Lecture 7 Sexual Behaviours and Paraphilia Flashcards
what does it mean to have sex
individuals most often define having sex if it involved mutual genital contact and orgasm
later age of intercourse is linked to..
parental disapproval of early sex, greater parental control, academic achievement
earlier age of intercourse in linked to…
such things as peer pressure to have sex, substance use with friends, having an older partner
what is the estimated proportion of Canadian students who have had intercourse by Grade 11
40% to 46%
what are the three key components to consent
The person has to have a clear understanding of what they are consenting to
Consent must be given freely and not coerced
Consent should be ongoing and can be withdrawn at any point
how does consent usually occur as
unspoken but clear agreement to engage in sexual activity
what is sexual compliance
when a person freely consents to engaging in sexual activity when they do not truly want to participate
whaat is traditional sexual script
A sequence of sexual behaviors that are associated with having sex
why has TSS been criticized
too inflexible with too much focus on intercourse and orgasms
what are common sex fantasies reported by adult Canadians
having sex outdoors, participating in acts of domination and submission, watching someone undress
what are the benefits of sexual fantasy
safe sexual outlet, enhances arousal, relieves boredom, treats sexual problems, relieves sexual anxiety, guilt, and doubt
how does a sexual fantasy enhance arousal
Increases and enhances feelings/sexual excitement; can enhance future sexual encounters; can increase physical and psychological responses during sex/masturbation
how does a sexual fantasy treat sexual problems
Fantasy, often with masturbation, is used in sex therapy to increase sexual desire arousability, orgasm, and sexual satisfaction
how does a sexual fantasy relieve sexual anxiety, guilt, and doubt
Provides an opportunity to think about sexual values, replay sexual scenes, and to learn about one’s sexual identity
when does masturbation first start
in children as young as 2 or 3 begin to for enjoyment and to self soothe
what gender is masturbation more common among
men
what are common myths about masturbation
hairy palms, genital cancer, blindness, insanity, hysteria, sterility, impotence, asthma, reduction/increase is penis size, loss of enjoyment with a sexual partner, instant death
what happened to Gender Jocelyn Elders
she spoke on STIs, and said she promotes masturbation, and she was dismissed from her appointed role
what is a common element of foreplay in the TSS
touching
what is cunnlingus
oral sex on a women
what is fellatio
oral sex on a man
what is annilligus
oral sex on the anus or perineum
why may one find oral sex unusual
Morals and attitudes around sex
Physical mechanics/ gag reflex
Anxiety around smell or taste of one’s genitals
what are the four common non-penetrative behaviours
Frottage (dry-humping)
Scissoring
Tribadism
Intercrural sex
what is a flaw about anal tissues
they do not produce adequate lubrication
what is the goal of a sexual encounter
orgasms
how does sexual satisfaction affect us
Sexual satisfaction plays an integral role in overall quality of life including mental and physical health
what are three ways to overcome concerns about sexual preferences
through sensitivity, respect, and open communication
what are the most widely used sex toys
dildo and the vibrator
when do most North Americans begin to date
at around 10 or 11 years of age
what is the correlation between dating and sexual attraction rates
interest in dating rises at the same time that young people develop sexual attraction
what is the pattern of online relationships
An individual reads another person’s profile, blog, or web page and becomes interested in knowing more
Parties communicate and share more information about themselves
Two people meet in person and a couple identity forms
why are Canadians remaining single for longer
due to pursuit of higher education before marriage
when has the rate of same sex marriages increased
since being recognized by law
what can affect sexual satisfaction
childbirth, stress, hormonal changes
what is the average length of marriage
14.5 years
what are the 4 components of a friends with benefits relationship
Ongoing
Sexuaal
Requires no sexual or emotional exclusivity
The relationship is rarely discussed directly or revealed to others
what is CNM
consensual non-monogamy relationships that include polyamory, swinging, open relationships, and other CNM relationships