Lecture 7: Lifespan perspective Flashcards
True or False: Childhood infancy is from birth to 2 years of age engage in ‘sexual’ behaviours
True!
What sexual behaviours does a child from birth to 2 years participate in?
a) boys have erections in the first weeks of life
b) explores own body, including genitals
c) displays spontaneous, reflexive sexual response
d) enjoys touch from caregivers
e) enjoys nudity
f) All of the above
f) All of the above
What are the learning domains for sexuality for children from birth to 2 years?
- Learning correct names for body part
- Differentiate between male and female
- Learn to experience pleasure from touch (cuddling)
What sexual behaviours can be expected in a child from early infancy (2) to 5 years?
a) engaging in occasional masturbation (soothing, not arousal)
b) still enjoys and comfortable with nudity
c) Consensual exploration of same-aged playmates’ bodies (curiosity about genitals may increase)
what are the learning domains from 2 to 5 years?
- very basics of reproduction (no need to go in to detail)
- basic rules of privacy/boundaries
- Learns “your body belongs to you” (autonomy over their body)
- difference between appropriate and inappropriate
What are some common sexual behaviours from ages 5 to 8?
- Crushes (first romantic attachments) may occur
- Curiosity about the genitals increases; playing doctor common b/t ages 6 to 10
- Exploratory same-sex play is more common than play with other genders and may include handling the genitals
- same-sex play does not foreshadow adult sexual orientation
What are the learning domains from ages 5 to 8?
a) basic understanding of human reproduction
b) basic understanding of physical changes related to puberty
c) understanding b/t same-sex and straight relationships
What are the two ways of thinking about sexuality?
- Sexuality for adults
- Sexuality viewed through a broader lens
What are the consequences of thinking about sexuality as ONLY for adults?
Since we focus on sexuality as an adult behaviour, we will feel like we need to protect children from the topic, which can have consequences:
- If children do not get answers from parents, they will get the information elsewhere, which could be false/harmful
- When the child has sexual feelings/urges, they will feel shame and guilt due to the messages they receive from adults that it is inappropriate
- Children cannot say no and are uncomfortable in threatening situations.
What are the consequences of thinking about sexuality from a broader or lifespan perspective?
- Sexuality is something that belongs to all of us regardless of our age
- Sexual feelings are common across all ages, but with children, it is about curiosity, and with adults, it is about sexual desire and arousal.
- Starts at birth and develops throughout our lifetime through the level we experience as adults
- It begins in infancy and increases (or changes) as we get older
True or False: Providing condoms in high school or middle school leads to having an increase in sexual activity
False!
–> it actually leads to a decrease in sexual activity or no change
What are the 4 main developmental tasks of adolescent sexuality?
- Adapt to the physical and emotional changes of puberty
- Accept yourself as a sexual being
- Explore romantic and sexual relationships
- Learn to protect your sexual health
Which two tasks of adolescent sexuality could we improve on?
- Accept yourself as a sexual being
- who do I like/dislike? - Explore romantic and sexual relationships
- falling in love/heartbroken
- being comfortable and confident in your own body
What are some things that come up in adolescent sexuality regarding puberty when in a relationship?
- Might be physically ready to procreate/have sex but not mentally or cognitively ready to deal with complicated relationship dynamics
- Timing of puberty
Boys: variability on time 10 - 14
Girls: even greater timing: trending earlier 8 - 14 - There is more reason to discuss at an early age because these things come up at an early age
What are primary sex characteristics?
They are sex characteristics that are involved in reproduction—changes to the sex organs such as the testes, the uterus.