final exam Flashcards

1
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2 types of questioning responses

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closed: for yes/no answers or precise information
open: for more information or elaboration

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2
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empathy formula

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you feel because
youre feeling because

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examples of questioning responses

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closed: what is your cats name?
open: what is your cat like?

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4
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what is paraphrasing

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to confirm with the speaker that you have been listening and heard them correctly

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5
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3 parts of a perception check

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  1. Description of behaviour
  2. 2 possible interpretations of behaviour
  3. Request feedback
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4 steps of perception process

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Selection
Organization
Interpretation
Negotiation

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Selection

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of the data we will pay attention or notice
Depends on:
Intensity
repetition
contrast
change
motives
emotional state

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Organization/observations

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of the data that we notice into a meaningful packages
organizing perceptions of people and events
split into:
physical traits
role based
interaction-based
psychological
past experiences

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Interpretation

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making sense of the data that we have constructed
Dependent on:
degree of involvement
relational satisfaction
past experiences
assumptions about human behaviour
expectations and knowledge of others

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Negotiation

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process by which communicators influence one another’s perceptions through communication
only one that informs other peoples perceptions

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11
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difference between sympathy and empathy

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s: feeling bad or good for someone, having compassion
e: feeling bad or good with someone, experiencing it with them

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12
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“I” language

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takes responsibility for personal feelings
less defence provoking
can be egotistical or self absorbed

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13
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“We” language

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signals inclusion and commitment
can speak improperly for others

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14
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“you” language

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signals other orientation, particularly when topic is positive
can be judgemental or accusatory esp during confrontation

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passive

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  1. Inability or unwillingness to express thoughts or feelings in a conflict
  2. Often comes from lack of confidence, awareness, or skill
  3. Sometimes people are aware but choose to behave passively
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16
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aggression

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Lashing out to attack source of displeasure
Non-verbal emblems (shaking fist, waving arms)
Character attacks
Swearing
Ridicule
Can result in a destructive spiral

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17
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assertion

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Facing conflict directly, trying to find solutions that meet needs of everyone in relationship
Speaker’s statement expresses thoughts and feelings clearly, without attacking the other person

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18
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What is Communication Climate?

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The social tone of the relationship
How people feel about each other while completing a task/activity
positive or negative, can change over time

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Benefits of Teams

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Increased problem solving
Improved effectiveness
Improved accuracy/competency

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Disadvantage of Teams

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May build resentment if one team member doesn’t contribute as much as others (social loafing)
Group think
Longer Process

21
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Group think

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when peoples desire for harmony overrides good decision making

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Feedback

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information given by one person to another, describing their behavior and the effect of their behavior

23
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Why Give Feedback?

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Helps to build respect and trust
Improves team performance
Allows for opportunities to grow and for positive change
Helps us to understand ourselves better

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what to consider when Giving Feedback

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Describe your feelings/wants without judgment, focus on behaviour
Use I statements
Avoid generalizations
Look for solutions with the person
Be clear and honest about requests
No hidden agenda

25
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4 different methods of conflict resolution/management

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WIN-LOSE (COMPETITION) OR LOSE-WIN (ACCOMMODATION)
LOSE-LOSE (AVOIDANCE)
COMPROMISE
WIN-WIN (COLLABORATION)

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WIN-WIN (COLLABORATION)

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Collaborative problem-solving
approach
goal is to find a solution that satisfies the needs of everyone
Work together to find that solution

27
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3 levels of confirming communication and 2 levels of disconfirming communication

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confirming:
recognition
acknowledgement
endorsement
disconfirming:
aggressive
ostracism

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recognition

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“i see you, you see me”
indicating your awareness of the other person
(eye contact, “hello”)

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acknowledgement

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paying attention to what theyre saying and how they feel

30
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endorsement

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agreeing or supporting the persons ideas/feelings

31
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aggressive

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demeans worth of other person and damages the relationship

32
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ostracism

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ignoring someone or excluding them from a group

33
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electronic communication disadvantages

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greater likelihood of miscommunication
no nonverbals, can lead to misinterpretation
may forget to be polite, higher possibility
of hurt feelings

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electronic communication advantages

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chance to think about a response before sending, message can be changed
evidence of communication is
available long term

35
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face to face advantages

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observing non-verbal communication
Chance to clarify perceptions of non-
verbal communication
better for delivering negative messages
better for meetings and team building

36
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face to face disadvantages

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in the moment, less time to think before speaking
Emotions might be heightened or escalate
Have to organize meet ups

37
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five things to remember when emailing other professionals

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clear and concise message on the Subject Line
Start with a greeting
complete sentences with grammar and spelling
Maintain a level of formality
Send to the right recipient

38
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2 guidelines to adhere by or remember when using social media

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never refer to a client even when the name isn’t mentioned
don’t assume deleted content is no longer accessible

39
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asynchronous communication

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occurs when there is a time gap between when the message was sent and when it was received

40
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synchronous communication

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happens in real time

41
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Stereotype

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harmful assumptions that generalize cultures

42
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Prejudice

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unfair bias against an outgroup

43
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Ethnocentrism

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belief your culture is superior