Finals Study Guide pt. 1 Flashcards
What are the components of Sternberg’s theory of love?
- Infatuation (passion)
- Fatuous love (passion + commitment)
- Empty love (commitment)
- Companionate (intimacy + commitment)
- Liking (intimacy)
- Romantic love (passion + intimacy)
- Consumate love (intimacy + passion + commitment)
What type of love is purely intimacy?
liking love
What type of love is passion & intimacy?
romantic love
What type of love is passion & commitment?
fatuous love
What type of love is purely commitment?
empty love
What type of love is intimacy & passion & commitment?
consumate love
What type of love is purely passion?
infatuation love
What type of love is intimacy & commitment?
companionate
What are the myths about love?
- exclusiveness
- selfless
- can’t love and be angry
- changing the person you love
- eternal
- constant closeness
- falling in/out of love
What is the definition of homogamy?
The tendency for people to marry others much like themselves
What are the five languages of love?
- Words of Affirmation
- Acts of Service
- Gifts
- Quality Time
5, Physical Touch
What are the five dimensions of how sexuality is formed?
- Individual Biological
- Individual Psychological
- Dyadic-communication between tow individuals about sexuality
- Family
- Sociocultural
True or False:
If I allow myself to become sexual, I will get into trouble
false
True or False:
My partner should know what I need intuitively without my asking
False
True or False:
Women are not as sexually desirable when they initiate sex
False
True or False:
It is possible to overcome negative conditioning about sexuality learned in childhood
true
True or False:
Your partner cannot know what you need intuitively without you asking
True
True or False:
If my partner really loved me, I would not have to tell him or her what I liked or wanted
false
True or False:
While being sexually free you must still act with a sense of guilt and restrictions
true
True or False:
Being sexually attracted to a person other than my partner implies that I don’t really find my partner sexually exciting
False
True or False:
Being attracted to someone of the same gender is normal
true
True or False:
The more physically attractive a person is, the more sexually exciting he or she is
False
True or False:
With the passage of time, some, if not most, sexual relationships are bound to lose a sense of excitement
False
List Lee’s six color’s of love.
- Red- Eros
- Orange-Agape
- Yellow- Storge
- Green-Pragma
- Blue- ludus
- Purple- mania
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is passionate love?
Eros (red)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is friendship/committed?
Storge (yellow)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is game playing?
Ludus (blue)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is obsessive and stalking?
Mania (purple)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is practical?
Pragma (green)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is selfless love?
Agape (orange)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is erotic & passionate love?
Eros (red)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is an immediate attraction?
Eros (red)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one has an idealized partner?
Eros (red)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is built over time?
Storge (yellow)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one states that friendship is key?
Storge (yellow)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is similar to companionate love?
Storge (yellow)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is built on stability and comfort?
Storge (yellow)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one states that you “play the game of love”?
Ludus (blue)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is about enjoying the act of seduction?
Ludus (blue)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one does not value intimacy?
Ludus (blue)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one often juggles more than one relationship at a time?
Ludus (blue)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is dependent and possessive?
Mania (purple)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is a dramatic rollercoaster?
Mania (purple)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one fears separation?
Mania (purple)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one might be the type to“wait by the phone”?
Mania (purple)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one plans everything?
Pragma (green)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one has a shopping list of qualities?
Pragma (green)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one can assess qualities and make the best “deal”?
Pragma (green)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one is patient and never demanding?
Agape (orange)
According to Lee’s six colors of love, which one doesn’t need reciprocity?
Agape (orange)
According to Lee’s six colors of love:
Men are less likely to have _______ love, and more likely to have _______ love.
agape
ludus
According to Lee’s six colors of love:
Women are less likely to have ______ love, and more likely to have _________ love.
ludus
pragmatic
According to Lee’s six colors of love:
It is more socially acceptable for men to have _______ or _______ love style.
It is more socially acceptable for women to have ______ love style.
Eros
ludus
agape