Lesson 6 - Common Emotional Problems Flashcards
What are the most common emotional problems in counseling?
Anger, anxiety, guilt, and shame
What is anger?
A hurt you experience (a wound that is inflamed)
When does anger become a sin?
When it is left to grow
What are the 3 options you have with anger?
- ) Denial
- ) Passive/Agressive
- ) Revenge
When you deny anger, it always expresses itself. What are the 2 expressions it can have if you deny it?
- ) Interjection - denial of anger, that eventually explodes
- ) Retroflection - take anger out of oneself, instead of the person you should be angry at
What is the solution to anger? Why?
Forgiveness;
- it is commanded in Scripture
- you have been forgiven vertically
What is guilt?
Transgression which something is done
- Exercise of power
- Wrong doing
- Wickedness
- “I’m not good”
What is the biblical answer to guilt?
Repentance and Reconciliation
What is shame?
Weakness, inadequacy
- Lack of power
- Wrong Being
- Worthlessness
- “I’m no good”
What is the biblical answer to shame?
Adoption (Ephesians 1-2)
What 2 conditions are shame-oriented?
- ) A sense in which you need to feel you are approved
2. ) the feeling that implies if you become perfect enough someone will love you