Influence of early attachment on later relationships Flashcards
Internal working model:
working as a template
- the first attachment to parent acts as a template for future relationships
Internal working model:
good attachment experiences and relationship expectations
- a child with a loving parental relationship assumes this is how all relationships should be
- will then seek out functional relationships
Internal working model:
bad attachment experiences and relationship expectations
- a child with bad experiences will think of these in their future relationships
- struggle to form relationships and don’t behave properly in them
Internal working model:
secure infants have better friendships and are less likely to bully
- kerns say secure infants have best childhood friendships
- also are less likely to be bullies
insecure avoidant are more likely to be bullying victims - insecure resistant more likely to be bullies
Internal working model:
IWM affects parenting
- likely to base parenting on their IWM
- attachment types passed through the generations
Hazan and shaver - love quiz:
procedure
- researchers analyze 620 love quizzes from American newspaper
- quiz assessed: current and most important relationship; general love experiences; and attachment type
Hazan and shaver - love quiz:
findings
- 56% of respondents are securely attached
- 25% insecure avoidant
- 19% insecure resistant
Hazan and shaver - love quiz:
conclusion
- secure people likely to have good long lasting romances
- avoidant people tend to be jealous and fear intimacy
negative evaluation:
questionnaires have issues with validity
- the validity of questionaires limited because it depends on people being honest and having a realist view of their relationship
- they also have to look back at their attachment as a child which is likely to be inaccurate
negative evaluation:
several studies show an association but not a causation
- there are other explanations for the continuity between infant and later relationships
- temperament can influence attachment and later relationships
- goes against Bowlby’s view that the IWM causes this
negative evaluation:
influence of attachment on relationships is exaggerated
- clarke and Clarke describe the influence of attachment on adult relationships as probabilistic
- people not certain to have bad relationships just increases the likelihood
- by overemphasizing it we become too pesamsitic about people futures