grief Flashcards
stages of grief
-Kübler Ross
denial
anger
bargaining
depression
acceptance
denial
shock, disbelief
anger
resentment, envy, blaming, idealized image of what was lost
-reality starts to settle in
bargaining
usually not visible
bargaining with God
depression
full impact of loss is felt
-sadness & grief : expected
acceptance
feelings of peace
resolution
-new life without entity lost
-pursue new interests/relationships
-regained sense of organization
anticipatory grieving
-experiencing feelings & emotions of the normal grieving process before loss actually occurs
-may become more intense as expected loss becomes imminent
maladaptive grief responses
-inability to progress through stages of grief & achieve resolution
-fixated in one of the stages of grief
delayed/inhibited grief
-remains in denial stage
-emotional pain is not experienced
-absence of evidence of grief
-“stiff upper lip”
-overreaction to another’s loss may be a sign
distorted/exaggerated grief
-remains in anger stage
-normal grieving feelings are exaggerated & out of proportion
-despair & pathological depression can result
chronic/prolonged grief
intense preoccupation with memories of the lost entity many years after loss