Normal behavior in Young Adult Flashcards
it is a covenant, by which a man and a woman establish between themselves a partnership of the whole life, is by its nature ordered toward the good of spouses and the procreation and education of offspring
marriage
type of marital role that volves societal expectations or status
structural-functional framework
it is the type of marital role wherein there is an interaction process where one adjusts his/her behavior and reactions to what he/she thinks the other person will do
interactional framework
enumerate the instrumental character traits
-Manipulation of external environment to attain specific goals
–Associated with masculinity
–Competitiveness, selfconfidence, logic
enumerate the expressive character traits
-Warmth, sensitivity to the needs of the others
–Associated with femininity
–Emotional support and tension management
it is a type of view that is rooted in the biophysical differences between male and female
biological view
it is a type of view that believes in the malleability of the individual and the influence that the external environmental factors have in molding and directing behavior: socialization experiences, peer group standards, situational factors and cultural norms
socio-cultural view
it Refers to the ability to affect the behavior of others
power
two dimensions of power
influence and authority
it is the power which emanates from an individual’s own abilities, skills, charisma, or some other personal characteristics
influence
it is the power which is legitimated or culturally prescribed
authority
indicators of conjugal power
- Task allocation or division of labor
- Decision-making
- Who wins in the disagreements
- Which spouse needs permission
bases of conjugal power
- Personality and background
- Power structure in the family
- Family and kinship structure
- Situational Factors
- Amount of resources each individual spouse brings into the marriage
it Refers to the achievement of one or more goals including permanence, companionship, fulfilling expectations it
marital success
the pillars for success has how many tasks
9 tasks
the first task for a happy marriage
to separate emotionally from the family of one’s childhood so as to invest fully in the marriage and, at the same time, to redefine the lines of connection with both families of origin
the second task for a happy marriage
building togetherness based on mutual identification, shared intimacy and an expanded conscience that includes both partners, while at the same time setting boundaries to protect each other’s autonomy
the third task for a happy marriage
to establish a rich and pleasurable intimate, faithful relationship and to protect it from the incursions of the workplace and obligations
the fourth task for a happy marriage
for couples with children, to embrace the openness to life and daunting roles of parenthood
the fifth and sixth task for a happy marriage
Confronting and mastering the inevitable crises of life, and maintaining the strength of the marital bond in the face of adversity. The marriage should be a safe haven in which partners are able to express their differences, anger and conflict
the seventh tasks for a happy marriage
Using humor and laughter to keep things in perspective and to avoid boredom and isolation
the eight tasks for a happy marriage
nurturing and comforting each other, satisfying each other’s needs for dependency and offering continuing encouragement and support
the ninth task for a happy marriage
to keep alive the early romantic, idealized images of falling in love, whilE facing the realities of the changes brought by time
a Marital success, therefore is a result of _______________, __________ and __________.
marital happiness, satisfaction and adjustment
Factors related to Marital Success
- Family background
- Socio-economic status – wife’s employment
- Age at marriage
- Content and process of communication
- Location of residence
- Religiosity
different forms of family violence
physical
economic
emotional
sexual
risk factors of family violence
strained relationship
extreme poverty
history of abuse
drugs and alcohol
it is the natural and inevitable in all human interaction including marital relations
conflict
Common cause of conflict among Filipino couples
- infidelity
- Relationship with in-laws
- Vices ,e.g. gambling and drinking
- Lack of or difficulties in communication
- Personality or character problems such as immaturity, irresponsibility and incompatibility
- Financial reasons – e.g. inadequacy as breadwinner or non support
it e mist common arrangement that has informal agreement without benefit of judicial process
hiwalay system or separation
kinds of separation or hiwalay system
-Declaration of nullity
–Legal separation
–Annulment of the marriage
–Divorce
type of separation?
There never was a valid and binding contract
Both are free to marry someone else
declaration of nullity
type of separation?
When the married couple are allowed by judicial sentence to break this complementary unity of life. Permits spouses to live separately but the marital bonds are not severed, so neither spouse may remarry. Imperfect or relative divorce
legal separation
type of separation?
It is the voiding of a defective contract that is valid and binding from the beginning up to the moment of its annulment
Civil annulment of marriage
it is the type of separation that Permits spouses to live separately but the marital bonds are not severed, so neither spouse may remarry. Imperfect or relative divorce
legal separation
grounds for legal separation
Violence and corruption, e.g. prostitution Moral pressure to compel a change in religious or political affiliation Imprisonment Drug addiction or alcoholism Lesbianism or homosexuality Bigamy Sexual infidelity or perversion Attempt on one’s life Abandonment without justifiable cause
It is the voiding of a defective contract that is valid and binding from the beginning up to the moment of its annulment
civil annulment of marriage
T or F
in civil annulment of marriage, both parties areree to marry new partners
true
grounds for annulment
<18 years old , and without consent of the parents or guardian Unsound mind
Fraud in obtaining consent:
- non-disclosure of previous conviction
- Concealment of wife about pregnancy
- concealment of STD
- Concealment of drug-addiction or alcoholism
Consent obtained by force, intimidation or undue influence Physically incapable of consummating the marriage
Affliction with STD found to be serious and incurable
type of separation When the man and the wife agree not merely to live in different houses, but take the further step of revoking the exclusive rights they mutually gave each other, then the marriage bond itself is broken, the marriage dissolved
divorce
How do separated women cope with the situation (separation)?
keeping occupied
seek support
T or F
Divorce brings a diminished ability to be a parent in nearly every way: discipline, praying, physical care and emotional support
true
a natural outcome of marriage
parenthood
it is a Strong cultural pressures and expectations for every married couple to have children
parenthood
it Links the families of the father and mother : bilaterally extended family
child
it is Related by blood equally to both his father and mother’s kin-group
child
The Filipino family has always been ______________ centered as evidenced by the sacrifices the parents make for their children
child
What motivates Filipinos to have children?
-Help they provide: financial help, support in old age, assistance in housework and childcare
–Rural areas, take an active part in the family production and maintenance activities
–Provide social and emotional benefits: companionship, love and happiness, play and fun
–Gives them incentives of success, satisfying their drive for achievement, providing a sense of fulfillment in their lives
–Serve as an inspiration to give them the best in life
it brings goodluck because a child is seen as a gift of God
the value of children
it is the fulfillment of one’s womanhood
to bear a child
it Is a process whereby the individual acquires and internalizes the norms, attitudes, and values of his/her society
role of parents in socialization
agents of socialization
family
school
church
it is affected by the kinds of people he interacts with the community he/ she belongs to.njo
individual’s personality
It is the first, the closest, and the most influential social group in the child’s life
family
what plays a major role in the development of his personality and character pf a child
family
T or F
Parents have the primary right and obligation to provide for the upbringing of the child and to discipline him as may be necessary for the formation of his/her good character
true
it is a genuineove and concern the child’s welfare
child-rearing
it The fathers’ feelings about the quality of fathering they received when they were youngsters is the most consistent predictor of their involvement with their children: child care and child rearing
fatherhood
Four types of fatherhood according to activity dimension or degree of involvement with children
- Procreator father
- Dilettante father
- Determinative father
- Generative father
procreator father
type of fatherhood?
equates fatherhood with raising of and providing for children
type of fatherhood?
one who is often away from home but maintains a warm relationship with children
dilettante father
type of fatherhood?
one who sees fatherhood as a task and obligation, and is obsessed with directing his children’s lives
determinative father
type of fatherhood?
one who spends time with children and enjoys being with them such that fatherhood becomes an opportunity for his own growth and development
generative father
