Horney Flashcards
especially early childhood experiences, plays a
leading role in shaping human personality, either neurotic or healthy
Culture
Man is ruled not by the pleasure
principle alone but by two guiding
principles
Safety and satisfaction
a feeling of being isolated
and helpless in a world conceived as
potentially hostile
Basic anxiety
are the principal source of basic anxiety, but basic anxiety can also contribute to feelings of hostility
Hostile impulses
a strategy that does not always lead to authentic love
Affection
submit themselves either to people or to institutions such as an organization or a religion
Submissiveness
- a defense against the real or imagined hostility of others and takes the form of a tendency to dominate others
Power
is a protection against humiliation and is expressed as a tendency to humiliate others
Prestige
acts as a buffer against destitution and poverty
and manifests itself as a tendency to deprive others
Possession
protect themselves against basic anxiety either by developing an independence from others or
by becoming emotionally detached from them
Withdrawal
In their quest for
affection and approval, neurotics
attempt indiscriminately to please
others
Neurotic need for affection and approval
Lacking self-confidence,
neurotics try to attach themselves
to a powerful partner
Neurotic need for powerful partner
Neurotics frequently strive to remain
inconspicuous, to take second place,
and to be content with very little
neurotic need to restrict one’s
life within narrow borders
Power and affection are perhaps the two greatest neurotic needs
Neurotic need for power
Neurotics frequently evaluate others
on the basis of how they can be used
or exploited, but at the same time,
they fear being exploited by others
Neurotic need to exploit others
Some people
combat basic anxiety by trying to be
first, to be important, or to attract
attention to themselves
Neurotic need for social recognition or prestige
Neurotics have a need to
be admired for what they are rather
than for what they possess.
Neurotic need for personal admiration
Neurotics often
have a strong drive to be the best—the
best salesperson, the best bowler, the
best lover.
Neurotic need for ambition and personal ambition
Many neurotics
have a strong need to move away from
people, thereby proving that they can
get along without others
Neurotic need for self-sufficiency and independence
By striving relentlessly
for perfection, neurotics receive “proof”
of their self-esteem and personal
superiority
Neurotic need for perfection and unassailability
the inability of people
to use different tactics in their
relationships with others; that is, the
incompatible tendency to move
toward, against, and away from people
Basic conflict
behaving in a
compliant manner as a protection
against feelings of helplessness
Moving towards people
acts of
aggression in order to circumvent the
hostility of others
Moving against people
move away
from people by adopting a detached
manner, thus alleviating feelings of
isolation
Moving away from people