FINAL EXAM HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS Flashcards

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what are two biological ways in which the formation of human relationships can be explained?

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evolutionary factors and
biological processes like hormones and pheromones

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how can evolutionary factors explain the formation of human relationships

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Natural selection
Members of the species who have characteristics more suited to the environment are more likely to live and pass on their genes
Sexual selection
Part of natural selection, sexual selection is how the best mate is chosen to produce the healthiest offspring
Intersexual selection
Members of one sex (usually females) choosing a mate based on a specific characteristic
Intrasexual Selection
Competition of one sex (usually males) for access to mates, usually the strongest wins

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study to support evolutionary explanations of formation of human relationships

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Buss et al (1989)

Evolutionary arguments argue that men and women may have different goals when choosing a mate.
Phenomenon studies by Buss et al in 1989

Procedure

Test three evolutionary assumptions about human mate selection with a large cross cultural sample
Men search for high reproductive value, so they will value youth and physical appearance
Women search for men who will invest in their offspring, so they look for a man with resources
As men do not want to invest in another man’s child, chastity will be valued
Used a large sample of over 10 000 participants from 33 countries, with an average age of 23
The sampling techniques were different for each country
Each participant was given two surveys
First survey: biographical data, and then info such as when would they prefer to marry, ideal age gap between self and spouse etc and then asked to rate 18 characteristics on a scale of 0 to 3
Second survey: 13 characteristics that needed to be ranked in terms of desirability
Surveys given in language of participants

Results:
Women valued good financial prospects in mates more than males did
Males preferred younger women, who were at an age closer to peak fertility
Females preferred mates older than themselves
Males valued physical attractiveness more than women, though this is not statistically significant
Not all samples valued chastity

→ tie all these results back to the content

Evaluation:

Samples cannot be generalized to the entire countries, as people from a lower socioeconomic status were not represented
Sample was very diverse and wide, cross cultural validity
There were difficulties with construct validity, as some questions were not transferable to all cultures (such as questions about marriage)
Surveys helped to collect numerical data, but there may be differences in interpretations of the scales, therefore low amount of empirical evidence
Surveys in the language of the participant, and used back translation to prevent mistakes
Results do not tell us why these preferences exist (genetic or sociocultural?)
Temporal validity

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how biological processes can explain the formation of human relationships

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Oxytocin: hormone plays a role in the first stages of bonding’ (parent/infant) and in love and attachment
Vasopressin: hormone plays a role in long term and stable pair bonding in prairie voles
Hormones, and the Major Histocompatibility Complex (MHC) could play a role, related to body odor, genes, and immune system
Parents with differences in their MHC will pass on a stronger immune system to their children
Therefore people will look for partners who have a different MHC than themselves, so they can produce stronger offspring

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study to support how biological processes can affect the formation of human relationships

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Wedekind (1995)

Procedure:
The aim of the study was to determine whether one’s MHC would affect mate choice
49 female and 44 male university students from Switzerland
Each participant was “typed” for their MHC, and a wide variance of MHC was included in the sample
The participants were from different courses and likely did not know each other
The men were asked to wear a T-shirt for two nights and to keep the T-shirt in an open plastic bag during the day.
Asked to refrain from any activities that would result in a smell (perfume, smoking, alcohol etc)
Two days later, the women were asked to rank the smell of 7 t-shirts
The women were tested whenever possible in the second week after the beginning of menstruation, as women appear to be most odor-sensitive at this time.
The women were also asked to prepare themselves for the experiment by using a nose spray for the 14 days before the experiment to support regeneration of the nasal mucous membrane if necessary –
as well as a preventive measure against colds or flu

Results:
Women scored male body odors as more pleasant when they differed from their own MHC than when they were more similar
Suggests that MHC influences human mate choice

Evaluation:
Supports the evolutionary argument
Successfully replicated
Theory is too reductionist, ignores everything else
Double blind, minimized demand characteristics
Very artificial, low ecological validity
Low cross cultural validity, participants were very similar
Ethical considerations were respected

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evaluate biological approach to explaining human relationships

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Evaluation of this argument:

Based on assumptions that all the behaviors are inherited, which ones are genetic?
Difficult to test empirically, can lead to confirmation bias
Studies often highly artificial and lack ecological validity as they try to isolate variables
Studies underestimate role of cultural influences
Reductionist approach
Focused on “what happens” and not “why it happens”

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what are the cognitive ways in which human relationships can be explained

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familiarity models and the role of self esteem

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familiarity models and how they can explain human relationships

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Similarity Attraction Model
those whom we perceive to be similar to ourselves are more attractive to us
Couples are more similar in age, social class, personality, education, physical attractiveness etc
Matching Hypothesis
Individuals will assess their own attractiveness and find partners who match their levels
Internal Working Model
as children we form schemas based on our first bonded relationship
the process of forming attachments is based on experience, memory, and thinking
The Halo Effect
how we make the decision of whether we like someone or not comes down to System 1 thinking
A person’s physical attractiveness might influence our judgment of them
Mere exposure effect
We like things that we see repeatedly

Reciprocity Models:

Reciprocity
we like those who like us

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study to support how familiarity models can explain human relationships

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Newcomb (1961)

Procedure:
The aim was to test the similarity attraction hypothesis , idea that people are attracted to people similar to themselves
17 male students from a US university asked to fill questionnaire about attitudes and values
More questionnaires were completed over the course of the semester
The variables measured were attraction between the students and attitude changes
Results:
Attraction shifted to those who most closely matched the participant’s attitudes
The students had also been paired up with roommates who shared their attitudes
This research offers some support for the idea that we gravitate towards those who share similar views to our own.
58% of participants who had been paired with a room-mate with similar attitudes had formed friendships compared to 25% with roommates who expressed different attitudes

Evaluation:
Played out in real time with no manipulation from the researchers, high ecological validity
Study has been successfully replicated
Small sample size, only 17 people
All male US students, low generalizability
Questionnaires, might have been some social desirability bias

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study to support the role of self esteem in role of formation of relationships

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Kiesler and Baral (1970)

Aim: experiment to test whether self-esteem has an effective on partner selection
To see if the people seek a partner that is similar to them and how factors could influence a person’s perception and thus who they would pick as a partner (mate)

A sample of men was given a fake IQ test. Some of them were told that they did an excellent job. Some were told that they did not do good. Immediately after, they had the opportunity to meet a very attractive woman or a moderately attractive woman (same woman but in different makeup and hairstyle).
The study showed that the men who had recently had their self-esteem elevated showed more romantic behaviour toward the attractive female than those who had had their self-esteem challenged. Those with lower self-esteem showed more romantic behaviour toward the moderately attractive female.

Evaluation:
“Attractiveness” is very different to everyone
Low generalizability
Temporal validity
Ethical considerations: undue stress or ham (could be hurt when told that they are stupid)
How is “romantic behaviour” operationalized and measured

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how can self esteem affect the formation of relationships

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Also related to reciprocity
The fact that people like us validates our self esteem

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what is an evaluation of the cognitive explanation of relationship formation

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Difficult to operationalize a variable such as “self esteem”
Can look different on people
How it is expressed is also very individualised
The inability to isolate factors in the study of relationships;
use of prospective vs retrospective studies;
sampling bias in the research.
Unlike biological theories, cognitive theories account for personal differences in attraction.
Some of the constructs are difficult to measure. It is not, for example, possible to identify one’s “internal working model.”
Factors influencing relationship formation are impossible to isolate under natural conditions.
The approach may be considered overly simplistic when not used in combination with other approaches to understanding human relationships (everything that is psychological is biological)

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explain how sociocultural factors can explain formation of relationships

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Sociocultural Explanations:
No denying that culture also affects cognition, and therefore how one chooses a partner
Deep culture: part of the more implicit set of values/attitudes/norms that make a culture
Linking back to Buss, characteristics were ranked differently in terms of importance in different countries
For example in the US mutual love was ranked first
In china chastity and domestic skills ranked higher
Mere exposure effect
We like those we see more often more
Cultural dimensions, especially when considering individualistic/collectivistic cultures
Individualistic cultures tend to place more importance on romantic love, and that its disappearance is enough to end a marriage
So more like personal pleasures

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study to support sociocultural explanations of HR formation

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Dion and Dion
Procedure:

Aim: examine influence of individualistic/collectivistic on romantic love and intimacy in marriage
Meta analysis on research done in two individualistic cultures (US and Canada) and three collectivistic cultures (India, China and Japan)

Results:
Suggested ways in which individualism or collectivism could influence personal relations
Romantic love is more likely to be basis of marriage in indi. Cultures
Intimacy also more about satisfaction with marriage and personal wellness
Culture plays a role, but acculturation is changing that
Temporal validity, changes, internet immigration etc

Evaluation:

Since meta analysis, increases sample size
Based on evidence
Can lead to confirmation bias
Combines studies, which may ignore the important differences between studies

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another study to support sociocultural arguments of HR formation

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Moreland and Beach

Field experiment to test the validity of the mere exposure effect
130 undergraduate psychology students
All were taking the course in a large lecture hall
The experiment used “confederates” (=accomplices)
4 women who posed as students in that hall
Each woman attended a different number of class sessions: 0,5,10 or 15
Which sessions to attend was chosen randomly

One of the women arrived at the lecture hall a few minutes before class began, walked slowly down toward the front of the hall, and sat where she could be seen by all the other students. Repeated for all conditions
A few minutes after class ended, the woman rose, walked slowly up toward the back of the hall, and left. In order to create conditions of mere exposure, none of the women was allowed to interact with the other students.
Only listened and took notes
At the end of the semester, the participants were shown slides of the four women and asked to fill in a survey in which they were asked to rank the women on a 1 - 7 scale for several traits - including attractiveness, popularity, intelligence, warmth, honesty, and success. They were also asked whether they knew the woman or if she was familiar.

The data indicated that male and female students responded to the four women in similar ways. Sex was therefore not a confounding variable

The participants did not find the women familiar, however, the more classes a woman attended, the more positive traits she was believed to have.

It appears that the Mere Exposure Effect also may be observed under naturalistic conditions.

Link back to theory:
We learn surrounded by our own culture, generally (except exceptions)
The more we are exposed to something the more we like it
That is why people tend to prefer people from their own cultures: they have simply been more exposed to that

evaluation:

Field experiment
Participants do not know they are being studied, less likelihood of demand characteristics
More likely to reflect what would happen in real life
Deception
Low cross cultural validity/generalizability →very specific sample
But, then, it may be harder to control confounding variables and isolate variables specifically

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evaluation in sociocultural explanation of HR formation

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Some of the constructs are difficult to measure with empirical evidence
It’s impossible to isolate relationship factors under natural conditions… people don’t behave normally when we’re watching → demand characteristics
Oversimplification - needs to be coupled with other approaches to understanding relationships.
Cultural research has tendency to stress differences between cultures where there might be similarities
Cultures change over time
Studies based on questionnaires and surveys, demand characteristics
Much research is etic in nature
Lab studies are very artificial
Factors that influence relationship formation are impossible
Studies have poorly defined variables
Temporal validity of the studies
Studies can be easily replicated
What about globalization, the internet, is there the formation of a “global culture”?

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what is the argument for the role of communication in HR

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Communication plays a key role in all aspects of human relationships. Poor communication is oftentimes a
symptom rather than a cause for the end of a relationship.

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what are the three parts of explaining the role of communication in HR formation

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social penetration theory
attribution theory
what happens when communication is ineffective

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explain social penetration theory

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Social Penetration Theory by Altman and Taylor
As relationships develop, communication moves from relatively shallow, non intimate levels to deeper, more personal ones.
Over time in relationships there are greater discussion of emotions and feelings as well as self-doubt and concerns regarding identity
Orientation Stage: small talk, simple information that does not reveal vulnerability
Exploratory Stage: reveal more about personal feelings and opinions, but still play it “safe”
Affective Stage: beginning to share information of a private/personal nature, physical intimacy often happens here
Stable Stage: one feels he can be open/honest with a partner, there is trust, you can gauge the emotional reaction of the other person
Depenetration: when a relationship starts to break down and there is withdrawal of disclosure

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study to support social penetration theory

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Collins, Miller and Steinberg (1994) - Self Disclosure

Aim: To investigate link between self-disclosure and liking

Procedure:
Various meta-analysis (50 studies) correlations, experiment (lab/field)

Argue different levels of disclosure:
orientation stage (small talk) low risk
exploratory stage (feelings/opinions/safe topic) friendship
affective stage (personal/private info)
stable stage (trust, honesty, openness) developed, can predict emotion reactions of each other
self disclosure-> if partner is interested/not critical -> feelings of self-validation of benefit from relationship (according to the cost benefit model) => social exchange theory

Conclusion:
1) People like those who disclose to them
2) People disclose more to those they like (the strongest correlation)
3) People like others as a result of disclosure

Evaluation:
+ empirical evidence for social penetration theory
- no cause and effect
+ reliability of findings and generalisation from large sample
- gender bias, only 15 studies used both male and female and only 11 tested gender differences
+ distinguished between 3 different disclosure-liking relations and were investigated separately
-/+ meta-analysis -> publication bias/skewed data, can reduce long, expensive and potentially intrusive repeated research studies
- gender and cultural bias
- lack of ecological validity

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evaluate social penetration theory

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difficult to determine a cause and effect relationship between disclosure and the health of a relationship - could be that disclosure is a result of a healthy relationship, rather than a cause of one.

A large amount of the research on this topic has been conducted on Western women - sampling bias.
men and women appear to have different patterns of disclosure - so is the theory overly simplistic
Using only this one argument to explain the health of a relationship is reductionist.
Times have changed - social media might be changing the way we communicate (high degree of depth, but lacking in breadth)

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explain attribution theory

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Attribution Theory: The theory states that we understand the behaviours of ourselves and others in relationships by attributing behaviours to causes.
Generally these are situational (outside factors) or dispositional (personal factors).
How we attribute (explain) the behaviour of our partner can have a serious effect on the quality of our relationships (how much forgiveness or empathy we have among spouses, for example).
Healthy relationships are characterised by an attributional style with a positive bias toward your partner, meaning you assume best intent and attribute positive things to being dispositional and negative things to being situational

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supporting evidence for attribution theory

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Fincham O’leary (1983)

aim of this study was to measure correlations between attributions and marital satisfaction
130 mostly white couples from small towns in the Mid-West USA, married for 1-2 years
Marital satisfaction was measured using the Quality Marriage Index (QMI) and data was collected over three times using questionnaires during an 18th month time period
When partners make a negative attribution of their partner’s behaviour (e.g. by explaining a negative behaviour was due to dispositional and internal factors) their marital satisfaction decreases
one reason why relationships might deteriorate and eventually end in divorce

Demand characteristics, self reported data
Relatively new couples, what about people who have been married for longer?
Low cross cultural validity

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evaluate attribution theory

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Not clear in research whether that pattern of attribution is a permanent state of mind, or just a character trait
There is a direct causal link made between attribution style and relationship satisfaction - but there could be other factors and that link might not be so direct.

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explain what happens when communication is not effective

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Claim: Effective communication in conflict is crucial to manage conflicts in a relationship

Gottman’s “The Sound Relationship House”
A model created by Gottman that suggests that a strong relationship is built like a house
There are seven “floors”
One of them is “Managing conflict”
Talks about how having the skills to manage conflict and communicate well is crucial to maintaining a healthy relationship

the four horsemen of bad communication:
criticism: attacking partner’s character to show that you are right
contempt: attacking partner’s character with insult or abuse, seeing your partner as inferior
defensiveness: arguing against your partner’s concerns, seeing yourself as the victim
stonewalling: withdrawing from the discussion to avoid conflict

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gottman - the love lab

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Gottman - The Love Lab

Longitudinal research to describe the communication patterns of successful couples
Observed (and recorded) couples having a low-conflict conversation and a high-conflict conversation and at the same time measured physiological factors such as heart-rate, blood pressure and skin galvanization
From his research, Gottman suggests that he can predict likelihood a marriage will survive by watching communication patterns between the two people - the focus of his work is that if you can predict problems you can prevent them.
Gottman suggests that it is not frequency or intensity of arguments that dictate marital satisfaction, but patterns.
In the “Love Lab” couples are invited to spend a weekend in the lab, a normal apartment with cameras everywhere recording body language, discussions and behaviour, blood pressure and heart rate measured as well.
73 couples were followed for a four year period (men average age 30, women 28). They were brought into the “Love Lab”:
Couples hadn’t spoken for at least 8 hours (while at work)
Asked to discuss: what did you do during that day. This could be a source of conflict in the marriage or a mutually agreed pleasant topic
Rapid Couples Interaction Scoring System was developed that categorised couples into regulated or non-regulated groups.
Regulated couples reported higher marital satisfaction, more positive emotional expressions towards each other - this group was called the “masters” - 7% divorced during four year period
The non-regulated couples (called the “disasters”) - 19% divorced, more conflict engaging, more defensive, more stubborn, more whining, more withdrawn, less interested
Evaluation of this research - - - one critique is that most couples in the study are in crisis so research is retrospective

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evaluating gottman

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Strengths:

There is physiological as well as self-reported data to support the theory. A large amount of data.

Limitations:

Cross-sectional research rather than longitudinal research. Most people coming to the clinic are ready to end the relationship so the effect on healthy relationships is not clear.

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how would you answer the question: “Discuss why relationships change or end.”

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Use communication, but phrase it in the way that’s like.. Here’s what happens when communication doesn’t work

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how to answer this question:Discuss approaches to research (methods) in the study of personal relationships.

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Focus on: why does the method matter?

Gottman - the love lab
Has many different methods
Highlights how human relationships are very complex
Longitudinal
Recognises that the entirety of a relationship cannot be captured in a single day/session

Overt observation of body language, discussion and behavior
But also empirical evidence:
Blood pressure, heart rate

Possibility for demand characteristics due to the overt nature, they know they are being watched
Explored link between behavior and the physiological response

Increased reliability because he used method triangulation

Observation can lead to confirmation/researcher bias

Moreland and beach

Field experiment

Stronger reliability, because manipulated variable: how many times the confederate attended the class

Same behavior for each replicate, easier replicability and reliability

Better way to see what would happen in a naturalistic setting
Lower possibility for demand characteristics, participants do not know that they are being investigated

But then it is harder to control confounding/external variables

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how to answer the question: Discuss ethical considerations in the study of personal relationships.

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The 7 ethical considerations in psychology:
Informed consent
Anonymity
Right to withdraw
Debrief
Deception
Undue stress or harm
Confidentiality

Gottman:

Consent
Anonymity
Gottman: use personal problems as data, lots of video data
Undue stress or harm → could harm the relationship, forcing them to talk about embarrassing things
Right to withdraw

Moreland and beach:

Field experiment
Did not know they were being experimented on
Used “confederates”
Consent and deception

Was it worth it? Was it necessary?