Friendship & Bullying Flashcards
Characteristics of friendship
Common interests Honesty Backgrounds Trust Fun Beliefs
Friends
Someone of similar age or status that is known and liked
Relationships
Connections you have with other people
Friendship progression
Strangers- stick to the facts
Acquaintance- “nice shirt” smile greet
Classmate- teacher assignment homework other classes
Inhibitors to friendships
Shyness
Loneliness
Anti-social Behavior
Definition of the 3 inhibitors
Shyness: feeling uncomfortable in social situations. Do not like to interact or express themselves around others
Loneliness: unpleasant painful anxious feelings associated to not having enough satisfying relationships in your life.
Anti-social Behavior: lack of desire to pursue connections with other people. Deviating from “normal” behavior.
Healthful
Mutual respect Raise in self esteem Fun Feel good Equal
Harmful
Bring you down Rumors Cross the line Gossip Insults Shunning Lower self esteem
Bullying
Intentional, repeated hurtful words, acts, or others behaviors committed by one or more individuals against another
Relational aggression
Emotional violence. Using relationships to harm others
Physical aggression
Harm through damage or threat to another’s physical well-being
Verbal aggression
Obvious or hidden verbal acts of aggression toward another individual
Overt aggression
Obvious, blatant acts or aggression
Covert aggression
Hidden acts of aggression
____% of people who are bullied at work wind up betting fired
75%