7 habits of highly effective people Flashcards
What is a paradigms? What is a paradigm shift?
Paradigm: How a person perceives reality.
Maturity continunum (3 different)
- Dependant (You are responsible)
- Independant (I am responsible)
- Interdependant (We are responsible)
Emotional bank accounts
Deposit: Kindess
- Apologize first - even if I am not in the wrong
- Clearify expectations from your partner, co-worker ect.
(What are we hoping to achieve and who does what).
- Kepping commitments
Withdraw: Rude
- Don’t gossip
Give effective feedback
I message vs. you message
- Be proactive
The best way to predict your future is to create it.
Take full responsibility for where you at now in your life.
The power to choose how to react to everything that is coming your way. (Stimulis –> freedom to choose –> response)
The circle of influence (things you can influence vs. things you can’t control).