Lecture 7: Empathy and Prosocial Behaviour Flashcards

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empathy (5)

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  • “Other-oriented emotional response elicited by and congruent with the perceived welfare of someone else”
  • Other-oriented → must be directed to/for someone else
  • Emotional response → must be feeling something
  • Elicited by someone else → can’t just randomly be having a feeling
  • Congruent → you’re feeling the same thing as the other person (e.g. if someone’s sad you’re not angry)
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affective empathy (6)

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Composed of four components:

  • personal distress: feeling upset because you saw someone else in a bad situation (not feeling bad for/because of the other person)
    • The bare minimum on the road to empathy
  • emotional contagion: Picking up on someone else’s feelings; feeling something because someone else does without really knowing why (e.g. someone else starts laughing and you do too)
  • sympathy: Feeling bad for somebody else (not emotion matching, true empathy)
  • emapthy
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cognitive empathy (3)

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  • theory of mind
  • perspective taking: putting yourself in somebody else’s shoes
  • A mental (not emotional) understanding of what’s going on in someone’s head
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How do we learn empathy? (2)

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  • Parenting: perspective taking + inductive reasoning
  • Emotion regulation
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learning empathy: parenting (4)

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  • Parenting that teaches perspective-taking skills is associated with empathy in children
    • Inductive reasoning → points out the consequences of actions on others; teaching that other people matter
    • e.g. “How would you feel if your sister hit you?”
  • Protection domain parenting → helping kids when they’re upset/distressed through comforting + helping them dealing with emotions
    • Doings this models empathic behavior + promotes emotion regulation
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learning empathy: emotion regulation (11)

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  • Children: emotion regulation facilitates empathy + prosocial behaviour
  • Adults: depends on the type of emotion regulation

Why emotion regulation?

  • Seeing other people makes you feel bad → need to regulate negative affect as a response to others’ distress
    • If you can’t regulate your own emotions, you can’t help the other person
    • Can do this by suppression your own emotions → help
    • Or reevaluating the situation to determine whether this person actually needs help → alleviate distress by minimizing situation
  • Seen more as a tool to help achieve whatever goal you have
    • Also influenced by your motivation
    • Motivated → suppress + help
    • Not motivated → reevaluate + escape
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Why is empathy a good thing? (13)

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  • Perspective-taking → put yourself in the place of another and feel what they feel
    • If you can understand how someone else feels → more likely to see them as people and understand them, feel like they deserve basic rights, etc.
    • Curtail the ingroup vs. outgroup, me vs. you tendencies
  • Motivation for prosocial behavior → more likely to do something when we feel it’s the right thing to do
    • Emotion, by and large, is the thing that mobilizes us
    • But not as robust as we might think → only low to moderate positive associations between empathy and prosocial behavior
    • Mediating variable: how much you’ve internalized prosocial behavioural values
    • Determines which route you’re going to take (help vs. escape)
    • Empathy is only the fuel in the tank, not the steering wheel for the direction of your action
  • Also depends on how you measure empathy
    • Toddlers → telling them a story, ask how they feel
    • Kids/adolescents → self-reports or simulated situations
    • Having them report their feelings in the heat of the moment is the best way to measure empathy
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Hepach, Vaish, & Tomasello (2013) (9)

(hint: 2s, helping)

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  • Are kids (2 y/o) motivated by selfish reasons?
  • Out-of-reach helping task → adult reacher drops something and pretends that it’s out of reach
  • 2-year-old got to help, somebody else helped, nobody helped
  • Compared to see if kids are helping to get credit for it or for the sake of the person being helped
  • Measured galvanic responses
  • 2 y/os just as happy to see the person helped when someone else helped and when they themselves helped
  • Nobody helped → stress response not alleviated
  • Concluded that kids will help just for the sake of helping
  • Kids tend to help regardless of if their parent is in the room
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problems with empathy (8)

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  • Can we really put ourselves in someone else’s shoes?
    • Difficult to feel empathy for people who are dissimilar from us
    • Can we even do it in the first place? It’s very mentally taxing
  • Empathy towards whom?
    • Who should we feel empathy towards in unfortunate situations?
    • If you’re a doctor that needs to triage, how much should you be empathizing?
  • Is empathy really the best approach when making moral decisions?
    • Public policy, medical treatment, anything that requires resources
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Hein et al. (2016) (5)

(hint: MRI)

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  • MRI study; empathy towards in-group and out-group members
  • Participants saw in-group or out-group members receiving painful electric shocks and rated their empathic response
  • Participants received shocks and were helped by either in-group or out-group (gave money to stop the shocks)
  • Participants had greater empathy for out-group members after receiving help from them
  • Demonstrates how empathy is in-group biased
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prosocial behaviour (3)

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  • Actions that benefit another
  • Helping, sharing, donating (time and/or money), etc.
  • Females tend to be naturally more prosocial than males
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debates about prosocial behaviour motivation (3)

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  • Does it have to be for welfare of the other?
  • Can I do it for self-serving reasons?
  • Can empathy be somewhere in the middle?
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prosocial behaviour and young children (5)

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  • Young children have a natural propensity for helping and sharing
  • Infants (as young as 6 mos) preferred helpers to hinderers
  • Sharing starts to be reciprocal around age 3 years
  • Toddlers happier when giving treats vs. getting them, even at cost to themselves
  • Toddlers (upwards of 6 mos) help spontaneously in a wide variety of situations
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benefits of prosocial behaviour (7)

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  • Associated with positive outcomes
  • Prosocial spending → happiness
  • Volunteering → happiness, self-esteem
  • Sharing → better social relationships
  • But depends on why you’re being prosocial
    • Self-determination theory → need satisfaction
    • Happier doing things when it’s autonomous, makes you feel competent
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prosocial spending (7)

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  • Spending money on others → gifts and/or charitable donations
  • Depends on who the recipient is
    • Friends + family → fulfills need for relatedness → happier
  • Depends on the impact
    • More specific cause → feels better about donating
  • Depends on your mood
    • Better mood + happier → more prosocial in general
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authoritative parenting and prosociality (9)

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  • Authoritative parenting practices → prosocial behavior in children and adolescents
    • Warmth-responsiveness/involvement
    • Inductive discipline
    • Democratic participation
    • Good-natured/easy going
    • (However, generally based on a Western perspective)
  • Autonomy supportive parenting → prosocial behaviour
    • Giving kids some sort of say in what they do
    • e.g. You have to eat vegetables, but you can have peas or carrots
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What is the best way to teach kids to be prosocial? (7)

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  • Through discipline/punishment?
  • Through conversations?
  • Through modeling behavior?
  • A study using the Domains of Socialization found that people are more likely to report learning to be prosocial after seeing someone else be prosocial
    • Punishment → inhibiting anti-social behaviour, but not prosocial
    • Conversations → life skills, motivational behaviours, not prosocial
    • Modeling → by far best predictor of prosocial behaviour
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Does good parenting lead to prosocial children or vice versa? (6)

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  • Parenting often has a bidirectional effect with child prosocial behavior
    • Good parenting → good child outcomes
    • Good child outcomes → good parenting
  • Strongest predictor of child prosocial behaviour at T2 is prosociality at T1
    • Interestingly, it also predicts quality of mother-child relationship at T1+2
    • Overall, it’s easier to parent good kids
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lying (5)

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  • Lying → usually considered something negative, but depends on the type
  • White lies: telling a lie so as to spare someone’s feelings
  • We try to teach children not to lie, but the fact that they can implies they have reached a significant developmental milestone
    • TOM → know that you have knowledge someone else doesn’t
    • Emotional regulation → can’t give away that you’re lying
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Why do children lie? (2)

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  • Often to get out of trouble + cover up a misdeed (up until 10-13) b/c they can’t handle intense emotions of being in trouble
  • Most kids don’t lie to get other people out of trouble b/c they don’t want to get in trouble personally
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How do we teach kids not to lie? (4)

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  • School A: very strict discipline, use of corporal punishment
  • School B: moderately strict discipline, verbal admonishments, detention
  • Amount of lying didn’t vary between both schools
  • School A → best liars b/c trying to not get caught, not trying to not lie