Models af Mark Manson Flashcards
What is “projection”
Internal circumstances from women who are afraid of their own sexuality. Issues and resentment with men.
It’s impossible not to be invested in a woman but…?
It is possible to be less invested in the woman.
What is the book’s definition of a man having a higher status than a woman?
The man is less needy that the woman.
Honesty and vulnerable
The more nervous it makes me, the better
Social status
Determined by how you behave around other people, how people behave around you and how to treat yourself.
Reminder: Treat others well, be treated well by others and treat yourself well.
What is the main goal of women who are “unreceptive”
Spot them and quickly move on. Rejection is your friend.
What is a man’s succes with women
Maximizing happiness with a woman we prefer
Intention
My intention is speaking 10x louder than words
Set boundaries
Make it clear from the start that I’m not willing to play games = stop attracting women who do play games.
What do I value in a woman
Outdoor, affection and education
What are “the three fundamentals” (hint: honest)?
- Living based on our values (honest living)
- Becoming comfortable with our intensions (honest action)
- Expressing our sexuality
Honest communication/having game
Humor, abiliy to connect with people, storyteilling, engaging people’s attension and charisme expressing your sexuality openly.
Why are you afraid of approaching a woman?
You are more invested in her opinion of you than you are of yourself
Why are you afraid of approaching a woman?
You are more invested in her opinion of you than you are of yourself
Deep voice
Head voice < chest voice
Exercise: Hum note, then slow raise it and then slowly lower it. Should should like a siren.
End goal: Becomes a habit
Be something attractive…
Rather than say something attractive
What are the three attraction categories?
Receptive, neutral and unreceptive
Voice cadance
Speak slowere
Why is it good to be autentic and honest to a woman?
What does it sub-communicate?
I’m totally okay with you rejecting me. Otherwise I would not be approaching you like this. (non needy).
Voice volume
Speak louder
The gift of truth
Compliment comes from a man who does not expect something in return
What is “Friction”
External circumstances that prevent women from acting on attraction or interest
List unique things, that I have done or experienced that most people haven’t (10 min)
List all the things I want to do before I die, assuming money and time isn’t an issue (10 min)
If the first list has fewer than 10 things - get out more
If the second list has fewer than 10 things, put yourself out there and try new things.
Pick three items from the second list and make it my goal to do within the next year.
When topics, ideas or thoughs come up…
How do I feel about that
It becomes less a question of blaming the woman being cold and more a question off…
Sacrifice. How much extra effort am I willing to put in, in order to not find a woman who isn’t cold.
It becomes less a question of blaming the woman being cold and more a question off…
Sacrifice. How much extra effort am I willing to put in, in order to not find a woman who isn’t cold.
The reciepe for a healthy and happy is…
Where both partners take responsibility for their own emotions and their choice to commit to each other.
I made a conscious decision that I was willing to sacrifice the risk of being hurt in order to enjoy the commitment of our relationship
I wouldn’t take that decision back. It was my responsibility.
How to show affection?
Touch
