Relationships Flashcards
Male investment in relationships
- Relatively small
- Unlimited amounts of sperms, remain fertile throughout life
- Capable of impregnating any number of females
Female investment in relationships
- Substantial
- Limited supply of eggs
- Only produce one a month
- Reproductive life of 30 years
- After conception investment continues, carries foetus
- Endure pain of childbirth
- Breastfeed for 2 years
Evolutionary Explanation-Sexual selection (AO1)
Sexual selection-Darwin, evolution driven by competition for mates
Development of characteristics that ensures reproductive success
Evolutionary Explanation- Anisogamy (AO1)
- Difference in gametes
- Lots of fertile men,little fertile women
- Gives rise to differences in sexual selection
Evolutionary Explanations- Intrasexual Selection (AO1)
- Members of same sex compete to gain access to opposite sex to pass on genes
- Characteristics leading to success become widespread
- Leads to male female dimorphism (men stronger as they have to compete)
Evolutionary Explanation- Intersexual Selection (AO1)
- One sex chooses from available mates,usually female chooses
- Males want fertility, women want resources
- Possessing desirable traits increase chance of success
Evolutionary Explanation Evaluation
- +Singh found cross cultural agreement on hip to waist ratio, 0.7 most attractive, link to ability to bear children for survival
- +Evidence,analysis 900 personal ads ,42% of men wanted younger women,44% of men wanted attractiveness,22% of women wanted attractiveness,men highlighted economic status, women seek resources,males want reproductive signs
- -Clark +Hatfield,asked strangers either to go out with them,go back to their house or have sex, 50% of both genders agreed to go out,75% of men agreed to sex,0% of women,free will in partner choice, not deterministic
- -Gender bias,not relevant in today’s society,women more career orientated,don’t look for resources,theory doesn’t apply to modern society
Factors affecting attraction- Self disclosure (AO1)
Extent which someone reveals personal information
Factors affecting attraction- Social penetration theory (AO1)
- Self-disclosure,start of relationship topics range,as it develops share personal info,
Sharing too soon before other person has reached same level of investment cause incompatibility - Reciprocity,if one shares more than other is willing too, breakdown of trust,one more invested
Altman and Taylor
Factors affecting attraction evaluation
- +Research,Sprecher,one took turns to self-disclose,other self-disclosed when liked, closeness,enjoyment measured, correlation between statisfasion and self-disclosure
- Aron,list of questions to pairs, starts superficial info gets more intimate,people grew closure
–>Research correlational,casual relationship not determined,may be attraction leads to greater self disclosure
Physical attraction (AO1)
- Men place greater emphasises on physical attraction
- Shacklefield+Larson suggest that symmetrical faces are more attractive,indicate fitness
- Neotenous faces (baby faces), more attractive to men,trigger protective instinct,insures protection for her and offspring
- Mcnulty,initial reaction that brought coupled together still important several years after
Physical Attraction- Matching Hypothesis (AO1)
Walster argues we start relationships with people who are a similar attractiveness level
More socially desirable,the more desirable they expect partners to be
Matched couples more likely to be happy than mismatched couples
Physical Attraction- Matching Hypothesis method (AO1)
Walster randomly selected pp took part in computer dance
Pp rated on attractiveness and did questionnaire on personality, told it was used to allocate partner, actually random
Halfway,pp did questionnaire on date and did one 6 months later
Responded positively to attractive dates,regardless of personal attractiveness
Doesn’t support matching hypothesis,pp didn’t consider own attractiveness
Replicated computer dance,pp picked eachother,reflected every day life,findings supported matching hypothesis,pp preferred someone who matched own perceived attractiveness
Physical Attractiveness Evaluation
- +Attractivness consistent across cultures,Cunninghan features of large eyes,small nose attractive, Korean and Americans judged attractiveness as trustworthy, stereotypes in collectivist and individualist cultures
- -Towhey asked men and women to rate liking of photos,pp did questionnaire which measure sexist attitudes, high scorers influenced by attractiveness when judging likeability,effects of attractiveness moderated by other factors
- -Taylor studied activity logs of dating site,real life test if matching hypothesis,measured actual date choices,preferred more attractive people than them didn’t consider own attractiveness
- -men place importance on attractiveness,pressure on women to maintain looks, attraction not only predictor,both genders desire supportive partners, less attractive women with these qualities don’t have less satisfied partners
Formation-Filter Theory (AO1)
- Filter 1- Social/demographic variable,liklihood of people meeting,more in common
- Filter 2- Similarity of views and attitudes,predictor of stable relationship,disclosure essential
- Filter 3- Complementarity, complement eachothers emotional needs,spouse has traits the other lacks
When selecting partners from a range that’s available,use filters to narrow down choices
Formation-Filter Theory Evaluation
- +Kerkoff+Davis,longitudinal study of student couples,been together for more or less than 18 months,questionnaire over 7 months,attitudes Similarity important up to 18 months,after meeting psychological needs more important
- -Lacks temporal validity,modern society more interconnected than 1960,social demography less of a barrier,some stages less relevent
–>Support,many studies failed to replicate studies findings,may be due to mythological issues - -2nd and 3rd levels correction can’t explain causality, Davis + Rusbult,people become more similar the more time spent together,relationships lead to alignment of attitudes