quiz 3 Flashcards
By Peck, how do we find worldview?
through religion
Meaning of religion– Etymologically ?
religio– to bind together
By Peck, what is the path to holiness ?
questioning everything
Scientific Tunnel Vision / Scientism
belief that only scientific tools and methods are valid. If it is not proven by science, then it is not real
Scientific Tunnel Vision / Scientism and religious Fundamentalism and Reductionism ruin the relationship between both
What is reductionism / holism
is this possible, according to Peck ?
reducing religion to secular terms
this is not possible
JP II 4 tasks of the family
- serving life
- participating in the development of society
- forming a community of persons
- sharing in the life and mission of the church
(sir, please find sara)
Inculturation
- full restoration of the covenant with god
- whole church being enriched in all cultures
What is a superior charism?
What are they?
charism = gift
celibacy vs marriage
Primordial sacrament, by JP II
marriage
JP II on women
- we should not frown upon women who stay home to tend to the family
- society frowns upon working women, but this should not keeping them from staying at home
- men and women are equal
Wallerstein’s 3rd task of marriage
becoming a parent
rock a bye baby
there is a certain combination of love and hate for the child. the parent needs to work with these changes in emotions. postpartum depression?
Wallerstein on the husband in the relationship between woman and baby
baby is using the wife’s body, and the husband gets jealous, so the woman should make time to have sex with him.
Rescue marriages in Wallerstein’s opinion
if their HOPES are strong enough, they may TRUST each other enough to create a SHARED FUTURE VISION
Anxiety in rescue marriage
anxieties dont vanish, but they stop dominating after a while
Anniversary effect
when the annual date of something traumatic comes around, you tend to have a bad day, without necessarily being aware of it
Wallerstein’s 4th Task
Coping with Crisis
steps to coping with crisis
- realistically acknowledge and think about the crisis and its consequences
- protect eachother from blaming the other or themselves
- allow some degree of pleasure and humor in the situation
- dont play martyr or saint
- block the crises you can see coming
Real Butts Please My Cries
essence of non-love
laziness
covenant
- unconditional
- im in no matter what
- fix issues
- people who stick together choose
contracts
- if… then.. conditions
- is this the problem that breaks us?
resources in a covenant to fix the issue
- who are you
- who is the other person
- what is a marriage
commitment between a parent and child is:
all in
it has:
- discipline and love
- trial and error
- the child then grows into a full human
- can this be mimicked by adult marriages– this would cause a couple to be free, because no one is leaving
Genesis 15: Abraham + God
- COVENANT + PROMISE GOOD WILL COME
- Sarah + Abraham are not great, because they do not have children, so Abraham scared of what God will say
- Covenant is formed
- the sun was down, deep sleep (mystery)
- terror and darkness descended upon him
- promise that the good stuff will come
Convo
A: I can’t have a kid, I scared
G: don’t be afraid
A: but I literally don’t have a kid
G: no, I promise you that you have as many kids as the stars
A: I believe you god
G: remember what I’ve done
A: I gotcha, but how am I supposed to know, I’m still v nervous
G: cut some animals, lay em out, the chief will walk in between the animals
If you break the covenant, you will be cut in half like the animal
