from a survivor Flashcards
themes
suffering and survival
the oppression of women
marriage
intro
this poem is similar to the ones ive already considered and reviewed at is deals with the themes of suffering and survival, oppression of womena nd marriage
what is the this poem about
this poem is a deep person piece which reflects on her failed marriage and her ex husbands suicide
this poem is different as rich speaks directly to her husband instead of a reader
that our personalities could resist the failures of marriage
they had blind faith in their future and were convinced that their love was strong enough to overcome all the stumbling blocks that led to the failures of others
first line of poem
the pact that we made was an ordinary pact of men and of men in those days
poem opens with marriage vows in the ceremony
when rich directly speaks to her husband
your body is as vivid to me as ever it was even more
despite the fact that their relationship was far from ideal she still cared for the man and loves him evenafter they separated
coming to the end of the poem she mentions how if they were still together or if he was still alive they would be celebrating their 20th wedding anniversary
next year it would have been 20n years/ and you are wastefully dead
she believes that he wasted his like and he could have persevered if he had more courage
rich concludes of a positive note
she has found happiness at last in her new life
she is a survior and managed to come out of marriage unscathed