J5.3 Marriage ceremonies: the key features and importance of marriage ceremonies in Judaism

Question 1

What is the Kiddushin + what it means

Answer 1

Betrothal - first stage of the marriage ceremony
Kiddushin means “sanctification” or making the relationship holy.

Question 2

What do they do at Kiddushin

Answer 2

The couple exchanges rings and promises to be faithful to one another under Jewish law.
Prayers and blessings are recited, declaring the marriage a sacred bond.

Question 3

Strength of Kiddushin

Answer 3

Strength: Highlights the spiritual nature of marriage.

Question 4

Weakness of Kiddushin

Answer 4

Weakness: The traditions might not feel relevant to modern relationships for some couples.

Question 5

What is the Chuppah and it’s sybolism

Answer 5

The chuppah (a canopy) symbolizes the home the couple will build together.

Question 6

What is the ketubah

Answer 6

The ketubah is a marriage contract outlining the husband’s responsibilities to his wife.

Question 7

What does the smashing of glass represent

Answer 7

The groom smashes a glass to remember the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem, showing that even in joy, Jews remember their history.

Question 8

Strength of Jewish wedding ceremonies

Answer 8

Strength: Rich in meaning, linking personal happiness to Jewish history.

Question 9

Weakness of Jewish wedding ceremonies

Answer 9

Weakness: Rituals may feel less relevant to secular or interfaith couples.