Isabel Losada Flashcards
‘An intellectual is a person who has found one thing more interesting than sex’.
What’s the difference between a golf ball and a clitoris? A man’s prepared to spend ten minutes looking for a golf ball.
Many couples are completely sexually estranged. It’s a tragedy of epic proportions when you consider the levels of pleasure available.
Why are so many people watching cat videos and then having bad sex?
The myth persists - we are all supposed to be perfect lovers instinctually. But a woman’s arousal and orgasm is complicated and worth a little study.
Sex isn’t a subject to be taken too seriously.
It’s and old mistake to assume a great body will mean a great lover.
I’ve always had this desire to associate love with sex.
One of the basics of a good sex life has to be how both partners feel about their own bodies. Personal responsibility is annoying.
There are many drives to the sexual act. One of them is instinctive biological desire to have sex because it feels good. There are others: a desire to feel connected, a need for reassurance, a need to get out of the brain and into the body.
There need be no drama if our partner can’t meet our desires or requests.
The less attached you are, the more likely you are to get what you want.
How can we base our relationships less on need and more on choice?
It’s often easier for us to want someone we don’t have, than someone we do.
Be responsible for whatever energy you bring to a space.
A huge amount of everything that goes wrong in much lovemaking comes from women’s inability to say ‘wait’.
Find me someone who has regular sex without love and is truly happy?
