final (last 2 weeks) Flashcards
what is moral self-licensing?
people use the fact that they acted morally in the past to excuse your future immoral actions
what kind of faces do we find more attractive?
familiar faces
explain the dyadic reciprocity effect in romantic interest
- Angela is more interested in Ben than in other men attendees
- Makes her more appealing to Ben
what is the matching hypothesis when it comes to dating?
you might seek someone at the same attractiveness level as you even if you would desire someone more attractive, as a compromise to avoid rejection
is the matching hypothesis true?
no, people don’t seek out people that match their attractiveness. But, they might end up with less attractive people.
why do people prefer attractive people?
- assumptions that preety people and socially skilled
- aestetically pleasing
what makes men vs women attractive?
- Women- large eyes, small nose, small chin, prominent cheekbones, narrow cheeks, high eyebrows, large pupils, large smile.
- Men- large eyes, cheekbones and chins
why do we prefer familiar faces?
it conveys reproductive fitness more
what kind of faces are seen as more familiar and preffered?
Prototype faces: Prototypic humans probably seen as genetically higher value
what is the repulsion hypothesis?
on a first impression, we try to rule OUT who we dislike.
First impression is about dissimilarity
explain theory of percieved similarity?
if you like the person, you are more likely to percieve that they are similar to you… it goes both ways
for short term relationships, both women and men prefer what in their partner? (20$)
physical attractivenes
for long term relationship, women and men each prefer what? (20$)
men: phys attractiveness
women: warmth
what change when you give people 40$ instead of 20$ to “spend” on their ideal partner?
men put more money towards warmth, instead of attractiveness
women see what kind of men as attractive vs desirable?
dominant men as attractive, warm/sweet men as desirable
how do people with high perceived vulnerability to disease (PVD) act in speed dating?
- less open to meeting others
- others see them at less friendly
what happened to people’s interest in others when primed with disgusting facts?
less interest in getting to know confederates
what is feeling in cool STATE REFERRING TO?
cool state: easy to resist temptations
name 2 ways in which we express positive bias toward our partners
✤Can see our partners better than average
✤Can project an idealized view onto our view of our partners. You project onto your partner the characteristics of your ideal partner
people are more likely to rate their partner as higher than their partner rate themselves, except in what relationships?
except for men in dating relationship
in what cases do men in dating relationships have the better-than-average-partner effect?
If men thought of relationship as part of his identity: they rated their girlfriend more positively
what causes people to define themselves more in term of their relationship?
if they had positive relationship experiences in the past
what is the reality path of perception of partner?
partner self = perception of partner
what are the construction paths of perception of partner?
- myself = perception of partner (projection of your own self image)
- ideal partner = perception of partner (projection of ideal)
what types of qualities are easier vs harder to construe in a biased way?
- global = easier to bias (ex kind)
- specific = harder to bias (ex how oftenhe cooks)
what is the Projected Illusions Hypothesis?
I am happy as long as I see my partner as better than they think they are. Idealizing your partner = happy!
What is the Reflected Illusions Hypothesis?
I am happy as long as my partner thinks of me as better than I think of myself! Partner idealizing me = happy!
How does relationship illusions help you according to the buffering hypothesis?
positive feelings from your partner help withstand inevitable negative relationship events
How does relationship illusions help you according to the reflected appraisal hypothesis?
Individuals come to see themselves through their partner’s eyes.
How does relationship illusions help you according to the transformational hypothesis?
links partner’s fault with vitures
when they studied the buffering hypothesis and successfullness of relationships, what did they find?
Illusions do help to buffer stress!
MEN with low illusions (high negativity about the relationship) did not stay in relationships. Men with high illusions did.
what did studies on Reflected Appraisals Hypothesis show?
Reflecting your partner’s position view of yourself can have positive impact! Self-fulfilling prophecy
how does women’s self esteem affect their male partner?
- high self-esteem = happier hubby
- low self-esteem = sad hubby
what happened to couples who read an article about how conflict and differences are a good thing in relationships?
they reported increased conflict and differences in their relationships
what are the 2 hypothesis about low vs high self esteem people in relationships?
- low self esteem = contamination hypothesis: assume partners share their disappointment
- high self-esteem = compensation hypothesis: you compensate for self doubts by embelishing relationship
high self esteem people anticipate what type of love from their partner?
unconditional acceptance
what happens to low vs high self esteem people’s rating of their partner after they recieved a threat (think about one time you disapointed your partner)?
- high self esteem: rated their partner better and having more love for you (compensation)
- low self-esteem: rated their partner worst and having less love for you (contamination)
how did low vs high SE participants react to their partner writing a long list of negative traits about them?
- high SE: confused. increased positive feelings about partner (compensation)
- low SE: Significant decrease in feelings about partner (contamination)
how do low SE people interpret problems or ambiguous situation in relationship?
low love and commitment from partner, leading to self protective strategies
Micheloangeloa effect is better for who?
low SE people, hopefully their partner can bring their qualities out
in a study on implicit vs explicit measures of newly married couples, what predicted change in marrital happiness?
the implicit measures right after they got married
explain the monkey study that shows evidence for the need to belong
monkeys preferred the fake mother that could give comfort over the one who gave food
having strong social relatonship increase what?
odds of survival, as much as stopping smoking
what are communal vs exchange relationships?
- communal = sense of responsibility, more long term relationships
- exchange = feel little responsibility, more short term
many social psychologist believe that all relationships are based to a certain extent, on what?
rewards
what is the social exchange theory?
how people feel about a relationship depends on the cost and reward ratio from that relationship
what is comparison level?
expectations people have about what they should get out of a relationship
what is the equity theory?
opposite to social exchange theory: people are motivated to pursue fairness in relationships (same ratio of cost/rewards for both people)
what cutlures is the social exchange theory mostly applied?
individualistic/egalitarian cultures
what is a sign of secure attachment in children?
they feel comfortable exploring new environments
what are the 3 textbook attachment styles?
- secure: easily gets close to others
- avoidant: uncomfortable getting too close
- anxious-ambivalent: othersoften don’t want to get as close as i would like. scared of loosing people.
in another attchment theory, what are the 2 dimensions of attachment?
- anxiety: how worried you are about rejection
- avoidance: how comfortable you are with intimacy and dependance
are attachment styles flexible?
yes!
they can vary through time or in different relationships
how did they study the role of proximity and attraction?
built a housing project of apartment buildings built to have some people closer to eachother, and looked at relationships formed
what is more decisive in relationships about proximity, functional or physical distance?
functional distance
what is the mere exposure effect?
the more you are exposed to something, the more you tend to like it
what did zajonc proove with different studies?
the mere exposure effect is true! fo faces, words, music for rats, paintings, etc
what is one exception about the mere exposure effect?
- it does not apply to auditory stimuli
- does not work for a stimuli you dislike
hypothesis of why mere exposure effect is real?
2 reasons: processing of known stimuli is more fluent, so more desirable. Associate the stimulus with the absence of negative consequence.
the similarity of engaged couples is strongly in what domains?
stronger for demographic characteristics and physical characteristic.
weaker for personality traits
interacial couples are more similar in what?
personality traits (compensate)
3 reasons why we like poeple similar to us
- we assume positive qualities of someone similar to us
- feel more certain about being liked
- more rewarding interactions
when does the complementary hypothesis work for attraction?
when the opposite traits alow the other’s needs to be met
what hypothesis supports the complementary hypothesis in attraction?
status exchange hypothesis: romantic attraction increases when 2 individuals offer each other elevated status where they are each lacking
what actions can make us be seen as more attractive?
warm eye contact and warm smile
what is the halo effect?
common belief that attractive people possess a host of positive qualities beyond their physical appearance
how are attractive people seen in independant vs interdependent cultures?
independent: dominant, assertive
interdependent: generous, sensitive, empathic
what is reproductive fitness?
capacity to pass one’s genes on to subsequent generations
what kind of faces are seen as more attractive?
symmetrical faces with average characteristics
social explanation to why women are more attracted to wealthy men?
women don;t have as much control over material resources and are more vulnerable economically
in what countries was the pattern of men seaking beautiful women and women seeking rich men more pronounced?
in cultures with greater gender inequalities
3 types of love in the textbook
- companionate: friends and family (trust, share similarities with)
- compassionate: parents and spouse (looking out for the other’s needs)
- romantic: intense emotion and sexual desire
explain the investment model of commitment
determinants that make partners more committed to each other:
1. relationship satisfaction
2. few alternative partners
3. investments in the relationship
are the 3 constucts of investement model of commitment dependent on one another?
no they are independent
what is the percieved partner responsiveness and how does it relate to investement model of commistment?
level to which people see their partner as understanding and validating. it correlates positively with the 3 constructs (satisfaction, few alternatives, and investment)
3 things that correlate with dissatisfaction in relationships
- neurotic
- low self-esteem
- sensitivity to rejection
why may low SES people have more trouble in relationships?
they prioritize self protection over connection
what are the 4 behaviors most harmful relationships?
criticism, stonewalling, defensiveness, contempt
how did they find the 4 behaviors most harmful relationships?
made couples talk about an issue for 15 minutes. coded their interaction, and then reached back 14 yrs later to see if they were divorced