Marriage, Divorce & Family Diversity Flashcards
What are some of the different types of marriage?
Monogamy - marriage to only one partner at a time
Serial Monogamy - marrying more than once in your life because of divorce/death
Polygamy - marriage to multiple partners at the same time
* polygyny - religion/culture allows a man to have multiple wives * polyandry - culture allows women to have multiple husbands
What are some of the key trends in marriage & the marriage rate?
- the marriage rate is generally decreasing (stable rate) with a curb at the end
- a rise in the age of those getting married
- still older men on av. marrying slightly younger women
- class elements:
66% of professional class marries
44% of unskilled class
What do the trends in marriage according to class suggest about marriage as an institution?
The marriage is increasingly becoming a middle-class institution - most likely due to the expenses involved
How does marriage differ in British Asian communities?
- Richard Bertroud: majority live in n family (above black & white av) & are much more likely to live in multigenerational households for cultural/religious reasons
- 3/4 of Bengali/Pakistani women marriage by 25 compared to half of white women
- Arranged marriages more common & less divorce
- Less likely to have interracial marriages than any other ethnic group
How does marriage differ in Afri-Caribbean communities?
- less likely to be in a formal marriage
- only 39% of black British born adults are in formal
marriages VS 60% of white adults
- only 39% of black British born adults are in formal
- Greater no. on lone-parent families
(black women more likely to be employed than black men, often women prefer to be economically independent & have strong kinship networks ‘fictive kin’) - Most likely to marry into other ethnic groups, particularly White British
(1/2 of UK children have one black and one white parent)
List reasons for why the marriage rate has fallen in the last 50 years.
- Changing attitudes
- Cost
- Increasing secularisation
- The emergence of the welfare state
- The emergence of a liberal society
- Increasing consumerism
- Modern attitudes to dating/relationships
How have changing attitudes caused a decline in the marriage rate?
- marriage no longer seen as an obligatory ceremony for status (rather a symbol of love & commitment)
- women often have high expectations of a marital relationship are happy to wait to find the most suitable partner
- Some women focus on their career and marriage is a low priority
- secularisation means people don’t see marriage as necessary
- Feminists would argue this is good as women are allowed to choose to be married rather than being forced into it by societies expectations
How has the cost of marriage impacted the marriage rate?
- marriage is now extremely expensive
- recent statistics in 2019 found the av cost of a wedding in the UK = £32,000
- many people (esp due to secularisation) would rather spend the money on something else e.g a house
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How has increasing secularisation caused the marriage rate to decline?
- marriage is no longer seen as a sacred bond & an ideal to strive for in life
- less importance is placed in marriage as people are less religious
How has the Welfare state affected the marriage rate?
- Welfare policies have put people off marriage (unemployment benefit, cheaper child care)
- People can rely on the state & do not need financial/social security that a partner would offer
- NR would contend the state plays to the role of the husband for single mothers
How has increasing consumerism caused a decline in the marriage rate?
- consumerism & materialism in today’s Capitalist society enables lives of luxury
- obtaining wealth is the objective for many, not marriage
- some people may fulfil their need for a partner with material objects
How have modern attitudes to dating/relations caused a decline in the marriage rate?
- ideas of commitment & stability are becoming less common/old fashioned
- this is exacerbated today with the rise of dating apps that encourage disposability towards relationships
- E.g Tinder & Bumble
What arguments does Patrcia Morgan (2000) put forwards for why marriage is centrally important to society?
- married people make better workers
(more likely to be employed & earn 10-20% more because of a sense of duty) - Created a morally stable society
(married people less likely to be promiscuous) - Marriage is good for health
(Research from Aston Uni shows that if your male you’re more likely to survive diabetes & high blood pressure if your married)
What reasons does Patrcia Morgan (2000) provide for why the marriage rate is in decline?
- The welfare state (Rector argues that it has damaged marriage because welfare has allowed single parenthood as a viable option)
- Secularisation (wedding vows are decreasingly seen as ‘sacred’ and adultery/divorce no longer considered shameful)
- Cohabitation (the number of cohabiting couples has doubled in the last two decades - replacing marriage?)
How is the New Right criticised for their view on marriage?
- people are increasingly willing to delay marriage because of high expectations of marriage (FEMINISTS argue women esp insist on egalitarian partnerships & are happy to wait to find it)
- British social attitudes surveys found marriage is still the ‘gold standard’ people aim towards (40% of all marriage are remarriage, people not giving up on institution)
- People might not be able to afford a wedding (marriage in decline at a faster rate amongst unskilled workers)
What do more Liberal minded thinkers (Feminists) believe that the fall in the marriage rate is a positive thing for society?
- marriage now perceived as a personal & intimate relationship that needs to be sustained
- people now look for egalitarian relationships rather than patriarchal ones
- marriage no longer seen as an obligatory ceremony for status (allows women more freedom of choice)
- actually demonstrated how people are less carefree towards marriage (they actually think)
- marriage is seen as a serious individual choice (marriage delayed to find the right partner)
What did Epstein (2011) contend about arranged marriage?
- arranged marriages tend to grow more stable as time goes on, whereas love marriages are more likely to deteriorate
- arranged marriages tended to feel more in love the longer they spent together, whereas those in love marriages felt less love over time
- arranged marriages are generally more successful as compatibility is carefully checked (beliefs, values, interests & goals)
- couples have more confidence in each other so are more likely to commit
What is a forced marriage? (FMU)
“a marriage conducted without the valid consent of both parties where duress (emotional & physical pressure/abuse) is a factor”
What are the statistics for forced marriages?
- 2013: 1,302 forced marriages
- FMU estimated there were actually 8,000 a year in the UK
Very difficult to assess the real degree of the issue as victims are reluctant to speak out in fear of honour crimes (abduction, acid attacks, mutilation)
Why are there 2 legal definitions of marriage?
- Following the 2013 Marriage Act many religious organisations have objected the same-sex marriage
- marriages recognised by the state
- marriages recognised by the C of E
- other religious groups exclude gay marriage completely
Why does Patricia Morgan object to same-sex marriage?
- indicated a rejection of Christian values & demonstrates moral decline
- contends an alternative secular ideology has become dominant in Western Society - seeks to undermine the moral authority of religious institutions & n family
What were the arguments for the Marriage Act 2013?
- the previous system stopped gay couples having the same status & legal rights are hetro marriage (their marriage was just legally validated)
- it’s not right that a couple who love each other & want to publicly confirm & formalise that love should be denied the right to marry
What is Cohabitation?
Living with a partner but not being married or in a civil partnership (couples living together)
^ fastest-growing household types in the UK
What are the ONS statistics on the number of people cohabiting?
- 2012: approx. 5.9 mil people (not couples) were cohabiting - from 1996