Relationships Flashcards
what is Ducks phase model?
explains how relationships breakdown. 4 stages. each stage has a ‘threshold’. this is the point at which perception changes
what is the first stage in Ducks model?
intra psychic stage - start reflecting on whats making you unhappy
what is the second stage of Ducks model
dyadic stage - start having conversations/arguments. 2 outcomes
1. relationship breaks down
2. desire to rebuild relationship
what is the thirds stage of ducks model?
social stage - goes public, gossip, point of no return
what is the fourth stage of ducks model?
grave dressing stage - make a story to public to keep your reputation
aftermath
what are the positives of Ducks model?
good real-world application (couples therapy)
used to repair at different stages
good explanatory power - explains how they break down
what are the negatives of Ducks model?
too simplistic - can fluctuate especially if high investment
cultural bias - collectivists culture relationships don’t breakdown
what is Clark & Hatfield study? what does this show?
females 0% said yes when asked to sleep with a stranger
men 75% said yes
shows men choose quantity and women choose quality
what is self disclosure? what can this do to a relationship?
revealing personal information about yourself, can strength a romantic bond when used appropriately
what is the halo effect?
pretty people become positive people as people behave well towards them
what did reis and shaver find? what does this support?
for a relationship to develop, needs to be a reciprocal element to self-disclose. support sefl-disclosure
who proposed the absorption addiction model and what does it suggest?
McCutcheon - people form parasocial relationships because of deficiency in own life
what are the 3 stages to a parasocial relationship and who proposed it?
entertainment-social, intense-personal, borderline pathological Maltby
what is the attachment theory?
insecure resistant are more likely to form parasocial relationships.
what did McCutcheon find as AO3? + or -
no link between insecure resistant & more intense parasocial relationships
what did Maltby find as AO3?
females reported parasocial relationships with celebrities who have a body they admire
what is inter-sexual selection and which sex chooses it?
quality over quantity - females
what is natural selection in terms of relationships?
Seek qualities in partners for their offspring to survive with beneficial genes and reproductive success
what was Walster’s hypothesis?
the matching hypothesis - we need to assess our own attractiveness and compromise when choosing a partner
what did Cunningham find and what does this show?
certain face features (small nose, large eyes) were rated most attractive by white Asian men
shows attractiveness is objective