Fangold (1988) found supportive evidence for the matching hypothesis by
carrying out a meta-analysis of 17 studies using real-life couples. He established
a strong positive correlation between the partners’ ratings of physical
attractiveness, just as predicted by the matching hypothesis. - Walster (1966) invited 752 first-year students at the University of
Minnesota to attend a dance party. They were randomly matched to a partner;
however, when students were picking up their tickets, they were secretly
judged by a panel in terms of physical attractiveness. 6 months after they were asked to rate their partner on looks, and contrary to matching hypothesis they rated their partner highly regardless of their own attractiveness - complex matching, whereby a very attractive person forms a relationship with an unattractive person. Relationships may form because the physically attractive person has other factors to make up for physical attractiveness like money or social class
Filter theory (AO1)
Kerchoff and David (1962) proposed we use filtering to reduce the field of available partners down to a field of desirable partners. When we meet a potential partner we engage in three levels of filtering; social demography, similarity in attitude, and complementarity of needs.
From the outset we screen out people based on age, sex, education, social background etc. We are more attracted to people from similar backgrounds to our own.
Then we choose people who have similar attitudes to our own (similarity in attitude). In the longer term, we choose people who complement our own traits (complementarity of needs
Filter theory AO3 positive (2)
- Research conducted by Taylor (2010) found evidence to support filter theory. He found that 85% of Americans who got married in 2008 had married someone from their own ethnic group, supporting the social demography part of filter theory.
- Research conducted by Hoyle (1993) supports the filter theory when looking at the importance of attitude similarity and sharing common values for
attraction. Hoyle found that perceived attitude similarity can predict attraction more strongly than actual attitude similarity. Tidwell tested this hypothesis during a speed dating event whereby participants had to make quick decisions about attraction. He measured actual and perceived similarity of attitudes using a questionnaire and found that perceived similarity predicted romantic liking more than actual similarity.
Filter theory AO3 (negative 3)
- Levinger (1970) conducted research using 330 couples and found no evidence that similarity of attitudes or complementarit
- Filter theory has been criticised because it suggests that people are attracted to each other because they have similar social demography. Anderson (2003) found from his longitudinal study of cohabiting partners that they became more similar in terms of their attitudes and emotional responses over time which increased attraction. At the start of the relationship, their attitudes were not so similar. This is called emotional convergence.
- Research using online dating has shown a lack of support for filter theory in that it might not be an accurate way to see how relationships progress and form. The internet has meant that there is a reduction in social demographic variables when we meet someone, and it is now easier to meet people who live far away, or who have a different ethnicity, social class and background
Social exchange theory (AO1)
- This is an economic theory of romantic relationships and is based on the idea that relationships are, “like a business” whereby we monitor the rewards (fun, attention, esteem, etc.) and the costs (time, emotional strain, etc.). We all want the maximum rewards from a relationship and the minimum costs.
- The theory assumes that those who offer rewards are attractive and those who are perceived to involve great costs are less attractive. Relationships that are mutually beneficial will succeed whereas relationships that are imbalanced will fail.
- We compare our present relationship to previous relationships we have had (comparison level). We compare our present partner with people around us who we could potentially have a relationship with (comparison level for alternatives). We look around for a “better deal” if our current relationship is not satisfactory.
Social exchange theory AO3 (positive,3)
- Gottman (1992) found evidence that supports the social exchange theory. He found that individuals in unsuccessful marriages frequently report a lack of positive behaviour exchanges with their partner, and an excess of negative exchanges. In successful marriages where the relationship is happy, the ratio or positive to negative exchanges is 5:1, but in unsuccessful marriages the ratio is 1:1.
- Integrated couples therapy (Jacobson, 2000) helps partners to break negative patterns of behaviours and to decrease negative exchanges, whilst increasing positive exchanges. 66% of couples reported significant improvements in their relationship after receiving this form of therapy.
- Different people perceive rewards and costs differently so this theory can account for individual differences in attraction.
Social exchange theory AO3 (3n)
- Moghaddam (1998) has criticised the social exchange theory, as it is more applicable to individualistic cultures than collectivist cultures. The perceived costs and rewards of relationships might be very different from one culture to the next. Family values and compatibility might be more important rewards in collectivist cultures. In individualist cultures, rewards might be viewed as a partner buying expensive presents.
- Critics of this theory disagree with the idea that people spend a great deal of time monitoring their relationship in terms of rewards and costs. They argue that people only monitor rewards and costs once the relationship becomes dissatisfying. Only look at comparison levels when already dissatisfied
- Violent relationships continue out of fear, even if there are little rewards and many costs