Presuppositions Flashcards
Name the words in the Mnemonic RESPECT UR-WORLD
Respect, Ecology, Sign, People, Everyone, Calibrate, The Territory, U (You), Resources, Wholeness, Only, Response, Law, Designed
Respect for
RESPECT for the other person’s model of the world
Behavior and……..Ecology
Presuppositions-Behavior and change are to be evaluated in terms of context and ECOLOGY
(Definition of Ecology - The study of consequences. Looking at the results of change and the consequences for self, family, business, society, planet.)
Sign
Resistance in a client is a SIGN of a lack of rapport
People
PEOPLE are not their behaviors (Accept the person: change the behavior)
Everyone
EVERYONE is doing the best they can with the resources they have available
Calibrate
CALIBRATE on behavior - the most important information about a person is that person’s behavior
Territory
THE map is not the TERRITORY
U- You
YOU are in charge of your mind and therefore your results (as am I)
Resources
People have all the RESOURCES they need to succeed and to achieve their desired outcomes (there are no unresourceful people, only unresourceful states)
Wholeness
All procedures should increase WHOLENESS
Only…
There is ONLY feedback! (no failure, only feedback)
…Response …
The meaning of communication is the RESPONSE you get
Law
The LAW of Requisite Variety
The system or person with the most flexibility of behavior will control the system
..Designed
All procedures should be DESIGNED to increase choice