Practice test Flashcards
According to Stemberg’s triangular theory of live, the combination of intimacy and passion results in
romantic love
Those who are dissatisfied with ____ love often engage in extra-relational affairs to maintain the passion in
companionate
Lisa feels unworthy of love and needs approval from others. She fears that her boyfriend does not really love her. Her attachment style is
anxious/ambivalent
According to attachment theory
all important love relationships are attachments
The hookup culture is believed to
make relationship building more difficult
Unrequited love is most likely to be experienced by people with _____ attachment style
secure
Jealousy
is a yardstick for measuring insecurity or possessiveness
Managing jealousy requires which of the following
the recognition by each partner of the feelings and motivation of the other
Our commitment to a relationship will remain high as long as we
judge the relationship to be successful
Maddie is very jealous even though there is no reason to believe her boyfriend is unfaithful. Maddie is experiencing which type of jealousy.
suspicious
Kate decided to leave her husband because she believed she was putting much more into the relationship than she was getting out o fit. Kate’s decision to leave was affected by
the balance of costs and benefits
Based on the feminization of love, we would expect that:
men’s expressions of love would be undervalued
Bridget is very attractive. Therefore, others assume she is also intelligent and kind. This phenomenon is referred to as:
the halo effect
The largest group of singles in the United States are those who are
never married
The increase in the number of single adults in the United States is due to all EXCEPT which one of the following?
more conservative sexual and social standards
Contemporary relationships among the unmarried are characterized by which of the following?
partners tend to be economically dependent on one another
Ben wants to get married, but not yet. He is busy now with school and still likes to “have a good time.” Ben would be characterized as which type of single?
voluntarily and temporarily unmarried
Between 1960 and 2008, rates of cohabitation in the United States
rose steadily
Cohabitation is
more likely among those with less education
Linda and Bill are very committed to one another and live together, but have no intentions of marrying. They like their relationship the way it is. This illustrates what type of cohabitation?
substitute for marriage
Who is LEAST likely to expect cohabitation to lead to marriage?
women who live with partners of low socioeconomic status
How does parenthood affect marriage?
it leads to a deterioration of marital functioning
T/F Among unmarried adults in the United States, a majority have never been married
True
The preferred marital arrangement world-wide is
polygamy
Our marriage system in the U.S. may best be described as
serial monogamy or modified polygamy
The family in which we grow up is known as the
family of orientation
Families are?
dynamic
Kate has not seen or heard from her mother since Hurricane Katrina hit the Louisiana town where there mother lived. She does not know for sure if her mother is dead or alive. Kate feels her mother’s psychological presence even though she is not physically with her. Pauline Boss uses the term ____ to describe what Kate is feeling.
ambiguous loss
Exchange theory predicts that we will stay in an unhappy relationships when:
the costs of leaving are greater than the reward of leaving and/or the costs of staying
Conflict theory has been criticized for:
assuming that differences lead to conflict
A scientist wants to conduct research to determine which variable causes another variable. Which method should the scientist use?
experimental
Mistaken beliefs that everyone has the same experiences and values as oneself and therefore should think the same way one does are called
egocentric fallacies
In the hypothesis, “marital status influenced by race,” marital status is the
dependent variable
The family over time has moved from being an economically productive unit to
a consuming, service-oriented unit
In the contemporary family, ____ have had great impact on reshaping the meaning and experiences of sexuality and parenthood
revolutions in contraception and biomedical technology
T/F Many researchers believe that both love and conflict are normal features of families
true
T/F Compared with what came both before and after, families in the 1950’s were unusually stable
true
Every time Tammy tells her husband Michael that she wants to talk about their marriage, Michael either leaves the room or changes the subject. This type of marital communication is referred to as
demand-withdraw communication
Markham found that negativity or positivity of a couple’s communication pattern had little impact on their marital satisfaction during the first year due to
honeymoon effect
The basic content of a message is expressed
verbally
One of the problems with nonverbal communication is
each person has a different “nonverbal language”
The term “sandwich generation” refers to
parents who are caring for dependent children and elderly parents simultaneously
The transformation of passionate love is often experienced as a _____.
crisis in the relationship
Perhaps the most important means of sustaining love is your _____. REF: p. 174
words and actions
Love that is not returned. REF: p. 164
Unrequited love
Infants who sense their mother’s detachment and rejection when they desire close bodily contact develop a(n) _____ attachment style. REF: p. 163
avoidant
According to attachment theory, _____. REF: p. 162
all important love relationships are attachments
Reiss refers to the situation in which two people develop ways of acting and being that cannot be fulfilled alone as _____. REF: p. 155
mutual dependency
Intimate love is based upon _____. REF: p. 172
commitment, caring, and self-disclosure
Marriage between those with similar social or personal characteristics. REF: p. 144
Homogamy