Interpersonal Communication Course Flashcards
True or False
Interpersonal communication is the process by which people exchange information.
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True
In the workplace, interpersonal communication skills are used to:
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- Share and collect business data
- Express our ideas and opinions, and understand those of others
- Give and receive emotional support
- Make decisions and solve problems
- Influence the attitudes and behaviors of others
- Establish and maintain relationships
- Collaborate and achieve goals
Communication can happen via a number of different modes, including:
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- In-person conversations
- Email messages
- Instant messages
- Letters or memos
- Telephone calls
- Text messages
- Social media updates
True or False
The “best” mode of communication depends on the goal of the communication and the substance of what is being communicated.
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True
What is…
One-way communication
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message goes from sender to receiver
examples: Giving a speech or writing an informative bulletin
What is…
Two-way communication
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messages are sent and received back and forth between two or more parties
example: a conversation with a colleague; small group discussion
Levels of communication
Casual Communication
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is low intensity, inconsequential, and light
example: a spontaneous chat with a coworker in the hallway
Levels of communication
Critical Communication
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is slightly higher intensity, more consequential, and a little more challenging
example: A phone call to discuss the status of a project with its owner
Levels of communication
Crucial Communication
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is high intensity and carries a high potential for danger
Three characteristics of ‘Crucial Conversation’
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- Opposing opinions
- High stakes
- Strong emotions
True or False
The results of crucial communications can have a high impact on the participants—positive or negative, personal or professional
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True
How does the communication cycle work
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The sender encodes the message and the receiver decodes and interprets the message.
Sender > Send > Receiver
True or False
How you communicate deeply impacts your career. It is an outward demonstration of your professionalism and has the power to help or harm your reputation?
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how people perceive you, treat you; the opportunities they afford
Components of communication
In-person communication, comes from a combination of components:
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word choice - 10%
tone of voice - 35%
body language - 55%
Components of communication
Two additional components…
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- Context
- Listening
Components of communication
Context
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the surrounding environmental influences and existing circumstances in which the communication takes place
Components of communication
Listening
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the actual tools the receiver uses to understand the message being sent
Components of communication
Effective communicators AVOID using:
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- Indirect, Unclear, or Vague Words
- Exaggerations
- Buzzwords, Jargon, Obscure Acronyms, and Overly Technical or Complicated Language
- Too Many Words
- Inappropriate or Foul Language
Components of communication
Tone
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a term that refers to the variation in your voice
Components of communication
Pitch
Tone of voice is a combination of what factors
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degree of height or depth of a sound
Components of communication
Pace
Tone of voice is a combination of what factors
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the rate at which words are spoken
Components of communication
Volume
Tone of voice is a combination of what factors
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degree of sound intensity or loudness
Components of communication
Inflection
Tone of voice is a combination of what factors
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Rhythmic up and down of the voice
Components of communication
Emphasis
Tone of voice is a combination of what factors
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The stress placed upon a specific word or words to underscore importance
True or False
Tone is one of the most powerful elements contributing to the meaning others derive from your communications (second only to body language).
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True
True or False
Tone of voice can be implied and inferred through writing
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True
The most powerful factor in communication has nothing to do with the words you say but with your…?
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Body Language
What are the four categories of body language?
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- Eye Contact
- Facial Expression
- Positioning
- Gestures
for characteristics of each refer to 1.2.4
Context
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defined as the surrounding environmental influences and existing circumstances in which a communication takes place.
Context is another word for “setting,” and includes what factors:
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- Place: This refers to the physical location where the communication is happening.
- People: This refers to the individuals involved in the communication
- Purpose: This refers to the reason the communication is taking place.
What are the two types of listening?
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- Passive listening involves sitting quietly, absorbing what you are hearing, and not responding to the person who is communicating.
- Active listening, on the other hand, involves engaging with the communicator, using both verbal and nonverbal tools.
Nonverbal Active Listening Tools
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- Don’t interrupt
- Remove distractions
- Nod
- Mirror the communicator
- Take notes
Verbal Active Listening Tools
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- Probe - use open ended questions (those that cannot be answered with a simple yes or no)
- Clarify - use close ended questions (those that can be answered with a Yes or No)
- Paraphrase - ex. ‘in other words…’
- Reflect - interpreting the information ex. ‘It sounds like you are stressed.’
- Encourage - affirmative statements remind the communicator you are listeing ex. ‘Yes’, ‘I see’, ‘That’s interesting’
A human activity that involves more than one person is called?
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Interpersonal communication
“The combination of characteristics or qualities that form an individual’s distinctive character” is called?
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Personality
What is meant by the Platinum Rule
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The Platinum Rule recognizes the importance of individual differences and enables people to adapt their behavior to meet the unique needs and preferences of others.
The following four styles are?
The Director (Direct and Guarded), The Socializer (Direct and Open), The Relater (Indirect and Open), and The Thinker (Indirect and Guarded)
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People are expressive. They readily share their feelings and listen to others, and they tend to be more relationship-focused than task-focused.
The Communication Style Grid
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Open communicators
Socializers and Relaters
People are more reserved and formal. They tend to favor facts, data, and tasks over relationships and feelings.
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Guarded communicators
Directors and Thinkers
People are more forceful, extroverted, and fast-paced. They can be spontaneous, competitive, and intense.
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Direct communicators
Directors and Socializers
People are more cautious, introverted, and slower paced. They show more self control and diplomacy in their interactions.
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Indirect communicators
Thinkers and Relaters
THE DIRECTOR: DIRECT AND GUARDED
When communicating with Directors, be efficient and competent by:
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- Supporting their goals and objectives when possible
- Keeping your relationship businesslike
- Using facts—not personal feelings—if you disagree
- Being precise, efficient, and well organized
- Recommending alternate actions with brief supporting analysis
- Getting to the point quickly
- Stressing competitive results and growth opportunities
THE DIRECTOR: DIRECT AND GUARDED
If you are a Director, some things you can do to help improve your communication compatibility with others include:
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- Project a more relaxed image by pacing yourself
- Become a more open and patient listener
- Develop patience, sensitivity, and empathy
- Genuinely compliment others
- Act less hastily and more cautiously
- Identify with the group
THE SOCIALIZER: DIRECT AND OPEN
When communicating with Socializers, show interest in them by:
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- Supporting their opinions, ideas, and dreams when possible
- Being upbeat, stimulating, and fast-paced
- Tolerating digressions and not hurrying a discussion
- Trying not to argue—you will seldom win
- Being enthusiastic, spontaneous, and casual
- Explaining how action can enhance their image and visibility
- Sparing them the details
THE SOCIALIZER: DIRECT AND OPEN
If you are a Socializer, some things you can do to help improve your communication compatibility with others include:
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- Control time and emotions
- Try to be more objective
- Follow up on promises and tasks
- Concentrate on the job at hand
- Try a more logical approach
- Spend more time checking, specifying, and organizing
THE RELATER: INDIRECT AND OPEN
When communicating with Relaters, be warm and sincere by:
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- Supporting their feelings by showing personal interest when possible
- Assuming they will take things personally
- Allowing them time to trust you
- Discussing personal feelings—not facts—when you disagree
- Moving in a slower and more informal but steady manner
- Showing that you are actively listening
- Giving assurances that risk will be minimized or handled as reasonably as possible
THE RELATER: INDIRECT AND OPEN
If you are Relater, some things you can do to help improve your communication compatibility with others include:
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- Say no occasionally
- Take some risks
- Delegate to others
- Accept logical changes
- Verbalize your feelings to appropriate people
- Finish tasks without oversensitivity to others’ feelings
THE THINKER: INDIRECT AND GUARDED
When communicating with Thinkers, show yourself to be thorough and well prepared by:
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- Supporting their organized, thoughtful approach when possible
- Showing commitment through your actions, not just words
- Being detailed, accurate, and logical
- Listing advantages and disadvantages of any plan
- Providing solid, tangible evidence
- Adhering to established procedures
- Giving assurances that their decisions will not backfire on them
THE THINKER: INDIRECT AND GUARDED
If you are Thinker, some things you can do to help improve your communication compatibility with others include:
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- Openly show concern or appreciation of others
- Initiate new projects
- Use policies as guidelines, not laws
- Collaborate by seeking common ground
- Occasionally try shortcuts and time savers
- Make timely decisions
Those who experience ****** frequently will see a negative impact on their reputation, performance, and relationships in the workplace.
This term refers to emotional response that overrule logical response.
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Emotional hijacking
Developing emotional intelligence (EI or EQ) helps prevent…
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emotional hijacking and is a key component of becoming a strong interpersonal communicator.
True or False
“Emotional intelligence is your ability to recognize and understand emotions in yourself and others, and your ability to use this awareness to manage your behavior and relationships.
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True
True or False
IQ is a much better predictor of career success than EQ
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False
Quote
Author Daniel Goleman, in his book, “Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ,” states the following:
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“IQ and technical expertise are much stronger predictors of excellence in lower-rung jobs…But IQ washes out when it comes to predicting who, will become the strongest leader.”