Lesson 4: Beliefs about women and sex

Question 0

Our mind looks for __________ to support its beliefs.

Answer 0

Evidence

Question 1

What we believe about women and dating determines what?

Answer 1

It determines how we act towards women and dating

Question 2

Beliefs support _________ and build upon __________.

Answer 2

Themselves

Question 3

We have _________ that lead to bad behaviors, and those _________ keep getting supported

Answer 3

Beliefs

Question 4

Example:

You’re insecure about inexperience,

Answer 4

> you look for the ‘perfect moment’
youll feel anxious and perform,
youre less likely to become sexual
your beliefs are reinforced

Question 5

The problem is that you have to do what?

Answer 5

You have to question what you believe is true

Question 6

Belief #1:

What do you believe women find attractive?

Answer 6

Perceived social status is a more effective belief.

I used to think looks, non verbal communication, alpha bold behavior, fame,

Question 7

Your beliefs determine your ________ AND which ________ you will attract

Answer 7

Behavior, women

Question 8

Belief #2

Your beliefs about relationships. Are game playing and power struggles necessary?

Answer 8

3/19/15 Yes. The women will always play some emotional game looking for a reaction. Women are dramatic and need it in their lives

Question 9

What is the assortment effect?

Answer 9

The tendency for men and women of similar beliefs and self perceptions to attract one another