Love

Question 1

value me model of communicating effectively:

Answer 1

v: validation:Confirming what has been said
a: Attention: undivided, be aware of internal/external factors that divide attention.
l: listen,actively
u: understanding, where the person is coming from-no assumptions
e: explore- ask questions for clarification; explore possible solutions together.

Question 2

Social Interdependency Theory:

Answer 2

People make separate judgements whether they are satisfied in relationship by:
∆ Comparison Level: How attractive the relationship is compared to other relationships
∆ Comparison level for alternatives: Evaluation of the best alternatives to the current relationship.
∆ Commitment
∆Judgement Combines: Satisfaction, alternatives, investments, barrier forces

Question 3

Comparison Level:

Answer 3

How attractive the relationship is compared to other relationships

Question 4

Comparison level for alternatives:

Answer 4

Evaluation of the best alternatives to the current relationship

Question 5

Judgement Combines:

Answer 5

Satisfaction, alternatives, investments, barrier forces

Question 6

2 types of non-regulated couples

Answer 6

The hostile couple, The hostile detatched couple (demand withdrawl)

Question 7

The hostile Couple

Answer 7

Angry recriminations, accusations and hostility define this relationship
Negative reciprocity signaled by a harsh setup

Question 8

The hostile Detatched couple

Answer 8

One person is demanding, critical, or strongly express a # of complaints while the other partner responds by withdrawing

Question 9

Conflict Path

Answer 9

Critism
Contempt
Defensiveness
Withdrawal 
Stonewalling-passive/agressive attempt to punsh other
Flooding
Repair Attempts