Relationships Flashcards

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what is Ducks phase model?

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explains how relationships breakdown. 4 stages. each stage has a ‘threshold’. this is the point at which perception changes

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what is the first stage in Ducks model?

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intra psychic stage - start reflecting on whats making you unhappy

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what is the second stage of Ducks model

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dyadic stage - start having conversations/arguments. 2 outcomes
1. relationship breaks down
2. desire to rebuild relationship

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what is the thirds stage of ducks model?

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social stage - goes public, gossip, point of no return

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what is the fourth stage of ducks model?

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grave dressing stage - make a story to public to keep your reputation
aftermath

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what are the positives of Ducks model?

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good real-world application (couples therapy)
used to repair at different stages
good explanatory power - explains how they break down

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what are the negatives of Ducks model?

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too simplistic - can fluctuate especially if high investment
cultural bias - collectivists culture relationships don’t breakdown

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what is Clark & Hatfield study? what does this show?

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females 0% said yes when asked to sleep with a stranger
men 75% said yes
shows men choose quantity and women choose quality

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what is self disclosure? what can this do to a relationship?

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revealing personal information about yourself, can strength a romantic bond when used appropriately

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what is the halo effect?

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pretty people become positive people as people behave well towards them

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what did reis and shaver find? what does this support?

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for a relationship to develop, needs to be a reciprocal element to self-disclose. support sefl-disclosure

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who proposed the absorption addiction model and what does it suggest?

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McCutcheon - people form parasocial relationships because of deficiency in own life

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what are the 3 stages to a parasocial relationship and who proposed it?

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entertainment-social, intense-personal, borderline pathological Maltby

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what is the attachment theory?

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insecure resistant are more likely to form parasocial relationships.

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what did McCutcheon find as AO3? + or -

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no link between insecure resistant & more intense parasocial relationships

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what did Maltby find as AO3?

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females reported parasocial relationships with celebrities who have a body they admire

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what is inter-sexual selection and which sex chooses it?

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quality over quantity - females

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what is natural selection in terms of relationships?

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Seek qualities in partners for their offspring to survive with beneficial genes and reproductive success

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what was Walster’s hypothesis?

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the matching hypothesis - we need to assess our own attractiveness and compromise when choosing a partner

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what did Cunningham find and what does this show?

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certain face features (small nose, large eyes) were rated most attractive by white Asian men
shows attractiveness is objective

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who formed the filter theory ?

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Kerchoff and Davies

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what did Kerchoff and Davies find?

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similarity more important early on but complementarity important later on

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what is a contrasting point to Kerchoff and Davies?

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Levinger - did not find same results

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what are the 3 main points of social exchange theory?

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costs, rewards, profit

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what is comparison level (CL)
how much profit we believe we get
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what did Argyle find?
dissatisfaction causes us to calculate costs and rewards
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what is comparison level for alternatives (CALT)
amount of profit in another relationship
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what did Kurdek find? what does this support?
positive correlation between commitment levels and profit supports social exchange theory
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who found the equity theory?
Walster
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what is the equity theory?
rewards and costs need to evenly distributed
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what is a positive to the equity theory?
good explanatory power, can explain why relationships breakdown
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what did Utne find and what does this support?
those who said their relationship was equitable were more satisfied. supports equity is better than profit
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what did Huseman find and what does this go against?
some people feel they deserve more in a relationship (entitleds) and some are happy with under-benefitting (benevolents). goes against equity theory
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who found the investment model and what are the 3 factors that feed into our commitment level?
Rusbult - investment size, comparison with alternatives and satisfaction level
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what are intrinsic and extrinsic investments and examples of tangible and intangible?
intrinsic - you put in. tangible (money) intangible (effort) extrinsic - resources shared. tangible (car,house) intangible (memories)
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what did Rusbult and Martz find? what does this support?
women who returned to abusive relationships reported greatest investment levels. Rusbult investment theory
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what are gates? what has removed these gates? examples?
factors that prevent relationships from forming. virtual relationships. facial disfigurement, anxiety
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who found the reduced cue theory and what does it suggest?
Sproul and Keisler, lack cues like physical appearance so relationships aren't as good
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what did Walther and Tidwell find and what does this go against?
online cues are present (emojis, reply time) goes against reduced cue theory
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what is the hyper-personal model? who found it?
Walther - more self disclosure as anonymity, also found the longer you're in a CMC relationship, the more disappointed you are when finally meet
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what did Witty and Joinson find?
found greater self-disclosure in CMC relationships
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what did McKenna and Bargh find? what does this support?
socially anxious ppl are more able to express feelings online. supports gating
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what did Ruppel find? why is this less reliable?
self-disclosure is greater in FTF relationships, however self-report so not reliable
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why does Ducks model have good RWA?
used to repair relationships at different stages
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what did Moghaddam find? what does this suggest?
relationships in individualist cultures end easier. Ducks phase model is culturally bias
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what is a negative of Ducks phase model?
too simplistic - breakdowns can fluctuate between stages
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what did Tang find and what does this suggest?
men & women from individualist cultures self-disclosed more sexual thoughts and feeling. suggests self-disclosure is culturally relative
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What are the 3 filters that kerchoff discovered?
Social demography Similarity in attitudes Complementarity
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Who founded the social exchange theory?
Thibault and Kelley
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What did Buss find and what does this suggest?
Females sought financial status while men sought physical attractiveness