month13 Flashcards
You’re an adult man, but you’re a fan of a TV show that’s mostly watched by teenage girls. You’re explaining to a friend that you started watching it because of your daughter.
I started watching over her shoulder and… what can I say? I got sucked into it
What can I say?
“What can I say” is something you say when you don’t have any other good response to what someone says. Some situations where you can give this answer include:
When someone says something really good about you, and you agree but you don’t want to brag.
When someone is really angry about something, but you aren’t able to fix their problem.
When someone criticizes you, and you agree that it’s true.
(someone) gets sucked in (to something)
When something completely takes all of a person’s attention, you can say that that person has been “sucked into” it. For example, you might get sucked into:
a really addictive crime novel
a long and complicated video game
an exciting but very competitive industry, like the entertainment industry
news about a famous murder trial
Another meaning of “sucked in” is to be fooled by someone’s lies and false promises:
Don’t get sucked in by credit cards offering free airline miles or other perks.
Being “sucked into” something is usually negative, whether it’s used with the first or second meaning.
(read/watch)(something) over (someone’s) shoulder
Imagine that someone is reading a book in a chair. You stand behind the chair and start to read the book that this person is reading. In this situation, you’re “reading over their shoulder”.
You can use the phrase “reading over (someone’s) shoulder” to talk about reading someone else’s book, newspaper, magazine, etc. It doesn’t matter where the reader is standing or sitting.
It’s also possible to watch TV over someone’s shoulder. If one person is watching a TV show alone, and you start to watch it while pretending to do something else, you’re “watching over their shoulder”.
You’re playing with a football on the beach with your girlfriend. You’re surprised at how well she throws, so you compliment her.
You throw pretty well for a girl.
pretty (adverb)
You use “pretty” before an adverb to show how much of that quality something has. For example:
I drive pretty slowly.
“Pretty ___” means “a little more than expected”. It’s halfway between “a little” and “very”.
pretty good / pretty well for (a category)
This expression is hard to explain, so let’s begin with some examples:
You speak English pretty well for a non-native.
This is pretty good… for an American beer.
You use phrases like this to compare something to the category that it belongs to. It expresses the idea that something is better than other things in that category, but not better than things outside of that category.
So in the example “You speak English pretty well for a non-native,” the category is “non-natives”. The sentence means “You speak English better than most non-natives. However, you don’t speak as well as native English speakers.”
In the second example, the speaker is talking about an American beer. He or she is saying that the beer is better than most American beers, but not better than beers from some other places (like German beers, for example).
The most typical example of this expression is “You’re pretty good for a girl.” Men say this to compliment a woman who’s able to do things that men usually do, like playing certain sports.
You’re at a wedding. The ceremony is almost finished. The minister says this to officially announce that the couple is married.
I now pronounce you man and wife. You may kiss the bride.
I now pronounce you man and wife.
At a wedding ceremony, the minister or wedding officiant says this to officially announce that the couple is married.
This phrase is very formal-sounding.
“I now pronounce you…” means “I officially say that you are…” This expression is not often used outside of wedding ceremonies. If someone does say “I now pronounce you…” in another situation, it’s probably a joke.
You may kiss the bride.
The minister or wedding officiant in a wedding says this at the end of a ceremony. It means that the couple may kiss each other.
Traditionally, the minister says “You may kiss the bride” to the groom. These days, some couples request that the minister say something like “You may now kiss” to avoid sexism.
You may (do something). This is a very formal way to give someone permission to do something.
A judge in a courtroom might use the phrase “You may…” to give people permission to do things during a trial. For example, when the judge enters the court, everyone is supposed to stand. After the judge enters, he or she might say:
You may be seated.
You can also hear this expression when you take a formal, standardized test. The person who’s administering the test (usually a teacher) will read the instructions. At the end of the instructions, when everyone is ready to take the test, he or she will say:
You may begin.
You’re talking with someone about the government of North Korea. This person doesn’t know much about North Korea, so you explain who the country’s leader is.
He inherited the position from his father
inherit a position from (someone)
When an older person dies, their things often go to their children or younger relatives. You can describe this by saying that the younger people “inherit” the things from their older relatives. For example, some things that a person can inherit from an older family member include:
money
a house
furniture
jewelry
In addition to money and physical things, a person can also “inherit a position”. For example, the CEO of a privately-owned company might make one of her children the CEO when she retires. In this case, you can say:
She inherited the position of CEO from her mother.
You’re a young man. You’re waiting in a really long line at an amusement park. After waiting for several minutes without moving, you get really frustrated and say this to your friend.
Can you believe this shit?
Can you believe (something)?
The phrase “Can you believe ___?” is used to criticize something that you don’t like. For example:
Can you believe he didn’t even call me back?
Can you believe this shit?
Use this when you think people are doing something that’s totally unacceptable, and you’re surprised that they’re doing it. You usually say this to someone who you think agrees with your opinion.
“Just (did something)” is often used along with this phrase:
Can you believe she just took it without asking? How rude!
this shit
Use “this shit” to refer to something that you don’t like:
Ew. What is this shit?
I don’t have time for this shit!
“Shit” is a curse word, so there are many situations in which it’s not polite to say it. You shouldn’t say “shit”:
around young children
around strangers who you want to impress
to people who you are trying to impress, like your boyfriend or girlfriend’s family
in church
When you do use the phrase “this shit”, it sounds angry and tough.
You’re talking with a friend who has allergies. Your cousin has allergies and told you about a medicine that she takes which helps. You tell your friend about this medicine. You don’t think she needs a prescription to get it.
I believe it’s sold over the counter
I believe (something) This is a very light way to use "I believe". Usually people say "I believe..." when describing their important and strongly-held opinions. For example:
I believe that everything happens for a reason.
But you can also use “I believe…” to talk about something that you’re not completely sure of. Here are some examples of “I believe” used this way:
There’s a keyboard shortcut for that… I believe it’s “Control” plus “E”.
A: When is the company picnic?
B: I believe it’s on the fifteenth.
When you use “believe” this way, emphasize the word “believe”, rather than “I”.
(a medicine) is sold over the counter
Medicine is sold in two ways:
“Prescription drugs” require a prescription from a doctor. You can’t buy them unless you have this. They’re only sold at drug stores.
“Over-the-counter drugs” don’t require a prescription. You can buy them at a drug store or sometimes even at grocery stores, convenience stores, etc.
For over-the-counter drugs, you can say that they are “sold over the counter”:
A: Is it sold over the counter?
B: No, it’s a prescription drug.
Your boss has asked you and a coworker to do a project that will take a few weeks to complete. You’re talking with your coworker about it. You think it’s a good idea to get started soon, so you suggest that to your coworker.
We should get started on that sooner rather than later, don’t you think
don’t you think?
Use this question to ask for agreement from a listener. People use this expression when:
they’re making a suggestion:
You should ask the professor for help, don’t you think?
they want to state their opinion, but they don’t feel confident enough to just directly say it
they want the listeners to feel included in the statement
Wow. I love this place. It’s great, don’t you think?
they want the listener to admit that something is true:
You’re too old for that, don’t you think?
get started on (something)
The phrase “get started” simply means “start”.
You use “get started on ___” to talk about work that needs to be done:
Do you want me to get started on the salad?
A: Can you pull together a list of all of our clients in that region for the past two years?
B: Of course. I’ll get started on that right away!
Just use “start” to talk about ongoing actions:
I need to start exercising.
(do something) sooner rather than later
This phrase means to do something soon, and not wait. You use it like this:
I think we should talk to an accountant sooner rather than later.
If you’re going to break it off with him, you ought to do it sooner rather than later
Your nephew has just graduated from college and started his first job. You’re talking to him at a family get-together. You give him some money advice.
A good rule of thumb is to put 10% of your pay into savings.
a rule of thumb
A “rule of thumb” is an easy-to-remember rule that you can use to make a decision.
Some useful rules of thumb include:
Don’t date someone that you work with.
Try to get 8 hours of sleep each night.
Put at least 10% of your pay into savings.
“Rules of thumb” aren’t always true, but they’re true most of the time, so you can follow them unless you have some better information to use instead.
The phrase “rule of thumb” is most often used in sentences in two ways:
I don’t date people I work with, as a rule of thumb.
A good rule of thumb is to put 10% of your pay into savings.
put (money) in savings
Putting money “in savings” means putting the money in a savings account at a bank. You can use it like this:
I try to put a few hundred dollars in savings each month.
(someone’s) pay
A person’s “pay” is the money that they get for doing their job.
The government takes out a third of your pay for taxes.
A more formal way to talk about pay is with the word “salary”:
Nearly 40% of my salary goes to taxes.
You have tickets to a big music festival. You’re talking with a friend who’s going with you, and you want to express how excited you are.
I am so psyched!
(someone) is psyched
“Psyched” is a slang expression that means “very excited”. You can describe yourself as “psyched” about something fun that you have planned with your friends.
The combinations “totally psyched” and “so psyched” are common.
This phrase has been growing in popularity since the 1960s.
You’re a biology teacher. You’re teaching your students about genetics. You ask them to look at an illustration in their textbooks.
Everybody take a look at the picture on page 46. This is a model of what a strand of DNA looks like
this
Use “this” when pointing at an object that’s close to you. How close? When you’re standing up, it’s usually used for things that are 4-5 steps away. When you’re sitting down, it’s usually for things that are within arm’s reach.
You use “that” for things that are further away, or for something that’s closer to the listener than it is to you:
Do you have that sofa in green?
If you and your listeners are all looking at copies of the same thing, you can say “this”. For example, if you’re giving a presentation with a slide show, you can talk about what’s on screen:
This is a projection of our revenue for Q2.
take a look
The word “look” is very general. It can mean to look for a long time, a short time, carefully, absent-mindedly, or in many other ways. “Take a look” is more specific. It means to look at something for a short period, usually for a specific purpose.
You can ask someone to take a look at something that needs to be fixed, or for something that’s important for them to see. Here’s another example from a science classroom. The teacher tells the class to look at something in the textbook:
Everybody take a look at the picture on page 46. This is a model of what a strand of DNA looks like.
Everybody (do something).
When you’re giving instructions to a group of people, you can tell them “Everybody ___.” Teachers say this a lot in a classroom.
Everbody stop what you’re doing and focus your attention on me for a moment.
A tour guide might say this:
Everybody follow me.
(something) is a model of (something)
A “model” is something that represents something complicated and helps people to understand it.
Models can be “3-D models”, which are objects that you can touch. For example, some people put together model cars or model trains.
There are also “2-D models”, which are illustrations or drawings of something. Texbooks often have models of things, like:
a model of a cell in a biology textbook
a model of the inside of a star in an astronomy textbook
a strand of DNA
“DNA” is a kind of complex molecule inside of cells which controlls the cell.
DNA is made of a long chain of atoms which are connected to each other. The word “DNA” is uncountable, but because of the long, thin shape, you can count it by talking about individual “strands”:
How long is a strand of DNA?
The word “strand” is also used to count other long, thin things:
a strand of hair
a strand of pearls
a strand of spaghetti
what (something) (looks/sounds/etc.) like
Talk about the way that something looks with the phrase “what ___ looks like”. This phrase functions as a noun:
I don’t know what he looks like.
You can talk about how something sounds, smells, tastes, etc. in the same way:
What it smells like is not as important as what it tastes like.
This expression is a bit casual. A more formal way to express the same idea is “how ___ looks”, “how ___ sounds”, etc.
You got in an argument with a stranger at a bar. You almost got into a fight with him. Now you’re leaving the bar and talking about what happened with your friends. You express how angry you were.
I swear, I came this close to just slamming him right in his face!
I came this close to (doing something)
This is an expression that people say while holding their thumb and index finger close together (like they’re holding a pea between them). It means “I almost (did something)”:
I swear, I came this close to just punching him right in his face!
I came this close to getting killed by a bear!
People use this expression in spoken English, but almost never in writing.
I swear (clause)! If you're saying something that's a little hard to believe or sounds like an exaggeration, you can put "I swear..." in front of it. It means "I promise that this is true". For example:
I caught a fish yesterday, and I swear it was as long as my arm!
That aerobics class was brutal! I swear, I’ve never sweated so much in my life.
One confusing point is that people sometimes say “I swear” even though they really are exaggerating:
I swear, the line at the coffee shop this morning was like an hour long!
English speakers are also likely say “I swear…” when they’re angry, to show that they’re serious about a threat that they’re making:
I swear, if you don’t be quiet, I’m going to slap you!
just (do something)
One interesting way that English speakers use “just” is to talk about doing things which you’re not supposed to do.
You can talk about hitting someone this way:
Arrrr! He made me so angry, I wanted to just smack him!
Or about other things that are forbidden, like yelling at your boss:
I thought about just standing up and telling Janice what I really think of her.
hit (someone) in the face
To talk about hitting someone’s face, use the preposition “in”:
I hit him right in his ugly face!
Use this for objects too:
The ball bounced up and hit me in the face.
You can either use “the face” or “my/his/her/etc. face”.
One common variation on this phrase is “right in the face”, which means hitting someone hard and directly in the face.
slam (someone)
“Slamming” someone means hitting them hard.
You can “slam” someone with your fist, or by running into them with your body. A car can also “slam” into another car.
This is a very energetic, expressive word. You’re likely to use it while telling a story.
When you were younger, you were in good shape. Now you don’t exercise much, so you’re out of shape. You’re talking to a friend about how hard it is for you to exercise now.
I used to be able to run five miles without breaking a sweat. Now I get winded after the first five minutes
(someone) used to be able to (do something)
To describe an ability that someone had in the past, use the phrase “___ used to be able to ___”.
Didn’t you use to be able to do a back handspring?
In native-sounding English, it’s much more common to use “used to be able to” than “could”. We use “could” mostly to talk about something that a person was able to do one time in the past, like this:
I could see them, but I couldn’t hear what they were saying.
miles
A mile is a measurement of distance that’s used in the United States. It’s equal to about 1.61 kilometers.
(do something) without breaking a sweat
Doing something “without breaking a sweat” means doing it easily.
You can use this phrase to talk about physical activities like running, moving heaving boxes, etc.
You can also say that someone cooked a meal, hosted a wedding party, etc. “without breaking a sweat”.
“Without breaking a sweat” is colloquial and casual-sounding.
(someone) gets winded
“Getting winded” means not having enough air because you’ve exercised too hard. You might get winded after running faster than usual.
People can also get winded when something big hits them in the chest or back.
Your son is behaving badly during dinner. You threaten to punish him this way.
If you don’t behave yourself, you’re going straight to sleep after dinner. Do you understand me?
go straight (to somewhere) To "go straight to" somewhere means going there directly, without going anywere else on the way. Notice that you use "to" with most destinations:
went straight to work
go straight to the police station
go straight to my house
However, “home” has its own special rules. You shouldn’t use “to” with “home”:
go straight home
go to sleep
When you’re talking about sleeping, there are several stages:
When you’re awake and then start sleeping, it’s called “going to sleep”.
After you have gone to sleep, we say that you “are asleep”.
Then you “wake up”.
Once you wake up, you “are awake”.
There are other actions that have similar stages. For example, you “put on” clothes, then “wear” them, then “take them off”.
If you don’t (do something), (consequence)
This is an expression that English speakers use when they need to threaten someone.
For example,
If you don’t pay me by the end of the month, I’m kicking you out.
If you don’t stop making that noise, I’m going to scream!
Of course, threatening people is often a bad idea and can lead to arguments.
behave yourself
“Behaving yourself” means acting in the way that you’re supposed to.
We often tell children to behave themselves. This means that they should not:
make loud, annoying noises
move or run around too much
say rude things
Do you understand me?
When someone like a parent, teacher, or boss is angry, they may tell their children, student, or employee what to do, and then ask “Do you understand me?” They expect a response like this:
A: You are not allowed to go out with him again. Do you understand me?
B: (Looks angry.)
A: I said, “Do you understand me?”
B: Yes, I get it.
When English speakers ask “Do you understand?” or “Do you understand me?” it often sounds angry and impatient. If you want to know whether someone understands you, but want to ask politely, ask:
Does that make sense?
Or maybe:
Got it?
Your roommate is going out on a first date. You’re helping her decide what to wear and how to style her hair. You suggest a hair style that will make her look mature.
What if you put it up in a bun?
What if (we / you) (did something)? The question "What if we \_\_\_?" is used to suggest doing something. When you say it in this way, it sounds like you're suggesting a new idea that you had. It also sounds like you're only suggesting one possible way of doing something, but you haven't decided that it's the best way yet. Some examples:
What if we offered a two-for-one deal?
You can also say “What if you…”:
What if you tried applying for a job at a nursing home?
put (one’s) hair up
“Putting your hair up” means styling your long hair in some way so that it’s not just hanging down on its own. Some different hair stlyes that are considered “putting your hair up” include:
putting it in a ponytail
putting it in a bun
braiding it
The opposite action from “putting your hair up” is “letting your hair down”.
You can also “wear your hair up” or “wear it down”.
a (hair) bun
A “bun” is a kind of hair style in which you tie your long hair into a kind of ball shape on the back of your head, usually near the top.
Your friend told you he was going to shave his head. You told him it was a bad idea, but he did it anyway. Now his girlfriend is angry that he did it. You want to tell her what you said so that she doesn’t get angry at you.
I tried to talk him out of it.
talk (someone) out of (something)
When someone is making a bad decision, you might try to “talk them out of” it. This means that you try to convince them not to do it.
For example:
I’m quitting, and there’s no way you can talk me out of it!
This phrase is not too formal or too casual; you can use it in most situations.