month5 Flashcards
You got your wisdom teeth removed last week and had to stay home because of the pain. Now you’re back at work, and making small talk with your boss. You tell her about it.
The pain was just unbearable!
just (adjective)
When used in this way, “just” means “very” or “completely”. It can be used with positive or negative adjectives:
> They did just a phenomenal job on this event.
> This was just a horrible, horrible idea!
unbearable pain
If you can “bear” something, it means that you can “stand” it or survive it. Something that’s unbearable is too bad or difficult to accept.
“Unbearable” pain is really strong pain that makes you cry, scream, or feel like you’re going to die.
Other things that are “unbearable” include:
- unbearable heat
- unbearable suffering
- unbearable tension (in a stressful environment)
- unbearable conditions
You’re teaching an exercise class. You’re leading the class in stretching. You want to tell them how to breathe.
Inhale… and exhale.
inhale
“Inhale” means to “breathe in”. You can “inhale something”, like in these examples:
> Animals inhale oxygen and exhale carbon dioxide. Plants do the opposite.Try not to inhale any of the fumes; they’re toxic.
Or you can just tell someone to “inhale”. Exercise trainers and doctors give this order to people.
exhale
“Exhale” means to “breathe out”.
People mostly use “exhale” when giving instructions, like in exercise classes or a doctor’s office. It sounds more technical than “breathe out”.
You’re riding home from a concert with a friend. She looks really sleepy. You want to warn her not to go to sleep, so you say this.
You look like you’re about to nod off.
(someone) is about to (do something)
“You’re about to ___” means “You’re going to ___ soon”. Here are some examples with “about to”:
> I’m about to lose my temper with you.
> It looks like they’re about to begin. Why don’t we go find a seat.
> Oh, hi Charles. I was just about to call you.
nod off
To “nod off” means to start to go to sleep when you’re supposed to be awake.
Here are some situations that you might “nod off” in:
- You’re watching a movie late at night.
- You’re listening to someone tell a long, boring story.
- You’re driving on the highway. (Watch out! This is dangerous!)
Two of your friends have been secretly dating each other. Finally they tell you about it, and you’re really surprised because you didn’t suspect it. You say:
I was completely oblivious!
completely oblivious
Being “oblivious” to something means that you don’t notice it, or don’t know that it’s happening. It sounds a little negative but not too bad.
The word “oblivious” often appears together with “completely”:
> Most people are completely oblivious to all of the ways that they’re being manipulated by advertising and the media.
If you want to include the topic, use “oblivious to __”:
> I was completely oblivious to the fact that they were dating.
> When you’re high, you become oblivious to everything that’s going on around you.
“Oblivious” is an advanced word, so not everyone uses it. A more basic word is “unaware”.
You’re talking with some friends about the kind of clothes that you wear to work, versus during your free time. You say:
I tend to dress a little more conservatively at the office.
(something) tends to (do something)
You can talk about things that usually or often happen with the phrase “tends to ___”:
> It tends to rain a lot at this time of year.
> Mom tends to forget things unless you remind her a lot.
You can also use “be” plus an adjective after “tends to”:
> Homes in the southern U.S. tend to be a bit larger than those in the North.
> Japanese people tend to be rather reserved.
dress conservatively
Dressing “conservatively” means that you wear clothes that:
> have an older, more formal style (like a suit and tie for men)don’t display parts of your body like your chest, legs, stomach, or butt
You can also dress “formally”, but that’s different. People only dress formally on special occasions like ceremonies. A formal dress for a woman is long and expensive. A man who’s dressed formally might be wearing a tuxedo.
On the other hand, some people dress “conservatively” every day.
at the office
When you work in an office, you can call your workplace “the office” in casual conversation. You call it this, even when the person you’re talking with doesn’t work with you. For example, you can say this to a friend:
> I have to stop by the office for a few minutes, so I’ll meet you at the restaurant at 7:30.
“The office” sounds much more natural than “my office” when you’re talking about your workplace. Within the workplace, “your office” is the specific room that you work in (if you have one; some people work in cubicles or open rooms with other people).
You’ve been talking with an old friend on the telephone. You want to finish the conversation, so you say:
OK, well, I’ll let you go.
Well
“Well” is a word that you use when you’re finishing a conversation or a topic. Some other examples of “well” used in this way are:
> Well, it’s nice to have you back.
> OK. Well, it was a pleasure meeting you.
I’ll let you go.
You can say this to end a telephone conversation. Say it when you’ve finished everything you wanted to say and when the other person isn’t talking.
When you say “I’ll let you go”, it suggests that you feel like the other person is very busy, and that you’re selfishly using up their time by talking to them for so long on the telephone. So “I’ll let you go” is a polite-sounding phrase.
On the other hand, you wouldn’t use this phrase with someone who’s much higher in status than you, like someone who’s interviewing you for a job.
You took a flight recently and were stopped when you went through the security. You’re telling a friend about it.
They took me in the back room and interrogated me.
the back room
A lot of businesses like stores, restaurants, and airports have public areas that customers are allowed into, and other rooms that only the staff or managers can enter. The private rooms are sometimes called “back rooms”.
We associate the “back room” with dark, sneaky, secretive actions. For example, in politics, people sometimes talk about “back-room dealings”. These are agreements that politicians make secretly, without telling the public. “Back room dealings” are bad and maybe even illegal.
interrogate (someone)
“Interrogating” someone means asking them a lot of questions in an aggressive way.
Police “interrogate” suspects in a crime investigation. Parents “interrogate” their teenage children who have stayed out too late.
The word “interrogate” sounds negative. A less negative word to describe this process is “question”:
> They took me in the back room and questioned me.
in the room
Technically, the sentence above should be:
> They took me into the back room.
That’s because “take” is an action that starts outside of the room and finishes inside. Another example is “push”:
> They pushed me into the room.
However, people sometimes use “in” instead in spoken English.
You were having a problem with your computer. A coworker fixed it for you. You’re really grateful because the problem was very frustrating. You say:
Thank you so much. I was at my wits’ end trying to figure that out!
Thank you so much.
This is a good way to thank someone who’s helped you out. Here are some other situations in which you can say “Thank you so much”:
- Your friend let you stay at her house when you were visiting her town for business.
- A coworker agreed to cover your shift.
- A waiter wrapped your leftover food after dinner, so that you could take it home.
(someone) is at (his or her) wits’ end
Being “at your wits’ end” means that you’ve tried really hard to solve a problem, but haven’t been able to solve it. You say this when you’re really frustrated and worried.
> I’m at my wits’ end with Gabby. She doesn’t listen to me, doesn’t do her homework, stays out late. What am I supposed to do with her?
This expression can be used in casual or formal situations.
figure (something) out
When you’re trying to understand something, and you finally understand it, you’ve “figured it out”.
> Aya figured out how to hook up the webcam, so now we can video chat with you guys!
The object of “figure out” can come in two different places:
- figure (something) out
- figure out (something)
Pronouns like “it”, “them”, etc. go between “figure” and “out”. Most other words can go in both locations.
You’re moving into a new apartment and trying to decide where to put your furniture. Your roommate suggests a location for the couch, but you don’t think it’s a good spot. You say:
Yeah, but then it’ll be blocking one of the outlets.
Yeah, but (sentence)
This is a common way to disagree with someone:
> A: You said that I could use it when you were finished with it.B: Yeah, but I’m not finished with it yet.
> A: What’s wrong with him? He’s smart, funny, handsome.B: Yeah, but he’s too short for me.
“Yeah but…” is useful when you agree with the specific sentence that a person said, but you disagree with their overall ideas.
then (something) will (do/be something)
People use “then” to finish a sentence like this:
> If you put the couch here, then it will be blocking one of the the outlets.
“Then” shows the result of a possible action. Sometimes people leave out the first part of the sentence, so it turns into this:
> Then it will be blocking one of the outlets.
You can complete the sentence with a verb like this:
> A: Let’s ask the professor for an extension.B: No! Then she’ll know that we’ve just been slacking off.
Or you can complete the sentence with “be + adjective”:
> I thought about going for a run, but then I’ll be all hot and sweaty.
(something) is blocking (something)
When one thing is “blocking” something else, it means that the 2nd thing can’t be reached or used because the first thing is in its way.
Here are some examples:
> Damn it! Someone’s blocking my car. I can’t get out of the driveway!
> Oh, I’m sorry. Am I blocking your view?
an outlet
An “outlet” is a hole that you plug a machine into, to get electricity.
People also call them “electrical outlets”. Some people call them “plugs” too, although technically the “plug” is what you put into an outlet.
Your sister and her family are coming over to your house to visit. Your living room is a little messy. You ask your children to help you clean it:
Guys, help me straighten up a little please.
Guys
In English, there’s not a really good word for addressing a group of people. In different parts of the country, people use different expressions when talking to a group. The expression I suggest is “guys”. For example, you can say this to your parents:
> Guys, I have to talk to you.
You can say this to the members of a girls’ sports team:
> Great job today, guys. Keep up the good work.
“Guy” technically means a man, but it’s usually OK to use it for groups of males and females, or even for groups of all femaies.
Help me (do something) please
This is a very straightforward way of asking for help. Use this when you’re speaking to someone you’re close to, like a family member. Avoid asking strangers and friends for help this way. A better way to ask is:
> Could you help me with this?
Adding “please” to the end of your request actually makes it sound a little less polite in this case. Here are some other examples of “please” used in an angry or impolite way:
> Can you wipe that up, please?
> Can you just stop it please?
straighten up (a room)
“Straightening up” is a type of cleaning. When you “straighten up”, you pick up things that are lying around like clothes, dishes, books, pieces of paper, and so on. You put things back in their proper place, so that the room looks organized.
You can use “straighten up” with an object:
> Lance, straighten up your room please.
Or you can use it without an object:
> Sorry, I didn’t have time to straighten up.
You’re teaching your niece to play golf. Her stance isn’t good, so you’re giving her some pointers. You say:
A good rule of thumb is to stand with your feet shoulder width apart.
a rule of thumb
A “rule of thumb” is an easy-to-remember rule that you can use to make a decision.
Some useful rules of thumb include:
- Don’t date someone that you work with.
- Try to get 8 hours of sleep each night.
- Put at least 10% of your pay into savings.
“Rules of thumb” aren’t always true, but they’re true most of the time, so you can follow them unless you have some better information to use instead.
The phrase “rule of thumb” is most often used in sentences in two ways:
> I don’t date people I work with, as a rule of thumb.
> A good rule of thumb is to put 10% of your pay into savings.
stand with your feet shoulder width apart
Standing “shoulder width apart” means that you’re standing with a little space between your feet. When you stand this way, each foot is straight below the outside of your shoulders.
This phrase is used in sports, exercise, and dance when you’re giving instructions.
A friend of yours is really upset because she made a bad grade on a test. However, the grade wasn’t really that bad. You think that she’s too strict about her grades. You say:
There’s no sense beating yourself up over it.
There’s no sense in (doing something)
Use this expression to talk about things that you shouldn’t do because it would be wasteful:
> There’s no sense in asking him; he doesn’t know anything.
> There’s no sense in throwing away a perfectly good pair of shoes.
In the first example, it would waste time to ask the person who doesn’t know anything. In the second example, it would be wasteful to throw away the shoes.
In the sentence “There’s no sense in beating yourself up over it,” the speaker wants to say that thinking about a mistake again and again is a waste of time. It makes the person upset but doesn’t have any positive results.
beat (one)self up over(something)
“Beating yourself up over something” means getting angry at yourself because of a mistake.
- You can “beat yourself up over” a lot of mistakes such as:
- forgetting something important
- making a bad life decision
- losing a competition
- saying something embarrassing in front of people you wanted to impress
You mostly use this expression to tell people not to “beat themselves up over” a mistake.
You made some delicious grilled chicken for a party. A guest asks how you made it. You say:
I marinated it overnight in some garlic, ginger, lime, and olive oil.
marinate (a food ingredient)
One technique in cooking meat or vegetables is to put them in a mixture of different flavors and let them sit for a while before you cook it. The meat or vegetables then start to taste like these other flavors. This technique is called “marination”.
You can “marinate” ingredients for a few minutes, a few hours, or a day or two. This is different from some other processes, like “pickling”, because you almost always cook food after marinating it.
do (something) overnight
You can describe a process that starts one day and ends the next day can be as happening “overnight”. For example:
> Soak the beans overnight.
> Let it dry overnight.
some (stuff)
Use “some” to talk about a general amount of something. For example, if you don’t want to specifically say how much of an ingredient to use in a recipe, use “some”:
> Sprinkle some salt and pepper on it.
“Salt” and “pepper” are uncountable, but you can also use “some” to talk about countable things:
> There were some people there from Taiwan.
Your son asks if some yogurt that’s in your refrigerator is too old to eat. You’re not sure. You say:
I don’t know, sweetie. Check the expiration date.
sweetie
“Sweetie” is a name that you can call someone. Here are some examples of who calls who “sweetie”:
- Mothers can call their children “sweetie”
- A father can call his daughters “sweetie”, but probably not his sons.
- Teachers might call their students “sweetie” if the students are very young, like 8 years old or lower.
- Some gay men call their friends and various other people “sweetie”.
- Some older women call anyone younger than them “sweetie”, even strangers.
- You can call your boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife “sweetie”.
check the expiration date
Packaged food products usually have an “expiration date” printed somewhere on tha package. This is the date that you’re supposed to use it by. After that date, the product is “expired”, which means that it’s not good any more.
To find out if a product is expired, you “check the expiration date”.
You see someone in the elevator who’s trying to untie the wires of his headphones. You think it’s funny because you do that a lot too. You say:
Don’t you hate how those cords always get tangled up?
Don’t you hate how (something happens)?
This is a way to talk about something that’s annoying to both you and the person you’re talking to. For example:
> Don’t you hate how he’s always interrupting people?
The word “hate” sometimes describes a really strong emotion, but in this case it doesn’t sound that strong.
There’s another form that you can also use: “Don’t you hate it when (something happens)?”
> Don’t you hate it when you say something sarcastically and people think you’re serious about it?
This version is for things that happen more rarely.
a cord
A “cord” is basically the same as a “wire”, but with some small differences. A “cord” usually comes out of an electrical device and plugs into something else. You could call this a “wire” too, but “cord” is more common.
Inside of an electical device, there are probably a lot of small wires. You wouldn’t call these “cords”.
The word “cable” also describes a type of wire. A “cable” is longer and thicker than a cord. For example, electrical cables provide power to your home.
(something) gets tangled up
Long, thin things like ropes, cables, and hair sometimes “get tangled up”. This means that they accidentally get tied into confusing little knots.
You don’t need to include “up”. You can also just say, for example:
> The cord is tangled.
This is a little more formal and serious-sounding.