Horsenality Flashcards
Approach for Left Brained
Progress
Approach for Right Brained
Repeat
Approach for Introvert
Slow Down
Approach for Extrovert
Speed Up
What Centers a LBE - mentally, emotionally, physically?
Play With Me!
What Centers a RBE - mentally, emotionally, physically?
Focus Me!
What Centers a RBI - mentally, emotionally, physically?
Be Gentle with Me
What Centers a LBI - mentally, emotionally, physically?
Whats in it for Me?
LBE needs to be more?
Responsive
“You’re not the boss of me!”
Left-Brain Extroverts are born to argue. If you can cause their curiousity to develop responsivelness, rather than demand it, they’ll get calmer and more connected.
The Touch It Pattern is ideal. Keep them guessing and don’t be too repetitive - you usually get to do it the same way about three times and then you’d better think of something new! Remember this horse is a super learner. Be provocative and progressive - it keeps sessions mentally stimulating.
RBE needs to be more?
CALM
“I don’t feel Safe”
When you can help the RBE get calm, they get more connected to you. Only then you can work on the responsiveness as they will be less reactive.
You need to be a strong, calm, focused leader; rapid disengagements will help you get control as they interrupt the horses flight response. In some circumstances, asking the horse to speed up for a lap and “cruise for three” until he volunteers to slow down or stand next to you is very effective.
LBI needs to be more?
CONNECTED
“What’s in it for me?”
When you give the Left-Brain Introvert what he likes (cookies, rest, scratches), he’ll get more connected to you and then more responsive to your ideas. LBIs are already calm, so that’s not usually the issue.
Give him a treat and rub him - don’t ask him to do anything. Once he is looking to you with a more positive expression, ask him to do something really little and give him more treats and scratches. Build from there by occassionally asking for more effort or two or three tasks before treating. One day, you’ll be more interesting than the treat! LBI horses are physically slow (at first) but mentally fast. Learn to be mentally intense but move more slowly at first, and use reverse psychology by doing things like asking him to go slower rather than speed up. This helps keep the connection.
RBI needs to be more?
CONNECTED
“I don’t trust you.”
When you can prove to the right-brain introvert that you are not going to rush them and you understand their need for things to be slow, they start to trust you, becoming calmer and more responsive.
Doing nothing is the best thing when it comes to Right Brain Introvert horses. Just standing next to them, or sitting, or leaning in a friendly way until they take a deep breath is worth waiting for. As they start to let down their defenses and relax, you can begin to communicate, gently asking for what you want and waiting for them to respond rather than ‘upping your phases.’ Gentle repetition works better than increasing pressure.
Right-Brain Introvert
____ Body ____ Mind
Slow Body Slow Mind
Left-Brain Introvert
____ Body ____ Mind
Slow Body Fast Mind
Left-Brain Extrovert
____ Body ____ Mind
Fast Body Fast Mind