Heart Flashcards
The Word Courage
Comes from the French word Coeur, meaning “heart.”
Courage
The “heart” of our psychological virtue system.
Without it, all the values “wither away into mere facsimiles of virtue.”
What is Courage?
Courage is the capacity to move ahead in spite of despair.
It is not the absence of despair.
Courage is to move forward…. no matter what!
Tiger Woods quote
“The day I’m not nervous stepping onto the first tee - that’s the day I quit.”
Georgia O’Keefe quote
“I’ve been afraid every single day of my life, but I’ve gone ahead and done it anyway.”
Aristotle’s Virtuous Mean
There are “vices of excess” and “vices of deficiency,” and right between those vices is the “virtuous mean.”
Vices of Deficiency
Too little courage. When faced with fear, the despair you feel causes you to run the other direction. When you feel despair, use this feeling as a sparkplug to think of new ways to boost your courage.
Vices of Excess
Too much fearlessness. Being rash.
Learned Optimism
If you make a setback or feeling of despair temporary and specific, you will be embracing an optimistic explanatory style that will leave you more empowered.
It’s all about how we perceive the challenge.
Creative Courage
The discovery of new forms, new symbols, new patterns on which a new society can be built.
Commitment and Doubt
Commitment is healthiest when it is not without doubt but in spite of doubt.
“Fully Human”
A man or a woman becomes fully human only by his or her choices and his or her commitment to them.
People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day by day.
These decisions require courage, lack of shame, boosted courage, self-esteem.
Your Central Need
Every organism has one and only one central need in life, to fulfill its own potential.
Self-actualization
To become everything one is capable of becoming.
Betraying Yourself
If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
