month3 Flashcards
You coach a kids’ soccer team. The players are practicing, but they’re not running as fast as they can. You want them to run faster, so you say:
Pick up the pace, ladies!
pick up the pace
To “pick up the pace” means to go faster. You can use this to talk about running, working, reading, and other things. However, you probably wouldn’t use “pick up the pace” to talk about the speed of a car.
ladies
You can call a group of girls or women “ladies”. It’s common in a situation like the one above: when a teacher or coach is talking to a group of girls or women. It sounds polite, but authoritative.
Your name is complicated to pronounce for English speakers. You’re introducing yourself to someone that you just met, and explaining how to pronounce your name. You say:
I know; it doesn’t exactly roll off the tongue.
I know
Say this when there’s something that’s annoying or difficult for other people, but you can’t fix it.
> I know; you don’t want to be here. But there’s nothing we can do about it, so we might as well enjoy it.
not exactly
This is an example of understatement. In the example above, the speaker’s name is really hard to pronounce. But instead of saying “it’s really hard”, she says “it doesn’t exactly…” in order to sound witty and intelligent.
Here’s another example: if your husband is overweight, but made fun of you for being a little heavy, you can say:
> You’re not exactly in the best shape yourself, you know.
(something) rolls off the tongue
When a name or word is easy to pronounce, we say that it “rolls off the tongue”. You can use it in a positive sense like this:
> His last name is Lane, huh? So you would be Lisa Lane? I like it; it kind of rolls off the tongue.
A coworker is trying to create a spreadsheet to calculate some information. He can’t figure out how to calculate it, so he asks you for help. You can’t immediately fix it, but you’d like to try a few different options. You say:
I’ll fiddle around with it for a while.
When you want to offer to do something, and you’re sure that the listener will accept your offer, say “I’ll ___”:
> I’ll call you next week and we can settle on the time and place.
> I’ll go pick up all the stuff we need.
> I’ll print out a few copies of that for people to refer to.
If you’re not as sure that your offer will be accepted, you can say “I can ___ if you want.”:
> I can fiddle around with it for a while if you want.### fiddle around with (something)When something isn’t working correctly, you might “fiddle around with” it. Fiddling around with something means trying different things to see what works. Here are some things that you might “fiddle around with”:
- a computer program that you don’t really know how to use correctly
- a part that’s fallen off of your bicycle
- a new music player that your wife can’t figure out how to load songs into
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You’re on a car trip with your son. He says that he has to go to the bathroom, but you just stopped at a gas station 10 minutes ago. You don’t want to stop again so soon. You ask him:
Can you hold it in for a few more minutes?
hold it in
When you have to use the bathroom, but you need to wait, you “hold it in”.
Something else that people “hold in” is a secret:
> She told me not to say anything about it, but I just couldn’t hold it in!
So you might say that people “hold in” something that’s inside of them but pushing to get out.
(do something) for a few more minutes
This is an easy expression to understand, but it might be helpful to remember it all together. Here are some other examples:
> Stir it for a few more minutes.
> Let’s wait for just a few more minutes.
You’re eating dinner with a friend at a restaurant. You’re eating an appetizer that comes with a dipping sauce. It tastes really good, so you want to encourage your friend to taste it. You say:
You’ve got to try this sauce. It’s amazing!
You’ve GOT to (do something)
One way that people use the expression “You’ve GOT to ___” is to make enthusiastic recommendations of things.
In the example above, the speaker says that her friend “has got to” try the sauce because it’s really good. Here’s another example:
> You’ve never been to the Met? Oh my gosh, you’ve GOT to go there! They have the most amazing exhibits.
This is similar to using “got to” to beg for something:
> Please! You’ve got to help me!### (something) is amazingThe word “amazing” means “really, really great”.In American English, words like “amazing” and “awesome” have been slowly losing their strength over recent years. It might seem like exaggeration to call a tasty sauce “amazing”, but it’s a common way of speaking.
One of your employees looks sick. You ask her why she came to work, and she says that she has a lot of work to do. You’d rather she go home so that she doesn’t make other people sick. You say:
If you’re feeling under the weather, by all means go home and get some rest.
(someone) is feeling (adjective)
It might seem a little mysterious why the speaker uses “If you’re feeling” instead of “If you feel…” in this sentence. When people are talking about someone’s health, it’s common to use the progressive form (“feeling”) instead:
> How are you feeling?
> I’m feeling a lot better lately.
(someone) feels under the weather
“Feeling under the weather” means that you feel sick. This phrase usually describes someone with cold or flu symptoms.
by all means, (do something)
When you introduce a suggestion with “by all means”, it shows that you completely think that the listener should take your suggestion. It’s a way of showing that you’re serious about what you’re saying:
> A: Can I sit and watch you work for a few minutes?B: By all means.
People use “by all means” in arguments as well:
> A: I’ve had enough of you! I don’t have to put up with this, you know.B: If you want to leave, by all means, go right ahead.
Another way to explain “by all means” is that it’s like saying “Don’t hesitate.”
go home and get some rest
People say this to sick people.
You’re checking one of your students’ essays. One of the sections of the essay isn’t very convincing because the student didn’t explain himself very well. You want him to write more. You say:
Try to flesh out that first point a little bit more.
try to (do something)
You may have heard that there’s a difference between “try to (do something)” and “try (doing something)”. In general, you should state a goal after “try to ___”:
> Try to get there by 10:00.
> I try to make everyone feel comfortable when I host a party.
And state methods with “try ___ing”:
> I can never sleep on an airplane. I’ve tried listening to relaxing music, taking sleeping pills, staying up the night before. Nothing seems to work.
flesh out (something)
“Fleshing something out” means adding details, explanations, information, etc. to make something more complete.
Here are some of the main things that you can “flesh out”:
- flesh out a character (in a story)
- flesh out a decription
- flesh out an idea
- flesh out a point
a point
When you’re writing or speaking to convince people of something, you “make points”. A “point” is basically one idea that you want people to believe or understand. Communicating one of these ideas is called “making a point”.
In one speech or essay, there are usually several points. Traditionally, people try to make three or more points which all support one “main point” of the writing or speech.
For example, if I write a blog post about why memorizing English phrases is a good way to learn, I might make a few points:
- you can learn how different words fit together
- it’s easier to picture and remember words in phrases than by themselves
- it’s a good way to avoid mentally translating words into your native language
Each of these “points” might contain smaller points as well.
This is why, when someone says something smart, people say”
> Good point.
Your close friend has been dating a girl for only two months. Now he tells you that they’re engaged. You’re worried that it’s too fast and they don’t know each other well enough yet. You say:
Don’t you think you’re rushing into things?
Don’t you think (something)?
This is a way to introduce an opinion carefully. If you’re worried that your opinion might make the listener angry or that they might disagree with you, ask this way:
> Don’t you think we should go back now?
(someone) is rushing into things
“Rushing into things” means making a big decision too quickly. You can tell people not to “rush into things” when they quickly decide something like:
- buying a house
- moving to a new country
- quitting their job
People use this phrase in sentences like:
> Let’s not rush into things.
> Don’t you think you’re rushing into things?
> No need to rush into things.
Your son made a rude gesture, so he got in trouble at school. Now he’s not allowed to ride the school bus for two weeks. You’re explaining what happened to your brother. You say:
He got suspended for flipping off the bus driver.
(someone) got suspended (from school)
“Getting suspended” from school means that you can’t come to the school for some specific length of time. Schools sometimes suspend students to punish them for bad behavior.
You can also “get suspended” from some other things:
- students can get suspended from a school bus if they do bad things on the bus
- police officers can get suspended from work if they do something wrong.
flip (someone) off
This phrase refers to a certain rude gesture
One of your employees looks sick. You ask her why she came to work, and she says that she has a lot of work to do. You’d rather she go home so that she doesn’t make other people sick. You say:
If you’re feeling under the weather, by all means go home and get some rest.
(someone) is feeling (adjective)
It might seem a little mysterious why the speaker uses “If you’re feeling” instead of “If you feel…” in this sentence. When people are talking about someone’s health, it’s common to use the progressive form (“feeling”) instead:
> How are you feeling?
> I’m feeling a lot better lately.
(someone) feels under the weather
“Feeling under the weather” means that you feel sick. This phrase usually describes someone with cold or flu symptoms.
by all means, (do something)
When you introduce a suggestion with “by all means”, it shows that you completely think that the listener should take your suggestion. It’s a way of showing that you’re serious about what you’re saying:
You’re a new mother. You’re complaining to your husband that you don’t have enough time to rest because your son always needs to be fed or have his diaper changed. You tell him about something that happened this evening:
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Just as I started to think that I was going to get a few minutes to relax, the baby woke up and started crying at the top of his lungs.
Just as (someone) started to think (something), (something happened)
You can use this expression when:
- There’s a bad situation.
- It seems like the situation is going to get better, BUT…
- Something else bad happens.
For example,
You can always use it in the opposite situation, when it seems like something bad is going to happen, but then you get saved:
> Just as I started to think that we were lost, Samantha found the trail again.
get (some time) to relax
Busy people use this expression to talk about the times when they can relax and not work. Here’s another example:
> Ah! It’s nice to finally get a few days to relax.
(do something) at the top of (one’s) lungs
When a person makes a noise as loudly as they can, you can say that they’re making the noise “at the top of (their) lungs”.
Noises that people make “at the top of their lungs” include
- screaming
- yelling
- crying
- calling out to people
- singing
You’re trying to read a book. Your boyfriend is whistling a song loudly while he reads something on his computer. It’s annoying you, so you say:
Do you mind?
Do you mind?
When someone is doing something rude or annoying, you can ask “Do you mind?” in an angry way. For example, you can use this phrase in situations such as:
- Someone is making noise when you’re trying to concentrate.
- You’re trying to watch a show on television, and someone in your family sits right in front of you so that you can’t see.
You can also ask “Do you mind?” in a more friendly way when you’re asking to use something that belongs to another person. For example:
> A: You can use the shower here if you want.B: Do you mind?A: Not at all! Go right ahead.
You’re trying to have a quiet conversation with your friend, but your children are running around and yelling. They’re starting to make you angry. You say:
They are testing the limits of my patience!
test the limits of (something)
If you want to see how loud a pair of stereo speakers can get, you turn the volume knob up as far as you can. Similarly, if you want to see how quickly your car can speed up, you might push the gas pedal down as hard as you can. These are both examples of “testing the limits” of something.
The “limit” of something is be largest, strongest, farthest, hottest, etc. possible. When you “test the limits” of something, you’re trying to find out what the limit is.
Here are some expressions with “test the limits”:
> test the limits of my endurance
> test the limits of human potential
> test the limits of the law
> test the limits of credulity
(something) is testing the limits of my patience
When people (or things) are really annoying, you can say that they’re “testing the limits of your patience”.
It’s like you’re imagining that the annoying things are trying to be as annoying as possible, so that they can find out what will finally make you angry.
You’re interviewing a candidate for a job. You want to hear some general information about him. You say:
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Tell me a bit about yourself.
Tell me a bit about yourself.
This is a common first question in job interviews in English. An interviewer asks this to get general information from the job applicant.
If an interviewer says this to you in an interview, you should answer by telling them:
- your name (if they haven’t already heard or read it)
- a short history of your most recent jobs
- why you want to work at this company
ell me (something)
You can ask for information from a person this way.
“Tell me ___” is very direct, so you should probably use it when you’re in a more powerful position than the person you’re talking to. For example, a police officer can say to the witness of a crime:
> Tell me what happened.
A teacher can say to a misbehaving student:
> Tell me why you did this.
If you’re not in a position of authority, you should find a more indirect way to ask for information.