Lesson 9 - Abuse and Sexual Dysfunction

Question 1

What is the absence of adequate social, emotional, and physical care?

Answer 1

Neglect (doesn’t necessarily involve hurting someone, it is omission)

Question 2

What is non-accidental physical attack or injury?

Answer 2

Abuse

Question 3

What are the 3 types of abuse?

Answer 3

Physical, sexual, emotional

Question 4

What does an abusive parent look like?

Answer 4

1. ) Speak in terms of the child as if he was an adult
2. ) Parents suggest that the child is against the parent
3. ) Parents are unaware of basic needs of the child
4. ) Parents have negative attitude toward the child
5. ) Parents are socially isolated
6. ) Parents are uncomfortable in child’s presence
7. ) They didn’t have positive model in how to parent

Question 5

What do abused children look like?

Answer 5

1. ) Not aggressive (obedient and withdrawn)
2. ) Very obedient
3. ) will not go to parents for relief
4. ) Inconsistency around story of injuries
5. ) Go to the abuser over the other parent
6. ) Slow to raise an accusing finger

Question 6

Before the age of 18 how many girls/boys are molested?

Answer 6

Girls - 1/5

Boys - 1/7

Question 7

How many of the abusers are strangers? known?

Answer 7

11% ; 89%

Question 8

How does sexual abuse take place?

Answer 8

1. ) Engagement phase
2. ) Engagement phase –> sexual interaction
3. ) Secrecy Phase - interaction becomes more overt, but adult uses authority to keep it a secret
4. ) Discloser Phase - something happens and everything comes out

Question 9

What are some myths about battered women?

Answer 9

1. ) Battered women provoke the mate
2. ) Battered women overstate their abuse
3. ) battered women believes that if they get help it will make the situation worse by making it known

Question 10

Stats about homosexuality?

Answer 10

• • 6x the suicide rate
• • alcoholism is 33%
• • 43% said they have had more than 500 partners

Question 11

What is the essential problem with homosexuality?

Answer 11

The lack of son/father relationship; hostility towards the father

Question 12

How to confront the homosexual?

Answer 12

1. ) Advise them to stop their sexual activity
2. ) Male homosexual should be treated by a male
3. ) Male to male boundaries need to be drawn
4. ) Non-sexual male to male relationships need to be developed within the Christian framework