personal-choice: “It’s My Personal Choice” Flashcards
This deck parallels the briefing at vbriefings.org/personal-choice
About this Deck: “It’s My Personal Choice”
This Deck parallels the briefing at: vbriefings.org/personal-choice.
– There are no formal citations here, although sources may be mentioned. Full citations with links are provided in the briefing.
– It would be best to read the briefing before studying these cards. Reading the briefing first provides understanding and context.
What is the briefing titled “It’s My Personal Choice” about?
In answering this objection to veganism, this briefing shows how personal choice cannot be used to justify actions that are unethical.
Provide a high-level summary of the briefing on personal-choice.
Personal choices are not inherently ethical simply because they can be made, as history shows with examples like slavery and gender-based pay inequity.
While it is possible to respect a person, some of their choices, such as consuming animal products, may still be unethical and cause suffering.
Greater awareness of the harm caused by these choices can shift perspectives, showing that such decisions are far from being merely personal and carry significant ethical weight.
Place the “personal choice” objection” to veganism in its larger context.
This objection to animal rights and veganism is made by those who are not aware of the implications of eating animals or by those who are aware but are unwilling to change.
The objection is often accompanied by a statement such as, “I respect your right to be vegan; you should respect my right to not be vegan.”
What are the key points made in the “personal choice” briefing (5)?
- Personal choices are not necessarily ethical.
- It’s not just a personal choice.
- Some choices have victims.
- Respect for a choice is not the same as respect for a person.
- Awareness changes your perspective.
Elaborate on the point that personal choices are not necessarily ethical.
Just because it is a choice you personally make does not make it an ethical choice.
Example: you may choose to be rude to someone because of their gender or skin color. The fact that you are not legally restricted from such an action does not imply the action is ethical.
Declaring one’s personal choice can be and has been used to defend all manner of indefensible positions:
—“It’s my personal choice to own slaves.”
—“It’s my personal choice to pay women less money than men for the same work.”
Elaborate on the point that it’s not just a personal choice.
It is a personal choice in the sense that it’s a choice you can personally make, but for any choice to be only a personal one, all those affected must give consent.
Example: I may personally choose to cut in front of you in line in the grocery-store, but unless I get your permission, it negatively affects you.
If it involves harming others, then it is as much a social choice as it is a personal choice.
As the saying goes, “Your right to swing your fist ends where my nose begins.”
Elaborate on the point that some choices have victims.
It is inescapable that eating meat and animal secretions (such as milk, cheese, and eggs) harms animals.
When we choose to buy animal products, we are not just ignoring the victim—we are complicit in the violence and suffering the victim has endured.
We are complicit because even though we are not inflicting harm directly; we are paying someone else to do so.
Elaborate on the point that respect for a personal choice is not the same as respect for a person.
Although it is difficult if not impossible to respect choices you consider to be unethical, just because you do not respect all the choices of someone does not mean you don’t respect the person making those choices.
Elaborate on the point that, in regards to personal choice, awareness changes your perspective.
When you become fully aware of the harms resulting from eating animals or their products, it is impossible to view it as merely a personal choice.
When you take a little time to educate yourself on the atrocities inflicted on animals before they become the food on your plate, you will be less likely choose to harm other sentient beings whose lives are as important to them as yours is to you.
Address the counterclaim that we don’t have free will (an idea known as determinism), so we only think we have a choice anyway.
Deterministic claims, if used in this context, could be employed to justify absolutely anything.
The employment of determinism to justify immoral actions undermines the basis for ethical decision-making by suggesting all actions are equally justifiable, ignoring the moral distinctions between them.
What is Ben Franklin quote on rationalizing that can be applied to our personal choices?
Humans are experts at rationalizing their choices, as Ben Franklin expressed when he said, “So convenient a thing is it to be a reasonable creature, since it enables one to find or make a reason for everything one has a mind to do.”
This is from his autobiography.
What are some general tips that may prove useful in conversations on the “personal choice” objection to veganism.
This objection requires only logic to counter, not facts. Your goal is to help them realize their choices impact others—and that ethical choices require deeper reflection.
Reassure them that veganism isn’t about taking away choices—it’s about making better ones.
This objection is sometimes an implicit admonition to back off, motivated by a desire to avoid discomfort or scrutiny, rather than an invitation to engage in meaningful dialogue.
In discussing the “personal choice” objection to veganism, what questions can you ask to segue the conversation back to animal ethics?
—“I used to think the same way. But once I learned what animals go through, I couldn’t keep pretending it was just a personal choice. Have you ever looked into what happens in farms and slaughterhouses?”
—“Don’t you think it’s important to know the full consequences of our personal choices?”
—“If you discovered your choice was causing immense suffering, would you still see it as just ‘personal’?”
—“If someone’s choice impacts others, should they take responsibility for the harm it causes?”
In discussing the “personal choice” objection to veganism, how can you shift the focus to the fact that not all choices are ethical?
People should not assume that because they have the freedom to choose something, that choice is beyond moral scrutiny. Get them to examine that assumption.
—“Just because we can make a choice doesn’t mean it’s ethical. Would you say child labor or paying women less for the same work is fine just because it’s a ‘personal choice’?”
—“Can you think of any past injustices which were justified on the rationalization of personal choice?”
—“Can you think of any other situation where ‘it’s my personal choice’ would justify harming others?”
Why? This forces them to recognize that some choices have ethical consequences and can’t just be waved away as “personal.”
In discussing the “personal choice” objection to veganism, how can you help them see that their choices involve victims?”
People say “personal choice” as if it only affects them. Make it clear that someone else is paying the price.
—“It’s a personal choice in the sense that you can make it—but so is cutting in line. Does that make it right?”
—“If it were truly personal, it wouldn’t involve someone else suffering. Would you say it’s just a personal choice for a farmer to hit a dog?”
Why? This breaks the illusion that their decision exists in isolation.
In discussing the “personal choice” objection to veganism, how can you employ the golden rule?
Most people already believe in the golden rule—do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Use that against their argument.
—“If you were in the animal’s place, would you accept the excuse that it’s ‘just a personal choice’?”
—“Would you accept someone saying, ‘It’s my personal choice’ if they were harming a dog? Why treat farmed animals differently?”
Why? This forces them to apply their own moral standards consistently.
In discussing the “personal choice” objection of veganism, how can you get them to differentiate between respecting people and their choices?
Sometimes, people say, “I respect your choice to be vegan, so you should respect my choice not to be.” But respect for a person doesn’t mean respecting all their choices.
—“If we truly respect someone’s autonomy and dignity, must we also respect every decision they make, even when those decisions appear to cause harm to others?”
—“I respect you as a person, but does that mean I have to respect every choice you make—especially if it harms others.”
Why? This distinguishes between respecting people and holding them accountable for harmful choices.
In discussing the “personal choice” objection to veganism, how can you ask them about applying their logic in other situations?
When people say, “I have the right to choose what I eat,” they are really saying, “I have the right to ignore the harm my actions cause.” Help them see how flawed that reasoning is.
—“What if someone said, ‘I have the right to drive drunk because it’s my personal choice’? Would you accept that reasoning?”
—“Imagine if someone said, ‘It’s my personal choice’ to take something that doesn’t belong to them. Would that be okay?”
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Why? This exposes the weakness of their argument by applying it to other ethical dilemmas.
