Heuristics I Have Made Myself Flashcards
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How to prevent morning anger and irritation
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- Connect with him first
- Give him power and stability. Give choices and an outline of the day.
- Help him if he acts helpless. Praise him highly for every little thing he does do – find something to praise
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How to connect with V after daycare
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Put the phone down, paralell play, or observe and describe. Maybe imagine you’re writing stories about him. Wonder at how the mind of a 3 year old sees the world.
3
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How to connect with V over long time period
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Go out and do something, plan acitvities, be in public, do a playdate. Plan the day. Find playmates for V. Bea, Miles.
4
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On getting frustrated during play or special time (evander time)
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Prep self, let go of mess and imperfection. How?
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6
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Tespond to all things with calmness (not just restraint, but actually be calm and not catasstrophize and take things too seriously
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7
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Plan the day ahead of time. Have activities to go to.
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