Relational Influences Flashcards
Conflict
Is a perception that 2 parties, whether individuals or groups believe that they have incompatible goals, ideas or behaviours.
Two Impacts of Conflict
- Socially destructive
- Mirror image perception
Mirror Image Perception
refer to the reciprocal views of one another often held by parties in conflict; for example, each may view itself as moral and peace-loving and the other as evil and aggressive —>
- incompetence/untrustworthy/immoral
- competent/integrity/high moral value
Solutions to Resolve Conflict
- Imposed
- Distributive
- Integrative
Imposed Solution
are dictated solutions by third party e.g a parent settles a dispute
Distributive Solution
Compromise: A lose lose solution where neither party gets exactly what they want but they come to a compromise e.g industrial disputes where wages are set/
Integrative Solutions
win/win both sides benefits (difficult) as to be some communication
Techniques to resolve conflict?
- counselling
- negotiation
- mediation
Counselling
usually when conflict arises in the family (counsellors will try to help client solve their own problem). Act as 3rd party
Negotiation
parties have some shared interests but also some opposed interests (talk to each other to reach an agreement) e.g countries trying to reach a trade agreement)
Mediation
Bringing in a 3rd pretty to enable the conflict to be settled, helps parties to reach voluntary solution. Can be distributive or integrative.
- identify each needs/goals
- facilitate discussion
- help each other understand
Socialisation
the process by which we learn to become members of society, both by internalising (learn/accept) the norms and values of society and also by learning to perform our social roles
Agents of Socialisation
- Family
- School
- Peer group
- Media
- Religion
Socialisation within Families
parents are an important part of our socialisation process as when we are born they become our primary caregivers; more contact with them then any other adult in early years.
Socialisation within Families Study
Melvin Kohn (1965, 1977) reasoned that working-class parents tend to hold factory/ little autonomy jobs and thus emphasise obedience and respect for authority even favouring spanking. Middle-class parents tend to hold white-collar jobs where autonomy and independent judgment and creativity is valued hence these parents emphasise independence and less likely to spank.
Attachment
Is a deep and enduring emotional bond that connects one person to another across time and space. Does not have to be reciprocated.