Persuasion and Influence Flashcards
Six Building Blocks of Trust
- Reliability and Dependability
- Transparency
- Competency
- Sincerity, Authenticity and Congruence
- Fairness
- Openness and Vulnerability
Once we acquired trust we can easily use it
a. To Persuade
b. Negotiate
c. Influence
d. Manage Conflict
Modes of persuasion
a. Ethos : convince the audience by character or by credibility
b. Pathos : Related to emotions, Convince by emotions
c. Logos : means to convince an audience by use of logic or reason.
_____________ is ethically winning the
heart and mind of your target. Basically,
you alter the behavior of someone
through reasoning.
Persuasion
____________ on the other hand, is the
ability to affect the manner of thinking
of another.
Influence
5 influencing styles
- Bridging: Bringing more people into the conversation
- Rationalize: People with a rationalizing influencing style tend to use logic and reasoning to try to persuade others.
- Asserting: Those with an asserting influencing style tend to use authority and assurance as their way of motivating others.
- Inspiring: Those with an inspiring influencing style use example, Stories and comradery to motivate others.
- Negotiating: People with a negotiating influencing style tend to search for a middle ground as a way to motivate others.
The 6 Principles of Influence
a. Reciprocity
b. Consistency and Commitment
c. Social Proofs / Consensus
d. Likings
e. Authority
f. Scarcity
Types of Reciprocity
- Generalized reciprocity
- Balanced reciprocity
- Negative reciprocity
2 Negotiation Types
- Integrative Negotiations – Everyone Wins Something (Usually)
- Distributive Negotiations – The Fixed Pie