Module 7: Feedback & Dealing With Conflicts Flashcards
Johari Window
A framework to help people better understand their relationship with themselves and others
Johari window
Arena
Known to self & others
Johari window
Known to self & others
Arena
Johari window
Blind spot
Known to others & not known to self
Johari window
Known to others & not known to self
Blind spot
Johari window
Unknown
Not known to self & not known to others
Johari window
Not known to self & not known to others
Unknown
Johari window
Facade
Known to self & not known to others
Johari window
Known to self & not known to others
Facade
Which quadrant from the Johari window should be aimed to maximise?
The Arena quadrant (open book mentality)
BCAF model
- Describe the behaviour that you see
- Describe the consequence of this behaviour
- Describe the alternatives and the desired behaviour
- Describe the feeling this evokes in you
Interpersonal conflict
Disagreement between or among connected individuals (friends, lovers, colleagues, family) who perceive their goals as incompatible
Interdependent
What one person does impacts the other
Glasl escalation stages
A measure to analyse a conflict and indicate the degree of escalation
Glasl escalation stages
Phase 0
Latent: There is no conflict yet, but the potential is there
What causes a conflict from phase 0 to phase 1
A reason/trigger
Glasl escalation stages
Phase 1
Win-win: (stages: Hardening, Debate and polemic, Actions not words) There is tension between both parties, but they still talk to each other (rational)
Glasl escalation stages
Phase 2
Win-lose: (stages: Image and coalitions, Loss of face, Strategies of threats) Attention moves from conflict to negative feelings for those involved, distrust, open hostility and actions obstruct cooperation, communication becomes less frequent (emotional)
Glasl escalation stages
Phase 3
Lose-lose: (stages: Limited destructive blows, Fragmentation of the enemy, Together into the abyss) Overt conflict, which leads to passive resistance of overt aggresstion, parties seeking to cause harm (fight)
Glasl escalation stages
Reasons for trigger/reason:
- Incident (ex: remark, phonecall, …)
- Problem (what it is actually about)
- Perception (problems and incidents are perceived in a subjective manner)
- Cause (can only be uncovered if the initial incident is taken into account, the underlying problem and the subjective perception of the problem are often hidden)
Glasl escalation stages
Different stimuli to cause the conflict to de-escalate
- Show understanding for a certain reaction
- Being appreciated
- Apologising
- New (positive) information
Conflict management strategies
Accomodating “Teddy Bear”
- Low goal orientation
- High relationships orientation
Conflict management strategies
Collaborative “Owl”
- High goal orientation
- High relationship orientation
Conflict management strategies
Compromising “Fox”
- Negotiated goal orientation
- Negotiated relationship orientation