final exam Flashcards
4 types of martial love
free love
total love
faithful love
fruitful love
free love
love that is not controlled or manipulated by someone else or by a disordered desire. no one is forcing you to love; you love freely because you want to
total love
to love without conditions, holding back nothing. one makes a gift of themself to another (total self-donation) in total love
faithful love
love that is committed. the commitment that guides all other actions. you keep your promises once they have been made, no matter how your feelings have changed
fruitful love
love that is life-giving, because it is free, total, and faithful. it is ordered toward procreation in the physical realm and is life-giving in the spiritual and emotional realm as well
abstinence
the action of self-control that avoids (or “abstains” from) something. in this case, abstinence means participating in sexual intercourse
celibacy
also known as celibacy for the kingdom. it is the state of not being married; it is a free choice to not marry on earth and to devote oneself entirely to the marriage of Heaven
chastity
the virtue that frees us from the selfish attitude of using others, which makes us capable of love. it includes purity of mind, body, and heart, and helps us to order our sexual desires according to our own dignity and the dignities of other people
contraception
every action before, during, or after sexual intercourse that deliberately attempts to impede its pro creative potential. acts like these are intrinsically evil and always morally unacceptable
discernment
also known as discernment of God’s plan. it is listening for the voice of God through prayer and the counsel of others in an effort to discover His desire for ourselves
love
a decision to “will the good of another” person. john paul II echoes this same definition in some of his writing on love and adds that it involves a sincere gift of oneself to others
lust
sexual desire apart from God’s love. it is a selfish desire that seeks one’s own pleasure at the expense of another; it is “disordered desire for or inordinate enjoyment of sexual pleasure” (CCC 2351)
natural family planning
a natural, moral, and effective method for achieving or postponing pregnancy that involves charting a woman’s fertility rather than suppressing it
natural law
God’s word that is written on our hearts
objectify
to treat someone as a thing rather than as a person through actions that disregard their inherent dignity as a human
pride
the tendency with eve and adam (and all of us) to prefer our wills to the will of God. this is the root of all moral evil in the world
redemption
the ransom of humanity from the slavery of sin to a new life of freedom through the sacrificial death of Christ on the Cross
theology of the body
a study of God, the purpose of existence, and the call to love like God loves, as discovered and explained through our bodies
utilitarianism
there are several versions of utilitarianism, but in this case, it is the maximizing of pleasure and the minimizing of pain, often at the expense of others. when applied in relationships, one can end up using a person for one’s own gain. if the one’s only goal for sexual encounters is pleasure, the other person become a means to that end
vocation
a call from God to live a life of holiness in a particular manner and state of life, making a sincere gift of self to God in a permanent way
theological virtues
faith
hope
charity/love
faith
theological virtue that enables us to believe in Gos, all He has said and revealed to us, and all that the Church proposes for our belief because Gos is truth itself
hope
theological virtue that enables us to desire Heaven and eternal life, trusting in Christ’s promises and relying on the help of the Holy Spirit and his graces. (hope keeps us from getting discouraged when times get tough and lonely)
charity/love
theological virtue that is the greatest virtue of all that empowers us to love God over all thing for His own sake, and our neighbor as ourselves for the love of God. it enables us to observe the commandments and love everyone (even our enemies)
cardinal virtues
prudence
justice
temperance
fortitude
prudence
cardinal virtue that inclines us to lead good, moral, and ethical lives of action. as st. thomas aquinas put it: “right reason in action”
justice
cardinal virtue that involves relationships with others and our life in community. it gives both God and neighbor what is their due by right
temperance
cardinal virtue that regulates our attraction to pleasure and helps us to use God’s created goods in a balanced way