Funeral Service Psychology & Counseling Glossary Flashcards
the individual’s ability to adjust to the psychological and emotional changes brought on by a stressful event such as the death of a significant other.
Adaptation
external expression of emotion.
Affect
those appropriate and helpful acts of counseling that come after the funeral.
Aftercare (post-funeral counseling)
the intentional infliction of physical or psychological harm on another.
Aggression
the state of estrangement an individual feels in social settings that are viewed as foreign, unpredictable or unacceptable.
Alienation
providing a choice of services and merchandise available as families make a selection and complete funeral arrangements, formulating different actions in adjusting to a crisis.
Alternatives
blame directed towards another person.
Anger
grief where mourning customs are unclear due to an inappropriate death and the absence of prior bereavement experience.
Anomic grief
grief in anticipation of death or loss
Anticipatory grief
an emotion characterized by a vague fear or premonition that something undesirable is going to happen.
Anxiety
funeral director consulting with the family from the time the death occurs until the final disposition.
At-need counseling
the tendency to make strong affectional bonds with others coming from the need for security and safety.
Attachment (Bowlby)
giving undivided attention by means of verbal and non-verbal behavior. (listening)
Attending
a learned tendency to respond to people, objects, or institutions in a positive or negative way.
Attitude
the act or event of separation or loss that results in the experience of grief.
Bereavement
excessive in duration and never coming to a satisfactory conclusion.
Chronic grief
non-directive method of counseling which stresses the inherent worth of the client and the natural capacity for growth and health.
Client centered counseling (Rogers) - (person centered counseling)
from the Latin, “to know;” the study of the origins and consequences of thoughts, memories, beliefs, perceptions, explanations, and other mental processes.
Cognitive psychology
a general term for the exchange of information, feelings, thoughts and acts between two or more people, including both verbal and non-verbal aspects of this interchange.
Communication
grief that interferes with normal life functions without progressing towards resolution.
Complicated (abnormal, unresolved) grief
the necessary quality of a counselor being in touch with reality and other’s perception of oneself.
Congruence (Rogers)
characteristic ways of responding to stress.
Coping
the individual seeking assistance or guidance.
Counselee
advice, especially that given as a result of consultation.
Counseling (Webster)
any time someone helps someone else with a problem.
Counseling (Jackson)
good communication within and between men; or, good (free) communication within or between men is always therapeutic.
Counseling (Rogers)
a therapeutic experience for reasonably healthy persons. A counselor’s clients are encouraged to seek assistance before they develop serious neurotic, psychotic, or characterological disorders.
Counseling (Ohlsen)
the individual providing assistance and guidance.
Counselor
a highly emotional temporary state in which an individual’s feelings of anxiety, grief, confusion or pain impair his or her ability to act.
Crisis
interventions which help individuals in a crisis situation.
Crisis counseling
a learned emotional response to death-related phenomenon which is characterized by extreme apprehension.
Death anxiety
an often unconscious mental process used to defend against anxiety.
Defense mechanisms
inhibited, suppressed or postponed response to a loss.
Delayed grief (Worden)
the defense mechanism by which a person is unable or refuses to see things as they are because such facts are threatening to the self.
Denial
counselor takes an active speaking role, asking questions, suggesting courses of action.
Directive counseling
treating members of groups differently in circumstances where their rights or treatment should be identical.
Discrimination
redirecting feelings toward a person or object other than one who caused the feelings originally.
Displacement