Module 4:Lesson 1 Flashcards
What are the 3 challenges?
Challenges in the family
School Demands
Peer Challenges
What are the 4 challenges in the family?
a.Quest for Independence
b.High Expectations
c.Making Career Choices
d.Relationship Issue
How to deal with family expectations?
Communicate openly
Understand your parents
Be responsible
School life tasks occupied so much of your time and energy.Admittedly,there are times when the demands can be really a challenge.
School Demands
How to cope up with school demands?
Plan
Develop good study habits
Avoid procrastination
Part of growing up is engaging in social interactions and developing meaningful relationships.While the experience brings a lot of exciting things,you discover that there are also challenges in dealing with people.
Peer Challenges
Peer group involvement and need for recognition are both part of transition process towards adulthood.It is good to find people who interest you in doing positive things.
Peer pressure
Tips how to handle peer pressure:
Avoid groups that ask you to do something against your will.
Learn to say no.
Keep good company.
Do not be afraid to talk to people,parents,teachers or other in authority when you are dealing with peer pressure.
It is understandable that you do not always agree with other people.
Peer conflict
Ways to resolve conflict according to Throop and Castellucci:
•Make a commitment to resolve the problem
•Be clear with your intension for resolving the conflict.
•Stick with facts.
•Deal with your anger.
•Avoid saying or doing something in the heat of the moment.
•Reflect where your anger is coming from.
•Relieve your tension caused by anger.
•Calm yourself.Breather.
•Find someone you can talk to or someone who will listen to you and may give some suggestions.